Cultural Studies Of A Chat Filipina Kind...
[QUOTE=Rgbburn]I had known my gf for over a year online.....
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That’s a hair-raising tale Rgbburn.
Things learned:
I am having fun with DIA not looking for women but how it takes into you into the mindset of the Filipina. A cultural study if you will.
They will either ask outright or will go into tales of woe of how they have not eaten or they can’t pay tuition or rent. Sob stories to separate you from your dough.
One girl basically told me outright she was looking for a man to pay her tuition she was a religious nut. She asked what my religion was when I was told her I was an extremist…(Atheist) she damn near went crazy telling me how I need to believe in god.
I asked her what she would be prepared to give the guy in exchange for tuition payment. Her response was friendship.
Guys what I have learned over the years is that what they are saying might be true but they are survivors far tougher then me or you. They claim they need the money so bad how were they “making it” before you came along. You can’t buy your way into their pants or their heart. If they want to fuck you or court you they will.
It’s that simple…
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The gents she scammed....
Amavida, thanks. Never had any reason to be so distrustful. Think after this it will be hard to trust pinays for a while.
Below is a partial email that I sent out to multiple folks. After discovering her scamming, I got back many emails from angry men. She also fessed up to much of it after getting caught. Below is a partial response to many of the men she was scamming. And some pics of the girl. I've also found a scamming website to expose her antics ([url]http://www.internet-love-scams.org[/url]).
She's not on DIA gents. However she's on Friendster and Myspace. I'll post that when I get it. In the meantime, stay away from this one. She is:
Nichie Lou Andion
Surigao City, Surigao Del Norte
Wish I knew how to boldface or italicize.
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To [blue][Name Deleted at Author's Request][/blue] in NY, she says she has made some peace with you since then. If you can find peace after sending $thousands$ to a gal you haven't met, all the better. She did not use the money you gave her for the call-center course (she used mine for that), she just spent yours. Or perhaps she used yours for the training and spent mine. She finished the course, and sent me a pic of her at her graduation complete with certificate. You'll notice each time you sent money, she went on a drinking spree ('going around' with my friends). Also she tried desparately the last month or so to get me to go visit her there at Xmas (I was planning a spring trip). The change in plans to Xmas caused me to spend twice as much for the ticket. She was very agreeable to me using your money you sent her (that she then sent to me) to make the arrangements for either the ticket increase, a wedding dress, a ring, etc (its in the IM's). Sorry, but she sent me your money W.U., and thats where it is going, to pay for my upcoming trip, to Philippines, as she asked me to do repeatedly (in which I'm not seeing her). I'm a single-parent (raising two teens) schoolteacher with not a lot of extra cash. Originally I tried to donate the money to the church, but the check I wrote didn't clear (long story). Also Fred, I sent her one month ago enough $ to last until mid-December, and enough to pay for one module (one month) of caregiver school. If you look thru the IM's attached, you'll see that she just paid the college for that month. She won't need another payment until she completes a month. There should be 4 months (payments) left if you're interested in supporting her. Insist that she complete the month of classes first before sending her more for that. She has not started those classes yet.She still wants a relationship with you ('backup guy') if she can't have one with me (see the IM's). Playing second-fiddle might not be your cup of tea. But she's a firecracker, and she's needing sugar-daddy immeadiately. She goes to the highest bidder if she can't have love.
To DS, as you requested, I never mentioned your name (or even your email) to her. She does not know that you know, and if you talk to her she'll never know you use the alias. I understand your anger. You are not going to be able to the money back, she's penniless and has no way of earning money (see attached SHESBROKE). She was not taking any college classes during the time you had been sending money for those classes. Thanks for the emails you forwarded between you and the other gentleman. These are very telling that you both knew she was scamming before. If you both knew of the scamming, and you yourself were supporting two different women in the same town (Surigao), why the sudden anger with her? Maybe the marriage thing?
To H, same as DS, I did not tell her as you requested. You also are not getting your money back (see SHESBROKE). Yes, she used the title of Professional Caregiver in her emails, but she never completed the courses she told you she was taking. She was not taking any classes at that time. Another money con. Apology.
To Andy, she says she has made some peace with you also. Glad for that after all those angry emails. She will not be able to return your money either. However, she says she is willing to do so if she has it in the future.
To Andy and others that she told she had an STD, or that she was getting STD's from prostitution, thats just not true. If she's been a prostitute, its been online, scamming guys for money (see attached ALLFORMONEY). She did have cervicitis in late July/early August. She had abdominal pains, went to her provincial doctor, was diagnosed with an inflamed cervix, and was told that her American BF had given her an STD (but she wasnt told which one). The doctor prescribed antiobiotics for gonorreah, syphylis, chlamydia, and one other. 4 drugs. The doctor never tested Nichie to see which one she had. Just the shotgun approach. I paid for those drugs, and several of you also paid for those drugs (from your emails). She has recently tried this one again with at least one of you (2 weeks ago). This scared me, I thought maybe I had given her and STD, or maybe she gave me one. I ran to my doctor and told my doctor what happened. My doc had me tested for all those + HIV. She also gave me the same 4 prescriptions (shots, painful) as Nichie's doctor gave her, as a just-in-case. When the results all came back negative for me, I asked my doc what had happened to Nichie since she could not have gotten these things from me. My doc explained that the provincial doctors do this, simply shotgun the treatment. Catholic society, better NOT to test the girl, girls dont want to know they have a specific STD, they just want treatment. My doc said Nichie was probably small, I'm large, and sudden onset lovemaking irritated the cervix. I do not believe Nichie to be sexually promiscuous in the physical sense (yet). Her cousin Gilbert is worried that if she moves to Manila or Cebu for work and doesn't find it, she'll be prostituting for real, soon, and I can see it.
To [blue][Name Deleted at Author's Request][/blue], thanks for the input. Soooooo glad you didn't get caught up in this.
To TJ, this is the first time I've attempted contact. You should know that she sent you a very loving email on July 1, complete with her pics, just 48 hours after sleeping with me in Cebu City. The first pic at the bottom of the email is her standing in the Cebu Airport, where she dropped me off just before emailing you. Its all an attempt to get money. Hope she didn't scam you too. In the email she sent, she said she was very tired from her 'training' trip. She was not on a training trip, she was with me (see pics). The only thing tiring for her on the trip would have been: holding hands strolling and shopping in Cebu city, walking and swimming at beautiful beaches at the Bohol Beach Club (see pic), rocking the night away at bars and discos in Mango Park (pic), making love, eating at nice restraunts, taxiing to bars in Tagbiliran for live bands, and waking up late to room service; all on my dime. Poor girl, so tired from her 'training' trip. In one of the recent IM's from the last several days, she fessed up to all of this (see attached ALLFORMONEY). She had no intention of actually meeting you. She simply meets men online to use MAHAL KO and WHEN CAN YOU COME? in hopes of them sending money to her first. When their plans change and they can't come, she's relieved. If they make plans, she makes different plans. Then there are excuses why she can't actually meet. Maybe this will look familiar. Notice the date of July 1; and keep in mind I departed June 29. Also keep in mind that she was my fiancee until 3 days ago. There is an interesting story that goes with that picture of her (sunglasses if you still have the email from her), I'll explain it another time maybe.
"From: Nichie Andion <>
Subject: Its Me Nichie
Date: Tuesday, July 1, 2008, 8:24 PM
Hello Thomas, How are you nowdays? Sorry it took me time to sent you an email. Just tired fromthe training & trip.Anyways i am attaching some of my pictures . Hope you will like it.Hope to hear from you soon also. Take care!
Nichie"
To J, same as TJ. On July 1 she sent you an email: LOVE YOU and MISS YOU BABY.... asking for money [ I'M (SHY) ] just seven minutes after sending the email to TJ ( HOPE YOU LIKE MY PICS. ), less than 48 hours after sleeping with me. I am guessing from the email's reply that you were a former BF at that time, and she was just trying to get money from you (she confirmed that two days ago in an IM), and it didn't work at that time. Since she is desparately trying to save our relationship (see attached STILLINLOVE), she's been lying less, fessing up more. This might be familiar. Again, 48 hours after sleeping with me:
"Hello Baby,Hope you are in a good health always. Im glad you did replied my letter. I was so worried you know. But thanks you let me know that you are ok. Thanks to God. I miss you a lot baby. I hope you do miss me too. Baby, just wanna ask if you are going to send me today as you know..hehhehe...(shy). but im worried about for my rental & food honestly as i dont have work as of now. I am also in need in school as our teacher never permit me not to have a fieldtrip. It is a must. She may failed me as it is our one requirements in going to different hospitals for a part of a training. Baby, i am so really worried.I dont know where i may able to ask help but you were the last chance & person that i could lean my problems.I am really in a big problem. I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH JOHN. I MISS YOU A LOT BABY!!!"
A sad but oft repeated tale...
Rgburn, thanks for sharing what has to be a painful experience. I wish you could share it more widely with the universe of men who are absolutely convinced that the women whom they've met on the Internet and to whom they're sending money are "different" from the ones in all the stories they've read. I belong to another (non-sex) board focused on life in the Philippines, and you might not believe the number of guys writing in about coming here to visit their "fiancees" whom they've never actually met, but to whom they've been sending money for months or even years. They're often perplexed as to why the girls' plans changed at the very last minute. It doesn't seem to matter how many guys (like me) who actually live here and who have witnessed similar situations for years, warn them. They're blinded by "love," and by the certainty that their girls are different. I guess as a gender we never learn.
This lady seems to have made a true art form out of the multiple-men scam. You've done a public service by exposing her for what she is.
GE
Its because we want to believe
Luckily I live in Asia. And have pussy basically on tap.
But I know and have lived in small provincial towns on US, UK and that hithole Saudi Arabia. Where life can be very grey.
A cute hottie who promises a lot and looks the business. Heck whats a few bucks that we soon get sucked into. Then we need to continue the habit otherwise she might forsake us for another john.
Its all sad. Been going on forever.
But hey todays my lucky day. The Sapnish Lottery sent me an email sating Id just won 12 million Euros. And I never even bought a ticket.
Point being. Anything that looks too good to be true. USUALLY IS!