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[QUOTE=Mongerer88;2172969]I think you made an omission, Neurosynth. Those statistics are for condomless vaginal intercourse. The vast, vast majority of sex acts at German FKKs involving vaginal intercourse has the customer wearing a condom. [/QUOTE]My intention was to calculate the HIV risk for guys interested in AO. Of course it's safer to use a condom. But many would look at these numbers and conclude that AO is "safe enough. ".
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[QUOTE=RogueNation;2173259]I don't see a high risk for HIV in German P6 for mongers. BB or not. But there's many other nasty STDs around.[/QUOTE]HIV is of particular interest because it can't be cured, only controlled, and will still be potentially fatal. Most "nasty" STDs are treatable and properly treated not fatal.
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Getting the girls drunk to make them put out more is an interesting strategy. Never tried it. A few times one of my ex favs explicitly asked me to buy her a drink prior to the session and I did, but she seemed to handle it well and was not too much worse for it, and I could not tell if the service changed perceptably. One thing I will caution: alcohol may have an adverse impact on your own arousal and performance. There have been such occasions for me in the clubs however in those instances, I was tired and needed a drink and knew that I could not finish anyway.
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[QUOTE=SmokeLight;2173522]Myself I never have more than two beers paranoid about driving and police traps near FKKs late at night. However, casual chatting with girls often reveals their acceptance of a wider or better range of services after a drink or two. For example, it seems like they may enjoy more DATY, or DFK better when a bit drunk. Does anyone have a practical experience to prove? How much WG's behavior change (or not) with alcohol? What's the best strategy to convince a WG to buy her a drink in FKK? Asking these seemingly simple questions because most girls outright refuse proposals to buy them a drink before the room.[/QUOTE]Sometimes, when the session I begin, with some girls, I suspect these girls not just drinking, but taking some powder because way how they go crazy on you in room is fine by me, but it is abnormally aggressive, but such session is jack pot great one.
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[QUOTE=Jnpr30;2173709]Getting the girls drunk to make them put out more is an interesting strategy. Never tried it. A few times one of my ex favs explicitly asked me to buy her a drink prior to the session and I did, but she seemed to handle it well and was not too much worse for it, and I could not tell if the service changed perceptably. One thing I will caution: alcohol may have an adverse impact on your own arousal and performance. There have been such occasions for me in the clubs however in those instances, I was tired and needed a drink and knew that I could not finish anyway.[/QUOTE]Shark and Jnpr.
Thanks for interesting thoughts. I almost never drink alcohol in clubs, but one day I got a glass of good Klsch instead of alcohol free Bitburger at Samya by bartender's mistake and had it before my next room. It felt pleasant and relaxing and I had an enjoyable finish in less then 30 minutes with Anna. Since then sometimes I take one beer earlier in the day few hours before driving the car. Stronger drinks degrade my performance.
I hear from girls "If I drink, I'll do X" where X can be anal, CIM, swallow, or ass spanking as Shark16 has described, and so on. Sometimes I hear "but I do this only with my boyfriend". So it got me thinking to get them something stronger than cola to see how things shake up in the room.
Lily DV Dusseldorf once jumped in the pool in the middle of January back in 2014 when she was drunk and had group sex with two guys afterwards. I liked her until she got silicon in early 2017. Carla Samya french kisses better after 5 euro Mexican beer that she likes.
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[QUOTE=MrHo;2173713]Sometimes, when the session I begin, with some girls, I suspect these girls not just drinking, but taking some powder because way how they go crazy on you in room is fine by me, but it is abnormally aggressive, but such session is jack pot great one.[/QUOTE]Mr Ho,
Agree 100%, powder works magic on girls. I never do it, but if I know a girl took a line or two, crazy fucked up session is nearly guaranteed and not to be missed by a hardcore monger. Highly recommended LOL. But I want to experiment with drinks when I am back in Koeln late May / early June. Having WhatsApp chats with the girls and anticipation of good sex drives me crazy, counting days to get out of sex prison USA.
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Negative Effects of Porn
[QUOTE=KosherKowboy;2173016]I apologize and fear I am one of your guilty countrymen who fall for Brandi Love and a few like her (like Zoey Holloway and the Taboo Handjob series of step moms jerking off their sons.).
After my second to last trip to Oase after I could not cum in a condom once I purchased Brandi to help me.
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"Watching porn no longer arouses the person as much or as quickly. They then have to look at more porn or search for stronger porn to obtain the original sensation. " There is a condition called porn-induced-erectile dysfunction: [URL]https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/317117.php[/URL].
A lot of the hardcore mongers tell me that they can easily cum three times a day at home watching porn, needing only 5 minutes each time. But it is difficult to cum inside a condom with a WG, even during 60 minute session, on day one of their trip. Some guys have reported almost never. Some guys struggle to get 10 shots over a week long trip. One guy even told me that he pulled out his smartphone inside the room and watched with WG as he used his own hand to cum. I believe YamaYama was the one that reported that he leaves the club and goes back to the hotel to masturbate (don't remember him mentioning his porn habits).
Then you have some ongoing debate on the affects of Viagra. Some are convinced that Viagra keeps them erect, but makes it difficult to cum. Others report that Viagra has zero effect on one's ability to cum. For the guys who believe Viagra inhibits cumming, is it possible that they have a porn addiction? If so, I'd suggest popping a Viagra before watching porn. If it is difficult to pop, then indeed Viagra is the issue. If it is easy to pop, then perhaps they have just conditioned themselves so that porn arouses them more than partnered sex.
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[QUOTE=McAdonis;2173751]One guy even told me that he pulled out his smartphone inside the room and watched with WG as he used his own hand to cum.[/QUOTE]Key point: *in her mouth*.
LOL.
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[QUOTE=McAdonis;2173751]"Watching porn no longer arouses the person as much or as quickly. They then have to look at more porn or search for stronger porn to obtain the original sensation. " There is a condition called porn-induced-erectile dysfunction: [URL]https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/317117.php[/URL].
A lot of the hardcore mongers tell me that they can easily cum three times a day at home watching porn, needing only 5 minutes each time. But it is difficult to cum inside a condom with a WG, even during 60 minute session, on day one of their trip. Some guys have reported almost never. Some guys struggle to get 10 shots over a week long trip. One guy even told me that he pulled out his smartphone inside the room and watched with WG as he used his own hand to cum. I believe YamaYama was the one that reported that he leaves the club and goes back to the hotel to masturbate (don't remember him mentioning his porn habits).
Then you have some ongoing debate on the affects of Viagra. Some are convinced that Viagra keeps them erect, but makes it difficult to cum. Others report that Viagra has zero effect on one's ability to cum. For the guys who believe Viagra inhibits cumming, is it possible that they have a porn addiction? If so, I'd suggest popping a Viagra before watching porn. If it is difficult to pop, then indeed Viagra is the issue. If it is easy to pop, then perhaps they have just conditioned themselves so that porn arouses them more than partnered sex.[/QUOTE]I agree with this.
I think I have been there With the low volume sessions I take. Taking a girl on the first day of a 4 day trip then no girls after that until the 4th day taking another girl on the 4th day. Hell, I have even been downloading stuff while in the club to watch.
I spent all my time on sunbathing, wellness, eating, chatting with friends and swimming in the pool and reading my books. Did not bother with girls.
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[QUOTE=Jnpr30;2173709]Getting the girls drunk to make them put out more is an interesting strategy. Never tried it. A few times one of my ex favs explicitly asked me to buy her a drink prior to the session and I did, but she seemed to handle it well and was not too much worse for it, and I could not tell if the service changed perceptably. One thing I will caution: alcohol may have an adverse impact on your own arousal and performance. There have been such occasions for me in the clubs however in those instances, I was tired and needed a drink and knew that I could not finish anyway.[/QUOTE]You need to get them more alcohol.
I know of guys getting girls way drunk by buying bottles which some girls cannot resist. I get girls asking for a bottle of something usually with red bull.
Tequila is a good one to get the princesses really horny, man, kinkier room sessions as the girls are really open to suggestions as less inhibited and handys in the room taking films and pictures is not a problem for the girl. Good times.
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[QUOTE=McAdonis;2173751]"Watching porn no longer arouses the person as much or as quickly. They then have to look at more porn or search for stronger porn to obtain the original sensation. " There is a condition called porn-induced-erectile dysfunction: [URL]https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/317117.php[/URL].
A lot of the hardcore mongers tell me that they can cum three times a day at home watching porn no problem. But it is difficult to cum inside a condom with a WG. Some guys have reported almost never. Some guys struggle to get 10 shots over a week long trip. One guy even told me that he pulled out his smartphone inside the room and watched with WG as he used his own hand to cum.
Then you have some ongoing debate on the affects of Viagra. Some are convinced that Viagra keeps them erect, but makes it difficult to cum. Others report that Viagra has zero effect on one's ability to cum. For the guys who believe Viagra inhibits cumming, is it possible that they have a porn addiction? If so, I'd suggest popping a Viagra before watching porn. If it is difficult to pop, then indeed Viagra is indeed the issue. If it is easy to pop, then perhaps they have just conditioned themselves so that porn arouses them more than partnered sex.[/QUOTE]Agree! I have reported earlier that I had issues after years watching porn while using less and less US escorts. Thanks to FKKs, I recovered from porn side effects on cuming in condom nicely. The best cure was sensual DFK. Consistently, I feel 2 x or 3 x stronger orgasms when I finish in condom in a girl rather than in my hand. Beautiful and rewarding.
Yet even now I still have to watch porn almost every day to release myself in sex prison USA after testosterone-stimulating chats with our gypsies on WhatsApp. My advise during your USA prison term: when using hand, apply plenty of dick oil sold in stores under "baby oil" brand names. Keep your porn sessions to an absolute minimum. If you can be done in 5 minutes, do it, don't masturbate longer than that.
If I lived in an FKK-enabled country, I would never watch porn again except in a room with a girl for a mutual fantasy, if she says lets watch porn together.
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[QUOTE=McAdonis;2173751]A lot of the hardcore mongers tell me that they can easily cum three times a day at home watching porn, needing only 5 minutes each time. But it is difficult to cum inside a condom with a WG, even during 60 minute session. Some guys have reported almost never. Some guys struggle to get 10 shots over a week long trip.
Then you have some ongoing debate on the affects of Viagra. Some are convinced that Viagra keeps them erect, but makes it difficult to cum. Others report that Viagra has zero effect on one's ability to cum. For the guys who believe Viagra inhibits cumming, is it possible that they have a porn addiction? If so, I'd suggest popping a Viagra before watching porn. If it is difficult to pop, then indeed Viagra is indeed the issue. If it is easy to pop, then perhaps they have just conditioned themselves so that porn arouses them more than partnered sex.[/QUOTE]Regarding finishing in a condom, I'm sure porn watching has a real effect but there are a lot of other factors in play. In 2017, I had some hard times finishing 3 times a day. First, I was having a lot of AO sex in 2016 but did not have as much access to it in 2017. I'm sure that was a major part of it. Psychological issues have been well documented in the clinical literature so perhaps some personal stress in 2017 also played into it.
Now, the answer that I think is the most easily addressed, personal fitness. As you alluded to with guys masturbating, I also had no issues finishing 3 times a day by masturbation and porn, but with a WG and a condom, I couldn't finish more than twice a day and the sessions had to be 8-10 hours apart. After making a concerted effort to improve my cardiovascular health this past winter, I returned in April 2018 and really saw a huge change. I was able to finish 3 times per day and was even able to pop twice in one hour on two occasions. This continued until about day 11/12 of my trip but I think that's understandable considering that I was dry by then. Basically, increasing overall blood flow and improving cardiac fitness so I could pump faster for longer really fixed my issues. It's a lot easier to be stationary and whacking away than it is to pump your whole body on top of a woman.
Regarding Viagra, it's not so much that it directly inhibits orgasm. There is no significant literature that shows empirical evidence to validate such claims. The problem is that you are so erect that pleasurable sensation decreases. When I am a little softer, sex and masturbation just feels better. When you are stiff like a rock, there is just less sensation. In the past I was curious about the effect of Viagra and did masturbate after taking it. While I had no problem cumming, the process did not feel as pleasurable and took about 10 minutes longer. Even on orgasm, I remember seeing the load come out but it just didn't feel as good.
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[QUOTE=McAdonis;2173751]"Watching porn no longer arouses the person as much or as quickly. They then have to look at more porn or search for stronger porn to obtain the original sensation. " There is a condition called porn-induced-erectile dysfunction: [URL]https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/317117.php[/URL].
Then you have some ongoing debate on the affects of Viagra. Some are convinced that Viagra keeps them erect, but makes it difficult to cum. Others report that Viagra has zero effect on one's ability to cum. For the guys who believe Viagra inhibits cumming, is it possible that they have a porn addiction? If so, I'd suggest popping a Viagra before watching porn. If it is difficult to pop, then indeed Viagra is the issue. If it is easy to pop, then perhaps they have just conditioned themselves so that porn arouses them more than partnered sex.[/QUOTE]It is unfair to blame porn alone. It is the wanking accompanying the porn that has a large effect. It is a good idea to avoid wanking completely in order feel more sensation from a pussy, but if a guy cannot give it up, it is best to limit to very light wanking and not use it for a week before any FKK visit. This advise only applies to guys with difficulty to cum.
For guys getting sex very often, then wanking should be eliminated if there is any problem to cum at all. Personal choice for all, but sex feels better for me if have eliminated wanking. I am not into extreme porn at all. A guy starts to get mentally warped if he requires extreme porn to get it off. That is definitely not a good thing in my view.
There is little doubt that Viagra has a negative effect on cumming, for those guys whose dick becomes insensitive during an extended fuck. Without the Viagra, a guy with a non sensitive dick would not be able to stay hard so long, and he would be forced to try to cum earlier while dick was still reasonably sensitive. So yes, for insensitive dick guys, delaying the cum by staying hard so long may make it more difficult to achieve. Guys who pop too easily will never have the problem, but may be able to last longer with Viagra so that the girl can get some enjoyment as well. Girls will admit their man can perform better in bed with Viagra, for those cases where sex did not last very long (girls sometimes complain about a partner who lasted just 5 minutes or less, but Viagra helped fix it).
My GF does not need me to last longer. Marathon sex is not her desire. She is so sensitive, she can pop several times in 30 minutes. That is sufficient for her. I have to be content with less than an hour. By keeping the session down to 30 to 40 minutes, it makes it easier for me to cum at the end.
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[QUOTE=SmokeLight;2173773]Agree! I have reported earlier that I had issues after years watching porn while using less and less US escorts. Thanks to FKKs, I recovered from porn side effects on cuming in condom nicely. The best cure was sensual DFK. Consistently, I feel 2 x or 3 x stronger orgasms when I finish in condom in a girl rather than in my hand. Beautiful and rewarding.
Yet even now I still have to watch porn almost every day to release myself in sex prison USA after testosterone-stimulating chats with our gypsies on WhatsApp. My advise during your USA prison term: when using hand, apply plenty of dick oil sold in stores under "baby oil" brand names. Keep your porn sessions to an absolute minimum. If you can be done in 5 minutes, do it, don't masturbate longer than that.
If I lived in an FKK-enabled country, I would never watch porn again except in a room with a girl for a mutual fantasy, if she says lets watch porn together.[/QUOTE]I have gone the route of US escorts harder than ever in between trips in lieu of jerking off to porn and to fight boredom. I never had a porn thing and 75 plus percent of the time I watch it now is in the hour after I book a session with a US hooker just to get my excitement started mentally and to also test and / or adjust my Viagra cocktail du jour. . My Urologist once told me many men get used to condoms by jerking off in them which is where I got the Brandi Love idea to practice after getting shutting out at Oase 6-0 two trips ago, got shut out again 1-0 last trip and at Sharks got beat up as well, think 6-1 the Sharks sent me packing in 3 visits. The one time I did cum in a condom at Sharks I had to think of Morena at Dietz sitting on my face while another rode me to completion the way God wanted us to.
My problem with cumming in a condom is I am too used to the opposite here and there.
Maybe I should do like you and fire my harem here. I do not know if it is a form of lubrication that would break down latex or not but baby oil itself works great. I have a few who use it here to edge or get me hard prior to blowjobs and fucking. Is this lube you speak of actually 100 percent baby oil or baby oil mixed with a water based one etc or a scent or heat producing ingredient?
[QUOTE=Takedown;2173786] First, I was having a lot of AO sex in 2016 but did not have as much access to it in 2017.
Psychological issues have been well documented in the clinical literature so perhaps some personal stress in 2017 also played into it.
Now, the answer that I think is the most easily addressed, personal fitness.
The problem is that you are so erect that pleasurable sensation decreases. When I am a little softer, sex and masturbation just feels better. .[/QUOTE]I do not always agree with all your posts but Grand Slam here or perhaps call it hitting 4 for 4 and for the cycle. For me all four points hold true 100 percent. Great points. Actually working on all four for the next episode of ' Man vs Condom'.
Thanks Doc ! :D
Where should I send the check to?
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Love the saunaclubs in Germany. I really wish these could be a thing in Finland also. But there's too many people that don't want sex trade and we are lucky to be in this situation. If things were worse we would have the Swedish law also. I am glad I can still buy sex from beautiful Czech sexworks in my country but I wish for the clubs like in Germany.