My extremely late Lima Visit report
I was in Lima in Feb of 2007. So over a year ago. I never posted a report, mostly because I got back and was trying to get some perspective on the experience and then decided it was too late and never posted. Time to try to right old wrongs and contribute something to the forum which helped me so much my first time in Lima. My fear is being redundent and sayng the same stuff every newbe says after their visit, so what I will say is what I feel I learned which will affect how I approach my NEXT visit to Lima. That is, what I will do different next time so I have an even better time. I have learned some SPANISH. I don't think I will get the grammar right for a long time, but just knowing enough words and phrases to communicate with some confidence opens up your opportunities to meet non-pros. And have more fun with pros. I had a few friends in Lima Busy and David 33 who translated for me on occasion, but the problem is that unless the girl speaks some English, which is not common amongst the girls who will be most interested in the average ISG memeber, there is a certain coldness you get from the girls when you can't even attempt to speak their language. David 33 introduced me to a very sexy girl who was fun, but who I know I would have had a better time with if we could have communicated better. She was frustrated that we couldn't talk more. These girls really want to get to know you and that to me is a key is really hot sex. The girls I met in the clubs who spoke good English I found acted like US girls. Unfriendly with the I'm waiting form Brad Pitt to say Hi attitude. The friendly sexy Peruvian women don't seem to be the ones who speak English. Beyond learning the language, I would look for Non-Pro girls I could pick up that night and take home or at most date once. Trying to meet and date a girl a few times when you only there for a few weeks can seem like a bit of an accomplishment, I got a few numbers, even with no Spanish, of a few local English speaking shop girls (not the English speaking Larcomar club girls who I found totally bitchy) but finally realized that unless I planned to come down a lot and maintain the relationship it's a waste of time. I would stay out of this trap next time and go for the party girl type who was looking for fun rather than a potential long term boyfriend. Finally I would explore more than just Miraflores. Up and down the coast I think more opportunities abound. That may just be the grass is always greener, but I believe it is worth the shot. Finally, I would like to thank Lima Busy who rented me his PH and gave me the daily lay of the land when I was there, from helping me set up my cell phone to introducing me to the local expat scene. And David 33 who hooked me up with amazing ladies on several occasions and took me out for a great authentic Peruvian dinner. I can't wait to get back.
[QUOTE=Polvo]Enjoyed meeting you and Bcell. Could have spent hours listening to your tales! Looking at itineraries now.
Suerte!
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dealing with the criminal element
Although it is unlikely to happen to you, keep in mind that as a gringo you are a prime target for criminals.
I suggest only carrying as much cash as you need, and leave your credit cards and ATM cards in your hotel unless you know for sure you will be using them.
For ATM withdrawals I recommend returning directly to your hotel after the transaction to secure any extra cash.
It's a good idea to leave chains, watches, rings, or any unnecessary jewelry in the hotel also. If you need to know what time it is your cheap cellphone will tell you.
If you have an MP3 player make sure you have it secured in an inside pocket or one that can be fastened.
When you are in public make sure you keep aware of what's going on around you, and be proactive. When you see something you don't think is correct take action to put yourself in a more secure position.
If you do find yourself in a situation with the criminal element, subdue the urge to be a hero, instead accommodate the wishes of the aggressors, and make sure that when it is all over your body is free of bullet holes or stab wounds.