Thanks for the advice! and a little more detail...
[QUOTE=Mukio]I have never heard of a man asking to be robbed until this. And am not being sarcastic.
Once the gals know what you are after, they will pretend and skim you dry.
If i was in your shoes, I would take it easy with a gal. Dont tell her what you are up to - cos if you do it will become a commercial transaction. And since it is a rather long term one, you can bet she will look for ways to grab your cash.
I would befriend as many gals as possible and go about it as if am looking for just a friend. Then you sieve them to the one who acts like a long term partner.
Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]I am inviting all opinions, even the warnings - its appreciated, as I dont wish to be scammed, however, nothing ventured - nothing gained they say.
A few notes - to satisfy everyone's curiosity and perhaps assist their advice for me.
Just to be clear - I am not seeking a marriage, just a second "part time" family situation, to satisfy my biological desire for more kids with my DNA. I guess everyone has their desires, I am sure this is weird to many guys here. I wish to stay married to wife I have already.
I have been to Africa before for several weeks, and I observed alot, however this forum really explained everything in greater detail - thank you all.
I am trying to avoid being scammed, and also to achieve my goal in a time efficient manner - hence the need for a local helper, and some good advice from realistic guys who know the scene here and the mindset. I just wanted to see if my plan was a viable one.Thank you all for genuine comments and warnings.
I can easily find sex there obviously (but I had to laugh with to read August 1970's post - hehe) The difficulty is getting credible help, and finding a suitable girl who can deal with this situation, benefit from it and be basically good - although I dont expect an angel. I am not an overly emotional schmuck, but I like to treat women well, but in context always. Being too nice is a real problem in any country.
This post was to get the right reconnaissance so I am well prepared there. I will naturally check DNA of any kids, and if situation doesn't work out with a girl, i.e no pregnancy after a few visits, then I would move on, and stop the money etc The loss of a few bucks wont kill me. The girl would need a disease check before I arrive every time, just to be safe as well, trust is overrated they say!
I have got one suitable response, from a friendly member here checking out a friend there who could assist and is trustworthy - that sounds great - as I suspect the explanation for the offer to candidates would be a bait for scammers if I am not careful, so local help "on my side" is a real benefit. Maybe they can spot the local form of BS better than me. I am very interested in any stories from real life, as one mentioned in a post here about slum girls.
My prefernec is simply for a reasonably tall and stable girl , reasonably attractive - I usually go with the vibe I get from a girl, not just her assets. slim or buxom, not obese, fun if possible type personality, but maybe not a party girl type.
Please PM me or post a reply if you want to. Thanks in advance.
Finally, many thanks to everyone's positive, and genuine comments - I welcome them all, and I wish you all the best in your version of "foreign assistance" out there!
Group and Party Sex and Swingers
Hi,
Am in Kenya from 25 April for a couple of weeks. Would like to meet anyone who is into Group Sex and Parties. Nothing serious...just good clean fun, a few beers and a laugh.
Would like to swing with a couple also if any swingers out there.
Take Care
Donnachaa