We are mature in our respective venus of choice...
I have spent more than six days in the PI. I spent six days with you in Angeles, that's true. But, I've spent literally weeks in Asia between Thailand, Indonesia, Singapore, and the PI. Certainly, my experience there is dwarfed by yours, but I am not in a contest, or boasting of my experiences there. Suffice it to say, one does not need excessive experience on the ground in Asia to achieve unbelievable results. I'm sure you will agree.
Monterrey, on the other hand, is a little different story. It is a significantly more difficult venue than Asia. That is all I'm saying, that it requires more effort, but that the potential results are just as good, all be it results that might be more isolated in comparison to what one can attain in Asia in significantly less time, and for significantly less money per session. However, when you figure in the cost of travel, the time, etc...the two are not so far apart in overall cost.
Monterrey??? I have spent probably about an average of 500 days total. I think that is sufficient to form conclusions about what is possible there. The equivalent of mongering non-stop for a year and half, day in, and day out.
But, I also think that significantly more time is required to figure out Monterrey, at least with respect to my brand of experience, than what is required to figure out Asia. After all, that is part of Asia's appeal, right? Where it requires time to totally understand Monterrey, you can land in AC and have it totally digested in three days.
The bottom line is not time spent, but whether you have the experience in the venue to know what is possible, and how the venues differ with respect to reasonable expectation for your preferred kind of experience.
In Monterrey, at this juncture, I get hibred GFE that really was never quite successfully duplicated in the PI, or all of Asia for that matter. GFE is certainly much more widely available in Asia, but not the depth to which I can experience it now in Monterrey. But, I have a totally different objective than what most mongers aspire to when they visit Monterrey.
That comes as a result of growing mature in the venue, just as you have done with respect to the PI. Your activities in the PI are markedly different now than they were when we went together several years ago.
I know...we all stray back to our old ways on occasion, but generally my activities in Monterrey are quite different now compared to what they were five years ago, and my goals and objectives have changed considerably, as have yours in the PI. But, for me, it's goals and expectation that make a venue difficult. I am sometimes my own worst enemy.
As for Carlos referring to my not seemingly being able to achieve GFE with that many girls in Monterrey, it is more a matter of my being extremely particular and demanding of them, a matter of they, per capita, falling short of my demanding expectations.
And that is what really defines the comparison between Asia and Monterrey. In Asia, I am equally demanding, but achieve my particularly demanding criteria for GFE with considerably less effort.
However, my particularly demanding criteria for GFE is still attainable in Monterrey, but I requires a lot more work, and it can yield a certain amount of frustration as a result, primarily due to my having knowledge of venues where the amount of work required is not so nearly demanding.
That is where those that have nothing to compare Monterrey to are perhaps blessed. Respectfully said, ignorance is bliss, and what you don't have, or have not experienced, is not missed.
[QUOTE=Porker]OK, you've spent 6 days (is that right???) in the Philippines, and I've spent 3000 days in Mexico?
But I WILL ADMIT, if ONE were to spend 500+ USD per day in Mexico, they could find the odd GFE there that would be generally satisfactory for a couple hours at a time.[/QUOTE]
On time? That is impressive...
No, certainly it does not take 500 days to figure it out. My reference to the time spent doesn't refer to the amount of time it takes to figure it out, but only as it relates to the change in me with respect to preferences, expectations, and goals. My point being that my own activities, preferences, and satisfaction level changed over time.
I remember when I first came to Monterrey, I was dumb founded. I was totally and completely shocked and wide eyed. I was totally smitten by girls in the clubs, amazed at this unbelievable collection of absolute divas. Any Gringo that steps foot into Monterrey coming from our original environment in the USA will be totally and completely dumb founded by the experience, completely amazed that such a Mecca exists. And, the wide-eyed, ga ga, impression will last quite some time.
Now, however, I am not impressed by the mix, but used to it, no longer really surprised by what is Monterrey. Even some of the girls that I formerly might have thought were hot candidates for my attention, are types that are not even on my radar at this juncture. Plus, after visiting Monterrey for so many years, seeing many of the same girls working the bars, seeing them there year after year, so many of them fixtures in the bars, I am sometimes bored with the selection.
That illustrates the change, but it goes beyond that, to a change that has me evaluating girls from a totally different perspective than when I first arrived. Perhaps now the changes in my being "impressed," and my own elevated criteria of selection, have me also limiting the range of fun that I might otherwise have were I less discriminating with respect to chemistry.
And, when I refer to my being discriminating, I am not referring entirely to their appearance, but more with respect to something intrinsic in them that I recognize as exceptional compared to the others, attributes in them that I recognize will fulfill my own changed desires for a relatively unique experience.
Make no mistake, if my activities in Monterrey are comparatively tame with respect to my former years there, or in comparison to the exploits referred to by WastedG, it is entirely one that is self imposed, a resulting change that I see in me, and not necessarily a change in Monterrey, or a condition resulting from my being in a funk. It is strictly my own imposition of preferences, desire, and criteria that limits that range of my current activities, versus the activities illustrated by WastedG in his kinds of experiences.
But, one question will always remain...How do you get them to show up on time? That, I must admit, is truly a feat unparalleled. In that, I congratulate you.
[QUOTE=Wastedgman]It does not take 500 days to figure out Monterrey. It takes a couple of visits. Especially for an experienced cabron like you, me, him and them. For goodness sake, if you need to spend a total of 2 years to understand the SC girls, then you're probably better off staying at home with your wife. She's more worthy of spending day after day drooling over her trying to please her so she would accept to spend the night with you. Yet, she's still in full control. All up to her.
Now that ain't workin'
that's the way you do it
Lemme tell ya them gals ain't dumb
Maybe get a blister on your little finger
Maybe get a blister on your thumb
But seriously. I think, out of all the Monterrey visitors, I, Wasted, have the most fun ever. Call it touting my own horn or whatever you wanna call it. Not even Carlos, the king of Monterrey, can top my activities and reap the rewards like I do. Even Bob himself will admit his astonishment when he witnessed, on 2 separate occasions, the girls arrive at my door on time and asks "How do you get them to show up on time?" then followed by "How do you get them to be so faithful?" when he sees the love and affection I get. Carlos, I will never forget his comments: “ So you got the girls to show up on time” when he, as usual, comes over to see the girls in the daylight. He loves to seem them in civilian clothing’s. They look different in the light. It is unheard of in Mexico for a person to show up on time. But it is unacceptable to Wasted for a girl to be 5 minutes late.
And how much does this cost me, you ask? Sweet P spent 4 days with me. When it was time to adios her, she asked for 2000 pesos. The other girls who join us, usually 1 or 2, get their share if they get luck enough to please me but nothing more than 1000 pesos for an all-nighter. But that is not the point. Everything has its price.
The point is, every and each one of us has his preferences. Although Carlos and I seem to have the same method, him being local limits what he can do. he can not have girls from up scale clubs meet him outside the Infinito door and go out with 5 or 6 girls to a night club then take 2, 3 or 4 back to the hotel . Bob, you have never done that although I've asked you to join us many times. RTW got to witness this great fun one time and he himself was shocked and kept saying "I can not believe I am here with those knockout teenage girls." and then he would email me saying "Those girls are better left to someone more experience like yourself."
I am not more experienced. I only started this mongering sh8t a few years ago and Monterrey is my only choice. I used to love Asians until I visited Monterrey. I will not go anywhere else. Monterrey is perfect. Awesome. Excellent. Too good to be true.
Monterrey rocks.[/QUOTE]