All that matters is the connection
[QUOTE=Legal Tender; 1554500]If you find a girl or girls that you enjoy sharing time with, simply show her a little care. And that reasonably requires some money. There is always a need, and you must learn to say "no."
And, this is not a "paying the price in many ways." To the contrary, it's an opportunity to actually help someone in her life. The attention and affection will be free flowing. And this small exercise in suppression of the ego will make you feel better about yourself, and the sex with be much better.[/QUOTE]From 30 minute sessions in El Centro casas, to nighttime strip clubs, to The Mansion girls, to Internet girls, etc, etc the connections that you make are all that count. This is true in any p4p scene. Obviously there are some expectation differences between a 30 minute session and an all night multiple session date.
I agree with what WiltTheStilt said in a previous post that Paisas are either greedy bitches or have an "ingrained humility" about them. Some of the girls that start with an ingrained humility will lose some of their humility and this is par for the course in P4P.
Although there are some ridiculously hot girls in Medellin, the thing that I like most is the sheer volume of 7-8 type girls. Of these girls I have found that many can be "reached" unlike the mindless droids that I have met in the many of other scenes that I have been in. This is important for me as I have extended time in Medellin. All of my regulars have changed something about them in a show of respect for me.
BrasilSoccer commented on meeting the regular type girls. Sure, you can meet these girls and spend $20-$30 by entertaining them and then get laid afterwards if you have the right skills to do this. I am in my late 30's, better than average looking, and in good shape and have done some of this. For you guys out there that haven't, you aren't missing much as many of these girls are a pain in the ass. I have found that when money is put into the situation directly these girls can be pushed in ways that regular girls can't. Guys, do as you will in this area.
Unlike some guys, I pull for all of you to have great experiences with the girls in Medellin. I also applaud you guys on short trips who stay focused on the P4P scene and don't try to get too involved with trying to meet regular girls. IMO the two groups of guys who do the worst in Medellin are the guys that come here looking for regular girlfriends and the young good looking guys, many of whom have good Spanish, who are cheap and don't have the right mentality to do well with Colombian women.