Seeking and Stay in Touch
So as I said I like to keep in touch with girls afterward and hope to rekindle when opportunity strikes. Well opportunity struck hard when I pinged Alexa who I met on SA a year ago and enjoyed in person twice in December. I said "want to meet me in xxxx" (a four hour flight for her) and she said sure! With in two hours I sent her money for a ticket and she had booked it.
After I arrived at the destination her flight was later that night. I know her well enough to know she would never scam me, but she could get cold feet of course. Nope. She arrived looking hot in some tight black jeans. We had great late night sex while killing a bottle of wine. Then just an amazing weekend together. Brunch, sushi, tons of wine, pedicab rides, romantic dinners out, moonlight strolls and AMAZING sex — including a top three BBBJ and two hours of nonstop sex on the balcony. LOL.
She's a legit petite 9 with an amazing ass, perky 34 BS, and the most beautiful pussy on planet earth. I really can't believe I got to enjoy her for a full long weekend. These are the times where:
1. Seeking rules.
2. Keeping in touch rewards you.
3. There are REAL non pro girls out there who you can develop a lovely relationship with. Knowing it's NSA and $$ to bridge the age gap but feels totally real.
Couldn't be happier right now.
How to convert PPM amount to pay-for-trip amount?
Steve: Excellent FR! But have I have a question if you don't mind.
Let's say that you normally give $225 for a PPM that lasts a few hours. If it's an overnight, then maybe you add a little extra, like maybe bump the amount up to $300. But if you ask them to fly somewhere to meet you, then what do you give them besides reimbursing their travel cost? For example, I assume Alexa was a PPM. But when you asked her to fly somewhere to meet you, what kind of math did you do to calculate her gift? For me, I add 50% to the overnight rate, to compensate for her travel time and for her daytimes. So, if I ask someone to fly to meet me, and it's for 3 days and 2 nights, then I count this as 2. 5 overnights (the average of 3 days and 2 nights) and so if I usually give $300 for overnight, then I will pay her $300 x 1. 5 x 2. 5, which equals $1,125.
BTW, if I am wrong that Alexa was a PPM or that you had to give her a gift to meet you, then I apologize for making these presumptions.
Converting PPM amount to pay-for-trip amount
Thanks Steve and Jack for your insights. Both of you guys have great points.
I have struggled with the math for many years now. I have flown girls into Shanghai from their hometowns, I have taken SBs or GFs or pros with me on business trips to Beijing, I have flown SA gals from their USA hometown to my USA city (sometimes it was SF, but sometimes it was to other places where I was temporarily stationed), and I have taken SA gals with me on business trips or fun trips within the states. Every single time, I struggled with the amount to give them. I would be curious if others have opinions on the appropriate amount. The reason why I struggle so much is because I am already paying for their travel, so the cost is already high to begin with, but at the same time, I want them to be enthusiastic about the trip too. Of course, I could just straight up ask what they want, but with SBs, we try to make it seem like it's less transactional, and besides, I have asked them in the past and they have always said "give me whatever you want. " Again, I pay their travel expenses and other shared expenses, and for their "gift" I pay their usual PPM rate times 1. 5 (to compensate for their travel time and daytimes) times the average of trip's days and nights (so, if it's a 3 day trip with 2 overnight stays, then this is 2. 5). TIA.