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Wow: first to post here!

I’m not experienced with SM at all. I would love to learn more. Tips, tricks and philosophies appreciated.

Regards, Havanaman

Havanaman's post reminds me:

When asked by the Army recruiting sergeant in [i]Stripes[/i] if he was a homosexual, Bill Murray replies: "Well, no, but is there a special school you'll send me to?" :D

-Uncle Otto

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i have a friend who is into it enitrely.what he likes is to have the woman walk over her and, call him every derogatoy name in the book.now he wants to try "[url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord117][CodeWord117][/url]"

and people think i screwed in the head.

I am not much into S&M and have not had much experiance in this area .The closest I have ever been maybe is when a long time ago an old girlfriend let me tie her hands to the bed posts and let me fuck her brains out .Oh Boy ! That brings back some memories ;)

>> And people think I screwed in the head.


The world of "BDSM" as it is often known is roughtly broken down into 3 pursuits. They are:

1. Bondage and Discipline
2. Domination and Submission
3. Sadism and Masochism

There is a significant subculture that considers bdsm and each of its subcultures to me very acceptable and "normal", if perhaps a bit kinkier than vanilla sex.

Personally I don't think they are anymore screwed in the head than we are, just different.


I am just

One Man
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Hey, let's be careful out there, and wear a condom for Pete's (and my) sake

hi all,

this is a very interesting subject. i just a normal guy who wwants to try out everything. i can't seems to get any of this action in malaysia.

had anyone ever had experience like foot workship, coporal punishment, [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord103][CodeWord103][/url] etc? how does it feels like?

Fetish

I have not been to Malaysia yet, but you can get all you want if you pay for it, this off course is the reason we can all hobby: we pay, they display. Ask your sex providers for what you want and they will probably go for it as long it is not too painful or disgusting to them.

Regards, Havanaman

I feel attracted by the idea of riding a girl like a pony before making sex, does anybody have the same feeling? Do you have experience in this?

Hi people,

I am developing an interest in SM, I was wondering how does 'Tie and Tease' work in practice. I guess I would get tied up and my 'mistress' would play with me. But what I anted to know is after playing with me will I get relief - Hand job or blow job or foot job .

Thanks in advance

Hi all,

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for the last 13 years and am happy to offer my experience here if it will help out at all. As far as my credentials in the arena, I produce a line of fetish videos that run the gamut from light bondage to extreme spanking, though I will not discuss vending them here. There is enough porn out there that you can go and find your own if you want it badly enough. That being said:

Latin: Generally "pony riding" is female domination over either sex. It boils down to how much you weigh and how strong is the sub. Of course, if you are paying to dominate (this is rare) everything you want to do will be discussed beforehand. Havanaman is dead on in this respect.

nwtn20: There is a world of difference between being tied and teased as part of a service that includes light bondage and teasing to release and actually being tied and teased by a mistress and being dominated via S&M.

S&M is intense and VERY psychological. Most people involved in the scene have long standing relationships based entirely on trust: This is the only way to facilitate complete submision. There is a distinct difference between doing what you are told and submitting to the demands of a master or a mistress. Total submission takes some time to achieve, though it can be rewarding in the sense of breaking down personal barriers and building inner strength and confidence. All good dominants MUST start off as submissives, otherwise there can be no reciprocal understanding of your limits, or knowing and understanding how a punishment can affect you. Like anything else sexwise, there are true providers and girls who spank for money. Unfortunately, there are many, many more of the latter these days.

The critical difference in S&M as opposed to prostitution in general is simple. In real life S&M, sex and/or release isn't the goal, and doesn't have to take place in order to dominate the sub or have what is generally regarded as a successful session. Release is usually seen as a reward for being an obediant submissive; And though some providers will give you a HJ or a BJ to completion, most will force you to do it yourself in the corner, cum on their boots and then lick it up. This is certainly not the hard and fast rule, obviously YMMV, but in S&M you are trying to experience the domination and submission through pain as the catalyst and motivator, not sex.

Hope this was helpful. I'll try to answer any questions you all may have.

Stay Safe

BR,

This is a very interesting discussion. I have a question, it seems that most of the customer are sub (my preception) and enjoy been dominated by their mistress/master. Does the mistress/master actually enjoy punishing their subs?

fetish,

your perception is absolutely correct. almost all of the clientelle are submissives for the simple fact that most dominants already have relationships with their own submissives. a dominant looking to pay to "play" with a submissive should raise an immediate red flag, they are usually untrained and don't know how to focus aggression or to build relationships to express it healthily. in short, they are dangerous.

"does the mistress/master actually enjoy punishing their subs?"

sadists, by definition enjoy inflicting pain, suffering, punishment, discipline, humilation: call it what you will. i know i get hard (as hard as with viagra during "vanilla" sex) when i have a sub over my knee and start to spank them, i get turned on when i have them tied to a cross and they are being flogged or having a forced enema, and i have a friend who is a dominatrix who finds nothing more pleasurable than watching the humiliation and disgust on a sub's face while she [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord110][CodeWord110][/url] on them. as a dominant, i enjoy punishing my subs, partly because i am a sadist, partly because i know that the sub is loving every minute of it and not getting off (no matter how much they beg), and the extra added bonus is when the sub makes an unintentional mistake that deserves punishment. but i am really into the scene and the lifestyle, so are many of my friends and of course, so are all the people that i play with.

sadly, there are many, many, many women out there who think that being a dominatrix is nothing more than a very good paying job with a neat uniform. do these women (they are not true dommes after all) really get off on administering punishment? i have heard more than one "domme" complain about the length of session necessary to satisfy a submissive's tolerance not being worth what they were charging. the focus isn't the money in the real version of this game, though there is money exchanged, it is more of a formality. mostly i think that the fakers out there do it just for the money and could care less about the sub. if you don't push the sub to their limit you have no place holding a whip.

a true dom/domme wants to get that sub to their limit and then push a little further. maybe not in one session, but as a goal. luckily the community is pretty tightly knit and a sub looking for a real dom/domme can find one who does enjoy it. if the dom/domme isn't having any fun, then the sub isn't going to get a good session.

hope this was helpful,

br

Not sure if this belongs here but, I'll ask none the less. Have any of you ever done either vaginal or anal fisting on a woman before? I see that this is more common in places like Germany and the Urkraine as I rented a couple of DVDs showing fisting.

I know little of this, but enquiring minds wanna know.

Meat and Gentlemen,

Yup, I've done pussy fisting, a couple of times. Haven't shoved my fist up a ho's ass, though. What would you like to know?

Bend It

Bend It,

I take it you don't have large hands? Or the lady was "well-endowed?" I've only gotten four fingers in my hoes cooches. Seems my thumb gets in the way. But if I ever find an appealing tall, amazon with a big cooch, I'll try the thumb, too.

Peace

Wow - didn't know this section was on the board.

Just a recommendation for all you guys out there (Jackson, I'm not trying to sell the site just relating some info)...try the site alt.com.

I've hooked up with a few women on there. And as they were basically looking for a fun fuck, and were submissive, they let me do all sorts of wierd shit to them.

Of course, it helps to be able to stomach obese crazy chicks - but when you don't need to worry about pleasing them at all (well, I'm not talking about tieing them up on all fours and whipping their ass with a belt), it makes things better.

Plus the site is not all that expensive considering the amount we drop as mongers.

Also a couple things as well about that site - it really educates you as to the formal "scene". Like one of the previous posters said - there is a certain level of understanding and relationship building needed, etc, etc... That's one philosophy. Me, I'm part of the other philosophy, where I don't consider myself part of the scene, but like rough and raunchy sex. But it's good to know the perspectives people have about the subject.






Anyway, I'd like to know about fisting as well. One of the three women I hooked up with, we fuck around every now and then. This chick is sub to the extreme! I mean pretty much nothing is too much.

Anyway, she's a big fat chick with a gaping pussy - and she loves craming big objects into her ass and snatch (she has one of those fist dildos if you've ever seen them)...

Well, we're going to be hooking up soon, and every time I meet here, I try something new...you know so I can check it off of my perverted things to do list. So since she's into fisting (her profile on alt says how she wants to get pictures of her taken while she gets "punchfucked"), I figured I'd try it out.

My main concern however is the danger - as I've heard this is a potentially dangerous act. And the last thing I need is a reinactment of the *****house scene with the senator from the Godfather movie.

So how do you execute a safe fisting?

Peace


P.S. By the way fetish - fuck yeah I love doming. It's pure greed and I love it. Kind of can make you feel guilty afterward, because it really pushes your level of depravity. It brings out your dark animal side in a big way.

Gentlemen --

Sorry for not getting back to this forum for a while (was out of town for a couple of weeks).

Daddy Lows, my hands are average size, I think, not small, not large. Have done this with three women and I think they were average sized.

Goo, I love your new word - "punch-fucked"! That sums this fetish up.

In my experience, you need to have a woman who really wants to be submissive. She needs to be really relaxed (drunk doesn't hurt) and you need to work on her clit like crazy. Lots of lube, of course, clit activity, vibrator on her clit, and patience. Once you are in, though, then fuck away and enjoy the look on the b****'s face like she can't believe you're doing this to her.

Best wishes,

Bend It

Regarding safe fisting:

Lots of lube, patience, clitoral stimulation etc. Be sure to take your time, you may not be able to accomplish the full stretch in one session, but the most important thing is to cut your nails and file them smooth... just to be sure though, nitrile gloves are highly recommended.

Have fun...(thank God I'm not a chick!)

Stay Safe

BR

Gentlemen,

Anyone ever ass-fisted a woman? Or is that just something you see in porn?

Bend It

It's not only in porn, but probably not outside of long term relationships either. Same rules apply: manicure, LOTS of lube and patience. It can take months.

A little late to the party Bend It? I already asked that question.:)

The trick is not in getting in five fingers. It's getting past the knuckles that can be the real patience buster.

Once you do though, well, can you say squirt?

Alicia Klass has nothing on my gf.





Benchseats Rock

Greetings fellow pervs (and pervettes).

Fisting is one of the things I love to do. Over the years I've gotten pretty good at it.

As has already been pointed out, fisting requires: lube, PATIENCE (sometimes in abundance), and surgical or other type of latex (or some non-allergenic material - ask the fistee first if she's got an allergy to latex). Latex gloves can be purchased cheaply at any pharmacy. For more exotic gloves, so a web search or 2. There's a web site for medical BDSM toys (name excapes me) and they carry gloves.

The gloves provide a far more slippery surface than just using your bare hands. Lube them up and start the adventure. :-)

I always start with 2 fingers to get the lay of the land - so to speak. How tight is she? How far can she stretch? Then stretch her open with 2 fingers from the other hand. Massaging her clit along the way helps the lubrication process.

Pick a hand and start inserting more fingers. If she stretches well, then you can try the whole hand. One technique is to form your hand by touching the tips of all your fingers and thumb together. This makes a nice sleek sort of giant (but wide) dildo. Insert it SLOWLY, work it in and out, gradually, slowly go deeper. Eventually, you'll get past the mid-knuckles and up to the top knuckles. As someone already pointed out, getting past this point requires patience and practice. But - once you're past the knuckles, what a treat! The phrase "Oh my God!!" can be heard in abundance.

If a woman's delivered a baby vaginally, then (usually) she'll be easier to fist. She's already been streteched.

Be certain to ask her if she's had any surgery on her female parts or if she tore internally during childbirth (if this applies) because scar tissue can prevent sucessful fisting, and may be risky.

I've fisted submissives and slaves, and a small number of providers. My experience tells me that bigger woman are easier to fist (but I once fisted a 5', 110 lb woman who'd never had kids, so go figure).

Just don't ram it in. That just normally doesn't work.

Have fun and keep the lube handy!

Mr Spanky

Bend It and MeatMan,

Yeah, I've anally fisted women before.

Same rules apply: manicure, lube, patience, and as I said in a previous post, surgical/latex gloves.

One sub I had could be fisted in BOTH holes simeltaneously. That was fun. :) I ass-fisted a provider once, too. I've never tried it with SWs though. YMMV.

You'll really want the gloves here. Believe me. Ememas before hand help cut down/eliminate the mess.

Mr Spanky

Mongers,

Would some one help me out here please. I have heard of a place in Thailand that a man could check in and submit 24/7/3days-5days as a sub. I have read the posts on this thread. I'd prefer to be the Dom, but I understand the hiearchy sp. Here are some pics, this American girl was fun . . . met her on Match. I know alot of women want to be submissive but I feel I need some fundamental experience to go where I know a few women want to go. Advise appreciated!

[url]http://www.domme.com/directory/Domme_Directory_International/Thailand/[/url]

Zidaho: See above. Glad to know business is ocming back to Phuket:D

Here is my question: I am friendly, generally platonically, with this Mistress, who is young, white and beautifully proportioned. She likes me because I am a man and I despise her slaves like she does. She wants me to impregnate her, which I am happy to do but I do not like the names she wishes to call her children. I am also a little wary about fathering children with someone in that profession. But she is great in the sack. Any words of advice?

Domino,

I say breed her with some good pedigree and throw in a donkey punch that will make her see stars at no extra charge. :D

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my first successful experience happened 8 years ago in brazil. i came to a self-employed "garota" in rdj, who asked usd20 for a simple intercourse or french, cheaper than the average price for that time. the girl was white, 19 yo, had a mediocre face, but a nice slim body. she, obviously, desperately needed money for herself and her baby. a caesarean section scarce was well visible on her belly. later she said me that she started fucking at the age of 13 and had a baby of about 9 or 10 months old.

at the entrance, i offered her gs for her price of the intercourse, that is usd20. my portuguese was rudimentary, so she did not understand what i meant. when she, finally, did, she refused with a disgusted face. i immediately doubled the price. she agreed, after a short reflection, but refused to swallow.

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i must say that this was the first success after many unsuccessful attempts. this story revealed me the main secrete: if you want gs, you have to pay more, in fact, much more than for the usual fuck.

several months later i moved to europe and applied this strategy therein. after some time, i worked out several simple rules, which allowed me to give gs many times. here are the rules. as a whole, they apply only to europe, but, i believe, with suitable modifications they can be used everywhere.

1. choose a reasonable, but not a luxury brothel, or a self-employed girl.

2. choose a right girl. she should not be western european. ideally, she should be a thai or latina. an eastern european would also do, but the chance is slimmer. avoid too aggressive or angrily looking girls. avoid blacks: i never managed to give a gs to a black girl.

3. speak to the girl directly and discretely. neither the brothel owner/pimp, nor her colleagues should hear your conversation.

4. offer the girl a tip equal to 2-3 (sometimes 4) times the basic intercourse price at that place. say, if the the prices start from 50 euros, offer her 50 (the official price that she reports to the owner) + a tip of 150 for her personally, that she is free to report to the owner as well, but may hide and keep for herself. what she does with your tip is her business, not yours.

5. if the girl refuses, you may increase the price. it is up to you until which level.

6. if the girl refuses definitively, leave the place immediately and go to a different brothel. (of course, you may have a usual sex if you like the girl, and/or if you have already paid the basic price.) do not try another girl from the same brothel with your gs offer.

7. once payed, be tough. the girl can start pretending to have misunderstood you (though this seldom happens). ask for your money back: usually it helps.

8. very important: be ready yourself! do not assume that you can make yourself [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] whenever you wish. drink a decent amount of water beforehand (1-2 liters). of course, this creates you certain inconvenience, especially if you do not have a definitive girl and must look for a one. but it is very disappointing when you already have paid, but cannot [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] more than a drop.

9. if it was not stated beforehand explicitly that she would not swallow, but she refuses to, you can try to make here. a trick: have no bin or bucket nearby. she will have either to swallow or to spit the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url] on the carpet, what she certainly would not like to do. however, do not force her: she might indeed be physically unable to swallow the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url].

10. generally, be kind and polite with the girl. most probably, this would be her first gs experience, so she would be stressed. if possible, leave her an additional small tip (10 euros or so) when you are living, even if you do not intend to be back. remember, she is as human as you.

following these rules, i managed to give many successful gs during the last 8 years. according to my experience, about 70% of thais and 50% of latinas (colombians, brazilians and dominicans are the best) agreed to my conditions and let me [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] into her mouths. some of them swallowed, some did not. most were visibly disgusted, but many were curious and interested. one thai girl confessed that it was an ultimate taste not resembling anything she drank before: )

i had also several experiences with eastern europeans, but only one was successful: the beautiful bulgarian adriana from my graz report. she was the only one who did the thing with enthusiasm, and the only one (except the very first brazilian) whom i tipped less than twice her usual rent. i secretely believe that she would do this even with no tip at all, but she derserved every cent she received.

of course, there were several rips off, but not much. once a thai from zurich, after having received 500 sf, refused to continue after the first drop, motivating that the amount of [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] was not stated before: ) generally, in zurich's langstrasse district i had better experience with latinas than with thais. sometimes the girls try to dissolve you [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] in water, by mixing it with shower or so. usually, i successfully stopped these tricks, but be aware.

anyway, most of the girls were honest and friendly and did what promised.

cities where i successfully tried gs include zurich and basel in switzerland, munich and frankfurt in germany, and graz in austria.

and the last remark. anyone wishing to speak about my moral deficiency can fuck himself. i did not force anybody to anything; i paid the girls quite a lot for the service i wanted from them, and they provided it to me at their free will. by the way, all the girls received the gs from me asked me to come again, and i did return many times.

sorry for my english. if you have any questions, please ask.

he iron,

good story and dont worry about negative reactions. most men love ws but never had the change to try it. (maybe even an idea for jackson to open a new item: [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord117][CodeWord117][/url] and rep001). i love it myself very much (even one step further:rep001). i agree that you need be carefull by approaching girls, especially when you dont know if the girl offer these services. i have much experience with girls doing ws, not all of them allowed me to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord134][CodeWord134][/url] in their mouth, but for me is this not as important as this is for you.

especially in germany you can find easily girls that do ws (natursekt or ns in german). most german profeesionals give (aktif) and some receive (passif) and even some will swallow it (mit aufname). a good resource can be sexrelax.de, a german website for ruhrgebiet (cologne, dusseldorf, bonn) area. i always call the lady or club before i go to there. in general i receive a normal and honest anwer.

[QUOTE=Zidaho]Mongers,

Would some one help me out here please. I have heard of a place in Thailand that a man could check in and submit 24/7/3days-5days as a sub. I have read the posts on this thread. I'd prefer to be the Dom, but I understand the hiearchy sp. Here are some pics, this American girl was fun . . . met her on Match. I know alot of women want to be submissive but I feel I need some fundamental experience to go where I know a few women want to go. Advise appreciated![/QUOTE]So, you think you are the Dom, but have no experience, right? I recently had the same problem and then discovered that in my city (Moscow, Russia) we have special seminars how to use devised properly, how to play games and build BDSM-style relationships, where you can ask questions and enlarge your experience. I'm sure such sosieties exist nearly in every city. Try to check web-sites. Sex-shops salesmen can also help you with information. There are also message-boards on BDSM-sites, where you can get acquainted with someone for this sort of activities and special parties can also be good opportunity. Good luck =))

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A good site for sm, bondage and contacts!

Thanks,

Sky Dumont

[quote=zidaho]mongers,

would some one help me out here please. i have heard of a place in thailand that a man could check in and submit 24/7/3days-5days as a sub. i have read the posts on this thread. i'd prefer to be the dom, but i understand the hiearchy sp. here are some pics, this american girl was fun . . . met her on match. i know alot of women want to be submissive but i feel i need some fundamental experience to go where i know a few women want to go. advise appreciated![/quote]


dear zidaho,

in russia you can find all you need for your taste, as helena is pointing out, here just some samples, never tried:

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[url]http://dosug.nu/girl.htm?idgirl=4983[/url]

by the way the thing i prefer is still the maid.

but she has to be ready to play the role of the made and be raped by the houselord :d

anally also of course...

it

here is another version of a teen russian fetish maid...

[url]http://www.intimcity.ru/persons.php?id=33072[/url]

surely not a beauty... not a stunner, but you can do with her almost you want...

just less than 200 € a night.

unfortunately at the moment i'm not in moscow, but i will be in kiev in two week for a week of vacation in a dead period... girls streaming... perhaps i might find a maid willing to be raped thre too...

it

another maid to play the role game: hardly anally raped by the house lord!

[url]http://www.intimcity.ru/persons.php?id=33515[/url]

unfortuatelly i'm going to kiev not to moscow... otherwise....

it

in my mongering via flirt site i got this mail:

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meaning roughly that you can get a maid (ready for sex) but a real maid for 500 usd, i suppose for some days.

not bad! i think usually they are really maids or waitresses no monger will fuck for free… i do not mean ugly, simply not in our targets but getting better with role games!

if they hade a real petite, teen, ready to play anal [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] while using the vacuum cleaner, i will go on and ask! :d

[quote=vincevoyeur]for which city do you have this answer ? i use znakomstva.lv too what is the url please[/quote]

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the answer is for kiev. search for the grl ira, in those offering sex 22 y.o. here is a photo for identification.

sorry but i can't handover a link, it contains my passwords. ;)

it

sorry.. now i found out how to get her link...

[url]http://www.flirt.com.ua/stahs42/[/url]

she is selling maids... 500 usd for the maid and 500 for her. weekly as i understood. everything is admitted... of course they do not speak english, but i think they will be glad to lick your cum from a plate.... for a jefferson or two...

it

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hi,

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also, does any of you guys ever travel together on such adventures? could be cool with a travel mate.

cheers,

sir steel

[quote=sirsteel]hi,

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also, does any of you guys ever travel together on such adventures? could be cool with a travel mate.

cheers,

sir steel[/quote]hi,

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[quote=arash gutra]iron felixus,

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latin

[QUOTE=Arash Gutra]Hi,

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Bye

You have the russian slaves movies. I would like to find young attractive submissives like them in Moldova and Ukraine because I have an american friend who has this chance in Romania near Iasi next year.

Russian slaves are really good movies but they can be perfect with sex after the scene of spankings for exemple.

[QUOTE=Oah999]Hi Arash,

I am always interested about maso girls in west eu. I'm on fisting and enema. I can help you about Italy.

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Someone of our has an experience about OWK, the "femdom hotel" in Czech Repubblic?

I want to use a girl in a more roughly manner. Any one know some masochistic girls who allow face fucking, deeptroat and other stuff?

I've found its easier to get rough stuff after you've developed a level of trust and communication with a girl. If a girl starts off willing to do deepthroat/anal/light s&m, then over time gagging, facefucking, choking, hitting and more fun activities are possible.

[QUOTE=Rnk1975]I want to use a girl in a more roughly manner. Any one know some masochistic girls who allow face fucking, deeptroat and other stuff?[/QUOTE]

hi sirsteel,

i tried to pm you but the board said you werent accepting pm's. please send me a message i am very interested and have some ideas.

[quote=sirsteel]hi,

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also, does any of you guys ever travel together on such adventures? could be cool with a travel mate.

cheers,

sir steel[/quote]

Hi,

I would enjoy very much the prospect of hiring a submissive WG/maid. Is anyone aware of such a service being offered in london, UK.

Thanks

Greetings Folks,


Does anybody in here have any experience with female subs/masochists in the Middle East or India?

I have a thing for the women from this part of the world, I've been looking for a while now, but it's all been in vain.

Would anyone in here be able to help me out?

DF (" ",)

Many of the reports and stories on this website are very romantic. The interactions among the parties are all very mutual, mostly private, and the girl decides what she does with her body in nearly every instance. Some of the experienced guys here attempt to act out monogamous relationships and one even travels with the girls.

However, others of us are drawn to prostitution to get things which are not possible with "Freebies"/girlfriends. I am not experienced in this business at all, so I will humbly ask this question, and I hope that some of you here can tell me how realistic (or idiotic) this idea is.

I would like to tie a woman in rope and gag her mouth and insert objects or toys in her (she chooses the objects ahead of time). There will be very little body contact and I will probably not take my pants off for any reason other than to masturbate onto her. This will not be mutual nor reciprocated sex at all. I don't enjoy humiliating or injuring anyone and I don't get off on it either, but her enjoyment of the situation will not be factored in. For safety, she would have one of more guys in the room watching that she trusts to keep her safe.

Is this plausible, or is this totally ridiculous and unrealistic? What say you?

[QUOTE=Glazami; 1008582]Many of the reports and stories on this website are very romantic. The interactions among the parties are all very mutual, mostly private, and the girl decides what she does with her body in nearly every instance. Some of the experienced guys here attempt to act out monogamous relationships and one even travels with the girls.

However, others of us are drawn to prostitution to get things which are not possible with "Freebies"/girlfriends. I am not experienced in this business at all, so I will humbly ask this question, and I hope that some of you here can tell me how realistic (or idiotic) this idea is.

I would like to tie a woman in rope and gag her mouth and insert objects or toys in her (she chooses the objects ahead of time). There will be very little body contact and I will probably not take my pants off for any reason other than to masturbate onto her. This will not be mutual nor reciprocated sex at all. I don't enjoy humiliating or injuring anyone and I don't get off on it either, but her enjoyment of the situation will not be factored in. For safety, she would have one of more guys in the room watching that she trusts to keep her safe.

Is this plausible, or is this totally ridiculous and unrealistic? What say you? [/QUOTE]If you are talking about a total stranger, I think it's asking a lot. If you are talking about a P4P girl you have known for awhile, have been a repeat customer of, are friendly and relaxed with otherwise. It doesn't seem like a big deal. I think several P4P girls I know would be fine with letting me do that if I wanted.

[QUOTE=Daft Fuzz; 929299]Greetings Folks,

Does anybody in here have any experience with female subs / masochists in the Middle East or India?

I have a thing for the women from this part of the world, I've been looking for a while now, but it's all been in vain.

Would anyone in here be able to help me out?

DF (" ",) [/QUOTE]Don't know about the middle east but there are many women in India who genuinely enjoy being submissive and the other way round as well. I've been with a few myself.

No experience with working girls so far. I can imagine that it may be difficult to convince a P2P agreeing to bondage practices and, she must either like it or be ready to do everything once get paid for.

I do however have experience with STR. There are a lot of girls out there who actually like it. Of course not the mayority, but I guess about 10 or even more percent. It is only a guess because there are almost no statistics available. Once you found a girl ready to do it, you probably would like to keep her for a while. Thus you may end up in a STR at least.

Nevertheless there must be working girls who will agree to bondage practices, may be even at a higher percentage than in the average population. I recommend to ask.

Those who found girls ready to go will probably not share this information because they do not like to disclose their bondage adiction.

[QUOTE=Glazami; 1008582]Many of the reports and stories on this website are very romantic. The interactions among the parties are all very mutual, mostly private, and the girl decides what she does with her body in nearly every instance. Some of the experienced guys here attempt to act out monogamous relationships and one even travels with the girls.

However, others of us are drawn to prostitution to get things which are not possible with "Freebies"/girlfriends. I am not experienced in this business at all, so I will humbly ask this question, and I hope that some of you here can tell me how realistic (or idiotic) this idea is.

I would like to tie a woman in rope and gag her mouth and insert objects or toys in her (she chooses the objects ahead of time). There will be very little body contact and I will probably not take my pants off for any reason other than to masturbate onto her. This will not be mutual nor reciprocated sex at all. I don't enjoy humiliating or injuring anyone and I don't get off on it either, but her enjoyment of the situation will not be factored in. For safety, she would have one of more guys in the room watching that she trusts to keep her safe.

Is this plausible, or is this totally ridiculous and unrealistic? What say you? [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TuDueno; 1141043]No experience with working girls so far. I can imagine that it may be difficult to convince a P2P agreeing to bondage practices and, she must either like it or be ready to do everything once get paid for.

I do however have experience with STR. There are a lot of girls out there who actually like it. Of course not the mayority, but I guess about 10 or even more percent. It is only a guess because there are almost no statistics available. Once you found a girl ready to do it, you probably would like to keep her for a while. Thus you may end up in a STR at least.

Nevertheless there must be working girls who will agree to bondage practices, may be even at a higher percentage than in the average population. I recommend to ask.

Those who found girls ready to go will probably not share this information because they do not like to disclose their bondage adiction. [/QUOTE]IN EE or in FSU you can find girls for light and submissive bondage and anal tooling, not so frequant but.

Just for enjoiynbg you I post some links of Inga. Done some years ago in Kiev.

[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1616-Photo-Gallery&p=680450&viewfull=1#post680450[/url]

If you want to see more serach for Inga in the anal section.

Here the mystery tramp hand cuffed too.

[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1616-Photo-Gallery&p=682783&viewfull=1#post682783[/url]

Nice vew.

By the way here is what I intend for almost perfect sex...

[url]http://xhamster.com/movies/102866/hazel_butt_fuck.html[/url]

some lingerie or a maid costume would have done it perfect....

Submission tying handcuffing and so on, specially with some nice lingerie, costumes and a mixed girl selection (I mean blondes, reds, Asians etc) is of course difficult with pros if you do not have a lot of money.

This is almost what I would like to see from my sofa, while a nice petite red teen (tongue pierced) is taking care of my best friend (may be ass plugged).

[url]http://www.xvideos.com/video355302/bound_asian_and_old_cum_swap[/url]

Of course I would have preserved my condoms in the fridge.

I really love some Japanese bondage, some is wonderful. Seen some with nose and tongue bondage for nostril cum shot but can't find it.

This is wonderful too.

[url]http://www.xvideos.com/video163207/slave_bounded_gagged_and_d_in_the_ass[/url]

If I was a zillonare I would move to Kiev and get a stock of teen to enslave and train them properly. Unfortunately I'm not.

Exactly the style of girls I love.

[url]http://www.xvideos.com/video893532/russian_teen_lesbians[/url]
[url]http://www.xvideos.com/video890154/tiny_slave_huge_dong[/url]
[url]http://www.xvideos.com/video920246/natasha_teen_masturbates_with_russian_sisters[/url]

One of my best STR for bondage activities was from Russia. Once she was introduced to it she became adicted. Good luck for me.

The cuban black beauty however was already adicted to sadomasochism before I met her. She actually was one of the few girls even asking to taste the whip. Unfortunately she did not like photos to be taken during hard core activities.

At present I do hang around with a photo adicted latina who is in bdsm and 3some. Will probably report in the future.

[QUOTE=It Travel;1141056]IN EE or in FSU you can find girls for light and submissive bondage and anal tooling, not so frequant but.[/QUOTE]

There is this site named elitepain. Com. The punishment on that seems to be extreme, but I doubt if it's real. The girls could be numbed before the action, of course it will hurt once the effect is over, but it let's the master get away with whatever he wants.

Hmm, I'm curious what you folks think?

I'm a fetishist who is into strong bondage. I wanted to bounce some ideas off of people here to get a better idea of feasibility and pricing.

I am looking for a *WILLING PARTICIPANT* to be actually tied to a bed and gagged for up to six hours. I want to use her body like a toy without being distracted by the responsibility of her pleasure or comfort level, (although I do not want to injure her or cause pain. That disclaimer is included since there is no BONDAGE section on this website). For her safety, I prefer she be accompanied by a male friend, and I'm willing to negotiate safe words. Obviously this request is far outside of the realm of what single women would ever try. Again, I'm not looking for women who get off on this, this is for me. I wanted to get an idea of my options as far as paying someone to do this for me. It seems to me this could be feasible for 2K-3K. Let me know if I am in the wrong place. Thanks.

IT would like her though she is not a pro: Young, crazy for costumes and incredible tight holes. Committed to submisive bondage and hard core bdsm activities. Needless to say that she does 3some involving another girl, not yet 3some involving another man. I still need to convince her, sooner or later it will work. An almost perfect slave girl except that she needs more anal training. Should not be a problem once she is tied up.

[QUOTE=TuDueno;1184544]IT would like her though she is not a pro: Young, crazy for costumes and incredible tight holes. Committed to submisive bondage and hard core bdsm activities. Needless to say that she does 3some involving another girl, not yet 3some involving another man. I still need to convince her, sooner or later it will work. An almost perfect slave girl except that she needs more anal training. Should not be a problem once she is tied up.[/QUOTE]I'm a real exper in anal traing. Cou volunteer for you.

This is a proper training.

[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1080-Anal-Connoisseurs&p=765579&viewfull=1#post765579[/url]

Nice?

IT

Once a party with the princesses turned out to be converted into a bondage session. Well, I had no choice because they should refrain from using their hands.

[QUOTE=TuDueno;1186480]Once a party with the princesses turned out to be converted into a bondage session. Well, I had no choice because they should refrain from using their hands.[/QUOTE]Good work. Did you make them share cum?

IT

[quote=it travel; 512628]another maid to play the role game: hardly anally raped by the house lord!

[url]http://www.intimcity.ru/persons.php?id=33515[/url]

unfortuatelly i'm going to kiev not to moscow. otherwise.

it[/quote]looks like [url]www.intimcity.ru[/url] is down? shutdown forever?

[QUOTE=Tallish; 1207010]Looks like.

[url]www.intimcity.ru[/url]

Is down? Shutdown forever?[/QUOTE]Sorry for the late answer. Due to Russian laws it ha sjust changed to.

[url]www.intimcity.nl[/url]

All the addresses are the same, just change the nationality suffix from ". Ru" to ". Nl"

IT

I am a dominant guy and therefore looking for submissive girls.

Has anyone of you experiences in wich countries / cities it is easy and not too expensive to find submissive girls?

I mean girls who really like to be submssive and not only playing a role for money.

links for austria + germany, estimated price range 200€.300€ p / h, visited none of them. according to local forums they represent the elite in nasty (in a good sense).

roaming germany / vienna (decent looks, native german) , excellent service.

[url]http://www.annika-sue.com/[/url]

"belastbar" in german, older, not the model type, native austrian.

[url]http://www.masofrau.at/[/url]

more into stuff that imho belongs into the toilet (will eat shit right from your pooper) , bondage, light sm, anal fisting np. 2-3/5 in looks, done some pretty hardcore movies too.

definitively nsfw, might blow your mind a bit, don't forget to wash out your eyes afterwards.

[url]http://isabelle-extreme.com/[/url]

[email]lady_isabelle@gmx.at[/email]

other links:

pro escorts in germany / austria / swizerland (doms / subs)

[url]http://www.domina.ws/_main/domstudios-en.html[/url]

austrian forums, german only, pros and non-pros:

[url]http://smartcafe.at/contents_de/frm_anzeigen2.html[/url]

[url]http://www.a-e-c.org/eroticontact/[/url]

Thanks to Noricum for the answer, but these adresses are a little bit expensive for me.

Any (new) ideas where to find submissive girls for a reasonable price?

[QUOTE=Hossi36; 1281005]Thanks to Noricum for the answer, but these adresses are a little bit expensive for me.

Any (new) ideas where to find submissive girls for a reasonable price?[/QUOTE]Don't know if I have something new for you and it's only one I know personally, but here are my ideas for you anyway:

[url]www.inkognitolounge.com[/url]

[url]www.sexslavinnen.eu[/url]

[url]www.boesepartys.com[/url]

Inkognitolounge seems to be a bit elitist-style, with men having to wear suits & ties. Not my taste, so check it out for yourself.

Sexslavinnen is in Belgium, Antwerp-area. Heard stories about that, seems to be stacked with very, very horny belgian and dutch housewives, who are supposed to do what they are ordered to do by their masters. Don't know how far the SM goes with them.

Club Bizarro is part of Böse Partys in Frechen near Köln. No info about Club Bizarro, Böse Partys itself only got bad reviews until now.

Joyclub-website should provide more SM-options.

The only submissive slave I know myself would be mid-fifties Anna at Oppumer Straße 6 in Krefeld. I know her from the AO-parties they hold there every day now for 60 Euros, and when fucking her, she gets her usual dose of tit-slapping and 360-degree-nipple-twisting along with the rough fuck. If you book her solo, I don't know about the price, propably depends on what you want to do. From what I gather, except shitting on her everything should be possible, from nipple-clams to whipping, from spitting to bitchslapping to smacking her head against the wall. So I've heard. But no personal experience on that, except roughing her up a bit during the gangbang-action. I once even spit in her face and slapped her face, but she then said, that this was not included in the price of the party. So it's all a question of money. Look for Anna in Krefeld on Kontakt24.

[url]www.kontakt24.de/hobbyhuren/27284/krefeld-47799-anna.html[/url]

Viel Spaß,

Swingerlover

I'm going to be visiting Thailand (hopefully) in February of this year. It will be my first trip there and I'm really interested in finding some bdsm, sm, slave kinda play there. I'm 19yo submissive guy from the US and wondering if any know of some good people / places there?

I had a dream of going to this Tantra shop in Regensburg, Germany while visiting there last year. They offer different types of massage but I wanted to try something new.

It appeared to be something really hidden. The main entrance can easily be missed, but it's in the side near an entrance to a yard. .

I had booked a Dominante Massage (a kind of light Domination / Dominant Massage with BDSM elements, but more bdsmy (sp?) than a standard bondassage I guess) which is usually done by Lena. When I arrived I was greeted by Maja, who informed me that Lena was not there but she offered to do the massage herself, and I accepted. There is the option of a shower in a jacuzzi bath too. Maja spoke great english, which helped as my german is very beginner level. Maja is from the Czech Republic if I'm not mistaken.

Well this session was wonderful. It's difficult to put such a thing in words I enjoyed this a lot. Mistress Maja was good with the whip She gave me some heavy strokes LOL. Just like I wanted.

She also grabbed my face at some point / s too.

I was very turned on too. And ended with a good HJ release with plenty of tantric energy over my body.

If I happened to be there again I'd go again. I loved this place.

[QUOTE=SwingerLover;1291273]

[url]www.sexslavinnen.eu[/url]

Sexslavinnen is in Belgium, Antwerp-area. Heard stories about that, seems to be stacked with very, very horny belgian and dutch housewives, who are supposed to do what they are ordered to do by their masters. Don't know how far the SM goes with them.
[/QUOTE]This looks very interesting. Thanks for the Link SwingerLover.

There is an interesting scientific paper (see link) entitled "Masochism as escape from the Self" by the psychologist Roy Baumeister.

[URL]http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CB8QFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.niu.edu%2Fuser%2Ftj0bjs1%2Fbdsm%2FBaumeister%2520%25281988%2529.pdf&ei=NkvLVPbSEcqB8QWwt4CwBw&usg=AFQjCNGnp7rvuahTp0b0ziEUrBdqDN8QWw&sig2=f7IzWBvXplZeTnolJytilA&bvm=bv.84607526[/URL], the. DGc.

Although scientists including Kraft-Ebbing and Freud referred to sado-masochism, Baumeister argues that masochism is an independent entity. There are cases of masochists becoming sadists, but sadists hardly ever become masochists.

Xaviera Hollander, media spokesman for prostitutes, claims that roughly 90% of the clients who purchase sadomasochistic services preferred the submissive role. This would imply that masochism is 10 times as common as sadism. If masochism is that common, the question arises as to whether it is a "normal variant" of sexuality.

Studies of masochistic individuals have revealed that the majority are "successful by social standards, professionally, sexually, emotionally, culturally, in marriage or out. " In the past, masochism has been characterized as self-destructive. Recent evidence indicates that the majority of masochists persistently seek pain but carefully avoid injury.

It is likely that a certain category of masochist starts off by getting his partner (e,g. A masseuse) to sexually stimulate parts of his body, both genital and non-genital. This is initially highly pleasurable, but as it continues over a longer duration the pleasure turns to pain. The person getting the massage is in a submissive position, which is consistent with masochism. As he is now sexually aroused he is becoming less sensitive to pain, so that in fact pain is experienced as pleasure.

Baumeister writes, "Whereas the self strives for control, masochists relinquish control. " he argues that for the masochist self hood has become burdensome. "People may wish to escape and avoid self-awareness, for example after finding out that they will probably be unable to improve or succeed on an important matter. Masochism provides a powerful method of removing high-level, abstract self-awareness".

I'm going to be visiting Philippines. I'm really interested in finding some BDSM, sm, slave kinda play there. I'm 59 yo dominant guy from Germany and wondering if any know of some good people / places there?

[QUOTE=TuDueno;1186480]Once a party with the princesses turned out to be converted into a bondage session. Well, I had no choice because they should refrain from using their hands.[/QUOTE]Love making a woman suck on johnny. Any such BDSM loving girls available in India?

Sadomasochism is a very trendy sexual practice in sex world, but you have to know how to to it right because you can hurt your partner if you don't agree limits and code words.

Are you dominant or you'the rather play the submissive role?

Any current escorts into the sub side of SM in continental Europe?

[QUOTE=IntoItAll;2481892]Any current escorts into the sub side of SM in continental Europe?[/QUOTE]Sofia in Madrid is my current favorite and I highly recommend her. She does everything, and does it well. Like a wind-up Energizer Bunny. She just keeps going until the session ends, and she speaks fluent English.

[URL]https://www.girlsmadrid.com/escort-sofia185.html[/URL]

I haven't seen Valeria. I was supposed to, but then fucking Covid-19 ruined a trip. She says she does submissive activities and her reviews on the local board are excellent. She corresponds in English, too.

[URL]https://www.escorts-madrid.co.uk/escort-valeria51.html[/URL]

Madrid also has a house of doms, subs and switches. I have written some reports and information in the Madrid forum. Monica seems to be the most highly thought of lady. At the moment they are apparently CBJ only due to covid-19, but that should change back soon. Use Google Chrome to read the thread in English. You need to join the free Spalumi thread to contact this house.

[URL]https://spalumi.com/f14/diosas-y-sumisas-36277/index134.html[/URL]

One of my life goals is to see Louise Pearl in Prague.

[URL]https://www.louisepearl-gfeprague.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://linktr.ee/miss_louise[/URL]

Prague has an agency with a subcategory of Submissives. The one I saw from them was excellent but doesn't work there any more. Overall, the reviews of ladies from this place are mixed.

[URL]https://pragueescorts.org/portfolio/category/submisssive-escorts-prague/[/URL]

I know very little about Zurich. There is a BDSM place and it appears to be very expensive and the ladies seem relatively older.

[URL]https://www.arte42.ch/sm/index.php[/URL]

And I know that London isn't continental Europe, but this lady tours. She advertises BBBJ, and that is notable because many London submissives seem to only offer CBJs.

[URL]https://www.purelilylondon.com/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mongerer88;2481977]Sofia in Madrid is my current favorite and I highly recommend her. She does everything, and does it well. Like a wind-up Energizer Bunny. She just keeps going until the session ends, and she speaks fluent English.

[URL]https://www.girlsmadrid.com/escort-sofia185.html[/URL]

I haven't seen Valeria. I was supposed to, but then fucking Covid-19 ruined a trip. She says she does submissive activities and her reviews on the local board are excellent. She corresponds in English, too.

[URL]https://www.escorts-madrid.co.uk/escort-valeria51.html[/URL]

Madrid also has a house of doms, subs and switches. I have written some reports and information in the Madrid forum. Monica seems to be the most highly thought of lady. At the moment they are apparently CBJ only due to covid-19, but that should change back soon. Use Google Chrome to read the thread in English. You need to join the free Spalumi thread to contact this house.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the detailed response, Valeria definitely has peaked my interest, some very nice pictures.

I am new to "practicing" this area, but have always found the pain / pleasure dynamic to be very interesting to me. Given that we are new to the ladies, and they are to us, I would assume that the first session would be on the vanilla side of things until a level of trust has been built up? Or is it very much, "here are the safe words and go hard at it"?

[QUOTE=IntoItAll;2482111]Thank you for the detailed response, Valeria definitely has peaked my interest, some very nice pictures.

I am new to "practicing" this area, but have always found the pain / pleasure dynamic to be very interesting to me. Given that we are new to the ladies, and they are to us, I would assume that the first session would be on the vanilla side of things until a level of trust has been built up? Or is it very much, "here are the safe words and go hard at it"?[/QUOTE]With independents it depends very much on the girl, and can vary a lot. That is even true at houses, though.

Usually you start with a warm-up hand spanking, which gives you a feel for how heavy of a player she is.

[QUOTE=Mongerer88;2482225]With independents it depends very much on the girl, and can vary a lot. That is even true at houses, though.

Usually you start with a warm-up hand spanking, which gives you a feel for how heavy of a player she is.[/QUOTE]Great, thanks very much. I'd appreciate if you had some recommendations to peruse, I'm open to traveling throughout Europe.

We started of with a few evening sessions, and really connected over dinner. Then we spent 2 days together at a very nice resort close to the small town where she lives. It is on the ocean and we spent part of the day walking along the shore bare-footed, holding hands. I think we really connected. For our next meeting, she wanted to explore her limits a bit further. I suggested a role play. So before our next weekend together, I wrote up a "job description" and emailed it to Lisette. She approved without hesitation and told me she was super excited to play it out. And she played it out perfectly. She did make just a few slip ups, but accepted her "corrections" with delight. Our arrangement went on for a few more months before other events (mostly COVID) ended our time together in January. She was definitely the best "arrangement" I have ever had, and a super sexy really nice lady. I don't usually do much kink with my liaisons, but this was very light kink and very consensual. Sadly, she is no longer in the business.

For your amusement, here is the "job description" she played out for me:

"You have been hired as Mr. Hunt's personal assistant. You are responsible for meeting Mr. Hunt's every need, at all times. Your complete and undivided attention to Mr. Hunt's needs is essential, and any lapse will require discipline.

You will be meeting Mr. Hunt at the * Hotel. When you arrive at the hotel at 5 pm, go directly to Mr. Hunt's room. The key card for the room will be in an envelope. You will see a corner of the envelope sticking out from under the door. Pull it through, and let yourself quietly into the room. Mr. Hunt will be upstairs in the loft, so you can get yourself prepared before he sees you. You will have brought along your dildo. In order to ensure that your * is moist and ready for Mr. Hunt's attention, once you have changed you can start to fuck yourself. You will be moaning loudly as you eagerly await Mr. Hunt's arrival.

Appropriate dress is required at all times. You will wear only sheer stockings, either nude stockings or black stockings preferably with a garter belt. Sheer black stockings will preferably have a back seam, and a welt and shadow welt at the top attached to a garter belt. High heels are required at all times. The skirt will be short, and must ride up at all times to sufficiently display the upper thigh and nearly, but not quite, the top of the stocking. When walking, you must be sure that the skirt raises accordingly. Failure to have the exact portion of thigh showing will require discipline.

The blouse will button in the front. Only Mr. Hunt is permitted to unbutton. A bra is optional, but if worn will be a quarter cup or shelf bra that will allow the nipples to rise above the top of the bra. Nipples should remain erect at all times. If necessary, you may caress your nipples to ensure this. If the blouse is thin enough, then you will moisten it with some water so that your nipples show through.

Panties must not be worn at any time, and violation of this rule may require strict discipline.

Your hair may be worn up at the start of the meeting, but you will let it down before the first time you suck Mr. Hunt's cock. It is important that your hair brush against Mr. Hunt's inner thighs while you lick and slobber over his throbbing cock.

Your demeanor at all times will be deferential. You must remember at all times to be a and to refer to yourself as such. It is a great honour to be Mr. Hunt's personal. Be sure to use language at all times. Asshole, tits, and cock are the only acceptable terms to be used. Any lapse in this will result in discipline.

You must at all times advise Mr. Hunt of your state of arousal. You will frequently check your * for wetness by inserting one or two fingers. If the result is satisfactory, hold your fingers out for Mr. Hunt to taste. If you have been very compliant, you may also fuck your with your dildo. But only after appropriately begging to do so. If the dildo is covered with sufficient juice, you will present it to Mr. Hunt and join him in licking it.

Be sure to remain well hydrated at all times. All kissing must be deep and sloppy, with slobber slowly sliding from your lips into Mr. Hunt's mouth or onto his stiff cock. When deep French kissing, your hair must be down with wisps of hair across your face and mouth. Mr. Hunt enjoys the softness of your hair passing across his lips and then sliding a few strands with his tongue into your mouth to enjoy the delicate feel.

Mr. Hunt will also enjoy some treats such as licorice. All treats must pass first through your lips. Be sure that you have taken a bite, so that the consistency is soft and moist before sliding it with your tongue into Mr. Hunt's mouth.

Bernard Callebaut gourmet chocolate sauce will be available. You will apply this creatively but be sure to include your nipples and any (or all) holes of your choosing. Only use about 5-10 ML at each sexy location to avoid spoiling Mr. Hunt's appetite.

Pay attention to Mr. Hunt's cock at all times. If Mr. Hunt has an erection, you will immediately wrap your lips around it and ensure there is a copious amount of slobber at all times. Mr. Hunt's cock will be the centre of your attention. You will greatly admire and worship his cock using appropriate terms.

Discipline might require restraining your hands and ankles, preferably in such a manner that your can be readily licked or penetrated. Your asshole must also be available at all times for licking or penetration by Mr. Hunt's finger. One finger, which will be well lubricated by your slobber. You will express enormous gratification that Mr. Hunt deems to pay attention to your asshole, as this is a privilege given only to the sluttiest of sluts.

A light spanking, using a small paddle, on your nipples, ass or wet will be required for minor infractions.

While restrained, it might give Mr. Hunt some pleasure to slide your dildo in and out of your wet and around your clit. He might then abruptly withdraw such pleasuring to enjoy your exquisite discomfort at having come close to but not quite having an orgasm. He might deem to complete your pleasure if you beg sufficiently and submissively.

If you have performed adequately, then Mr. Hunt may choose to fuck you. You will ensure your is moist and prepared to receive Mr. Hunt's throbbing stiff cock. Being fucked by Mr. Hunt is a great privilege and will be an intense sensual experience. You will express this pleasure using the utmost slutty language. Mr. Hunt prefers soft moaning as well. If Mr. Hunt tires of listening to you, he will insert a dildo or a finger or two into your mouth to shut you up and teach you when to be quiet, especially when he wants to focus his attention on fucking your.

Excellent job description. Did the applicant perform as expected? What lapses were there and how were they addressed?

[QUOTE=MikeHunt1227;2554129]We started of with a few evening sessions, and really connected over dinner. Then we spent 2 days together at a very nice resort close to the small town where she lives. It is on the ocean and we spent part of the day walking along the shore bare-footed, holding hands. I think we really connected. For our next meeting, she wanted to explore her limits a bit further. I suggested a role play. So before our next weekend together, I wrote up a "job description" and emailed it to Lisette. She approved without hesitation and told me she was super excited to play it out. And she played it out perfectly. She did make just a few slip ups, but accepted her "corrections" with delight. Our arrangement went on for a few more months before other events (mostly COVID) ended our time together in January. She was definitely the best "arrangement" I have ever had, and a super sexy really nice lady. I don't usually do much kink with my liaisons, but this was very light kink and very consensual. Sadly, she is no longer in the business.

For your amusement, here is the "job description" she played out for me:

"You have been hired as Mr. Hunt's personal assistant. You are responsible for meeting Mr. Hunt's every need, at all times. Your complete and undivided attention to Mr. Hunt's needs is essential, and any lapse will require discipline.

You will be meeting Mr. Hunt at the * Hotel. When you arrive at the hotel at 5 pm, go directly to Mr. Hunt's room. The key card for the room will be in an envelope. You will see a corner of the envelope sticking out from under the door. Pull it through, and let yourself quietly into the room. Mr. Hunt will be upstairs in the loft, so you can get yourself prepared before he sees you. You will have brought along your dildo. In order to ensure that your * is moist and ready for Mr. Hunt's attention, once you have changed you can start to fuck yourself. You will be moaning loudly as you eagerly await Mr. Hunt's arrival.

Appropriate dress is required at all times. You will wear only sheer stockings, either nude stockings or black stockings preferably with a garter belt. Sheer black stockings will preferably have a back seam, and a welt and shadow welt at the top attached to a garter belt. High heels are required at all times. The skirt will be short, and must ride up at all times to sufficiently display the upper thigh and nearly, but not quite, the top of the stocking. When walking, you must be sure that the skirt raises accordingly. Failure to have the exact portion of thigh showing will require discipline.

The blouse will button in the front. Only Mr. Hunt is permitted to unbutton. A bra is optional, but if worn will be a quarter cup or shelf bra that will allow the nipples to rise above the top of the bra. Nipples should remain erect at all times. If necessary, you may caress your nipples to ensure this. If the blouse is thin enough, then you will moisten it with some water so that your nipples show through.

Panties must not be worn at any time, and violation of this rule may require strict discipline.

Your hair may be worn up at the start of the meeting, but you will let it down before the first time you suck Mr. Hunt's cock. It is important that your hair brush against Mr. Hunt's inner thighs while you lick and slobber over his throbbing cock.

Your demeanor at all times will be deferential. You must remember at all times to be a and to refer to yourself as such. It is a great honour to be Mr. Hunt's personal. Be sure to use language at all times. Asshole, tits, and cock are the only acceptable terms to be used. Any lapse in this will result in discipline.

You must at all times advise Mr. Hunt of your state of arousal. You will frequently check your * for wetness by inserting one or two fingers. If the result is satisfactory, hold your fingers out for Mr. Hunt to taste. If you have been very compliant, you may also fuck your with your dildo. But only after appropriately begging to do so. If the dildo is covered with sufficient juice, you will present it to Mr. Hunt and join him in licking it.

Be sure to remain well hydrated at all times. All kissing must be deep and sloppy, with slobber slowly sliding from your lips into Mr. Hunt's mouth or onto his stiff cock. When deep French kissing, your hair must be down with wisps of hair across your face and mouth. Mr. Hunt enjoys the softness of your hair passing across his lips and then sliding a few strands with his tongue into your mouth to enjoy the delicate feel.

Mr. Hunt will also enjoy some treats such as licorice. All treats must pass first through your lips. Be sure that you have taken a bite, so that the consistency is soft and moist before sliding it with your tongue into Mr. Hunt's mouth.

Bernard Callebaut gourmet chocolate sauce will be available. You will apply this creatively but be sure to include your nipples and any (or all) holes of your choosing. Only use about 5-10 ML at each sexy location to avoid spoiling Mr. Hunt's appetite.

Pay attention to Mr. Hunt's cock at all times. If Mr. Hunt has an erection, you will immediately wrap your lips around it and ensure there is a copious amount of slobber at all times. Mr. Hunt's cock will be the centre of your attention. You will greatly admire and worship his cock using appropriate terms.

Discipline might require restraining your hands and ankles, preferably in such a manner that your can be readily licked or penetrated. Your asshole must also be available at all times for licking or penetration by Mr. Hunt's finger. One finger, which will be well lubricated by your slobber. You will express enormous gratification that Mr. Hunt deems to pay attention to your asshole, as this is a privilege given only to the sluttiest of sluts.

A light spanking, using a small paddle, on your nipples, ass or wet will be required for minor infractions.

While restrained, it might give Mr. Hunt some pleasure to slide your dildo in and out of your wet and around your clit. He might then abruptly withdraw such pleasuring to enjoy your exquisite discomfort at having come close to but not quite having an orgasm. He might deem to complete your pleasure if you beg sufficiently and submissively.

If you have performed adequately, then Mr. Hunt may choose to fuck you. You will ensure your is moist and prepared to receive Mr. Hunt's throbbing stiff cock. Being fucked by Mr. Hunt is a great privilege and will be an intense sensual experience. You will express this pleasure using the utmost slutty language. Mr. Hunt prefers soft moaning as well. If Mr. Hunt tires of listening to you, he will insert a dildo or a finger or two into your mouth to shut you up and teach you when to be quiet, especially when he wants to focus his attention on fucking your.[/QUOTE]

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[QUOTE=MikeHunt1227;2554129]We started of with a few evening sessions, and really connected over dinner. Then we spent 2 days together at a very nice resort close to the small town where she lives. It is on the ocean and we spent part of the day walking along the shore bare-footed, holding hands. I think we really connected. For our next meeting, she wanted to explore her limits a bit further. I suggested a role play. So before our next weekend together, I wrote up a "job description" and emailed it to Lisette. She approved without hesitation and told me she was super excited to play it out. And she played it out perfectly. She did make just a few slip ups, but accepted her "corrections" with delight. Our arrangement went on for a few more months before other events (mostly COVID) ended our time together in January. She was definitely the best "arrangement" I have ever had, and a super sexy really nice lady. I don't usually do much kink with my liaisons, but this was very light kink and very consensual. Sadly, she is no longer in the business.

For your amusement, here is the "job description" she played out for me:

"You have been hired as Mr. Hunt's personal assistant. You are responsible for meeting Mr. Hunt's every need, at all times. Your complete and undivided attention to Mr. Hunt's needs is essential, and any lapse will require discipline.[/QUOTE]

Hello,

Does anybody know if in some part of the world (Thailand, Philippines, Brazil.) it is possible the hire a real submissive girl for some days? Maybe trough an agency or some local clubs.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYVNswHlcSs[/URL]

This is a very good series.