[QUOTE=Takedown;2189900]But if we're talking about leverage or something along the lines of showing higher value, the nod and having her physically come to you does have a real effect. There truly is something to this as there have been several times when I felt that the girl was either consciously or inherently familiar with this social nuance. Those were the times when the girl would see the nod, smile or wave back, but refuse to come over when I beckoned her. She responds by attempting to wave me over. We would play this game for several exchanges until one party caves (I can't say that I never did.).[/QUOTE]I know what you are saying. Getting compliance with smaller requests leads to compliance with bigger subsequent requests. I believe all the WGs understand this Jedi mind trick well.
During the hiring process, my company asks prospective employees to fill out long applications before the interview. We then insist that the candidate "physically comes to us" for a grueling round of interviews, sometimes more than once, but always separated by some time in between. The idea is that when the compensation package is finally presented to them, even if it is slightly low, there is a chance that the candidate will still accept, due to their emotional, physical investments, and the time they've already committed. I've posted this before: [URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foot-in-the-door_technique[/URL].
In the example you provided, you knew exactly what the WG was attempting to do. And she knew exactly what you were attempting to do. Is the intended effect then not diminished whichever party caves?
[QUOTE=Takedown;2189900]But do you see the inherent problem with that? The timid, skiddish aura that's put out is compromising to your position.[/QUOTE]Skittish or timid during which of my actions? Initiating eye contact with her and approaching her after she waves me over? Or refusing to complete the approach? Or something else I wrote?
If we are talking about me approaching after she waves me over, then probably 70 percent of the time, I walk away from the interaction without taking the session. This of course depends on the LU that day. Since I can attend quite frequently, I am almost never in a hurry to try a girl the first time I see her. I am just collecting their name and considering them for a future session. Using a moderately popular WG at a bigger club as a reference point, Lavinia is one of the most attractive for me at Sharks. I "approached" her the first time I saw her. After that, we probably saw each other on at least 35 subsequent visits before I finally sessioned her for the first time.
If we are talking about me smiling at her then walking away once she waves me over, I'd say that I am communicating that I am not that interested. Why would I change my mind about approaching after I initially smiled at her? Could be that I realize she does not look as good up close and thus (a) I am waiting to see if better talent will arrive on late shift or (b) I am trying to calculate the likelihood that one of my regulars frees up in the next 30-60 minutes. In my view, I believe my actions are telling her "You are not a priority for me on this visit. You are my fallback fifth choice". My actions aren't saying "You are the only WG I want to go with, you are my number one choice, I am willing to wait 15 hours until you become free". If that was the case, then yes my I'd consider my position compromised.