What Country has the Best Women for LTR?

enlighter...I have to assume that as somebody who has not left India you may believe the things you read on this board. The truth is that just as the things written here about India were wrong, many of the things that you read here about other countries are also wrong. I don't want to pick on individual posters here, but a few guys here are very angry that they can't get attention from American women and are saying bad things about the women rather than face their own shortcommings. Some go so far as to make up fantasy lives in other countries where imaginary women fall at their feet everytime they walk down the street. The truth is women in all countries are mostly the same. If a man can dress well, speak in a civil manner and earn a decent living he will have no trouble finding women who will want to marry him..... If he is looking for quick sex, he is going to have to pay for it.

LOL here's my two cents, after 300+ ho's in 100+ countries:

American women have turned so bitchy and demanding, that we have had to turn into wimps just to please them or at least not get sued for sexual harassment. Because of our de-balling, we Gringos seem very sweet to non-U.S. women.
In the meantime, in 99% of the world, a girl isn't worth dogshit. Hell in Thailand and China and many other countries a daughter is WORSE than nothing, because Dad has to save and pay a dowry to some guy to marry her!!!! Thus, most 3rd world men treat their women like shit, and the women learn to be sweet and subservient, so as not to get hit and join the SLAPAHO tribe.

Result: American men treat *****S better than 3rd world men treat their WIVES! When I meet a chica in Brasil, Thailand, Nicaragua, Cebu, Seoul, etc., that I really LIKE, I take her to dinner, maybe even a movie, buy her a few trinkets, ask about her family, etc. Heck, if she is nice and sweet, I even open doors for her! Basically, I am trying to recreate an American "date", as I have been taught bvy demanding American women.
Meanwhile, she is playing the subservient role, hanging on my arm, saying I rove yoo sooo mush!!!! and cutting my food and wiping my arse for me, as SHE has been taught by the demanding macho males of her country.
And heck to her, this isn't a fate worser than death, she is staying in an A/C motel, watching my big color TV and eating well. Otherwise she would be married, with 6 kids, to some macho loser back in the village who hits her, and she would be walking the rice paddies behind the buffalo every day, or working in front of a sewing machine for $4 a day. And when it's all over, I give her a month's salary just for hanging out at a luxury hotel that she could never get into without me, and rolling around for an hour with a guy who is nicer, cleaner, and less rough than any local man would be! It is what we call in business a WIN-WIN situation!
The irony is that we call this a GFE: Girl Friend Experience. Well I am not as bitter as some, because I have dated over 100 U.S. women, but I have NEVER had a U.S. girlfriend who gave me a "GFE" like, say ummm Carla in Brasil, or Tina in Argentina... or Goob in Pattay (ahh memory lane, pass the handcream!!!)
In the meantime, ironically, it is great for THEM too, because they have told me that I treat them better as a ho, than any Brasilian/Thai/Argentinian/Czech/Ozzie/Flip/Korean man would treat his WIFE!!!
In other words, we have been so pussywhipped by American women, and they have been so mistreated by their local men, that we seem very sweet and romantic to EACH OTHER! Ain't THAT a laugh???? Well, as I said to my buddy the other day as we were siting in a 3rd world massage parlor, all things considered, I would rather be the one sitting here and drinking beer and choosing a girl, than to be one of the hundred girls smiling back at us with numbers on their dresses. Just remember, it's a tough life, and, but for fate, THAT COULD BE YOU OR YOUR SISTER, so treat em with a little respect.

I say that the bitchy American women should hook up with these abusive villagers and see what they take for granted from us American men. Meanwhile the sweet, caring foreign women are right for us because we treat women like queens and the foreign women treat us like kings. We would meet our right partners if us Americans and the foreigners switched partners. The foreign men need bitchy feminist American women to put them in their places and us American men and the foreign women need the loving and caring attitudes we would give each other. In fact, my relationships in Brazil were a thousand times better than the relationships I had with American women. Not to mention the sex was better and I didn't have to wait 3-5 dates for even a kiss. In Brazil, I had sex with the Brazilian girl the first night of dating (protected of course to prevent illegitimate kids). Actually, now I would like a family from a foreign woman instead of from an American woman. I however, since I an Chinese in the racial sense, had to prove I was American by speaking fluent English. In fact, Rosie (short for Rosengela) thought I was from China until I opened my mouth and spoke fluent English. She then found out I was American. American men have a reputation in Brazil of being not only rich, but caring and party lovers. Maybe my American status got me laid or maybe she wanted to experiment with an Asian guy. Asian guys are also worshipped in brazil. Brazilians understand that most of their technology comes from Japan so they think that I am technologically intelligent. In fact, unlike in America where I ocassionally get into a fight or get insulted for being Asian, I get a lot of praise from the Brazilian people. I speak semi-fluent Portugese so I would understand or catch on if they insult me or at least the girl I dated would tell me but no one in Brazil insulted me.

I read many of the post here and my opinion is not drastically different. I don't know if it actually "American Women" or Just our American way of life.

I work with some women who were born and brought up in China but are here for the last few years. Couple of them have not lot their roots and are humble and very nice and decent. But some have turned outright bitchy. They claim how have all this freedom here, where as in China they have bow to their husbands and suck their entire lives. One of them also explained how when she lived with her husband in China she was so oppressed and now she says, I have so much options, I don't care for him and I can dump him anytime and he does all the laundry & cooking too.

Damn, are we creating these monsters out of women. Is this what we call freedom. There dosen't not seem to be any equality just threat and coersion to stay married.

I am a single guy, the more and more I see this I really doubt if you can find someone. Even if you find a nice girl outside the US they mabe become the ***** monsters thru association it seems.

Phish,
You are absolutely correct. I have seen so many Asian women come here, and within a matter of months, they are transformed from sweet, loving companions, to raging, materialistic cunts, who are every bit as awful, if not worse, than their American sisters! It truly IS an impossible situation, as long as we insist on living in the U.S.

I agree that foreign women turn bitchy when they come to America. The American influence doesn't happen the moment she steps off the boat though but it sometimes takes time or she has to meet the wrong person. I almost got married to a Cuban immigrant I met while teaching Math in a City University of NY, Kingsborough Community College. She was very nice and respectful towards me when I first met her. She just got her citizenship in the US when she entered high school so I met her during her fourth year in the US. Two years after I first dated her and got engaged to her, she met a feminist ***** named Martha in New York University, the school Nury transferred to after 2 years, who taught her the American ways of "freedom". Martha brainwashed my ex-fiancee, Nury, into believing that women have the true power of the household and that men should be puppets. Martha also told Nury to quit working out with me and eat fast foods with her and told her to "be her own person and in charge of her man". This was an extreme change in Nury's character, from a loving and caring woman to a complete neo-feminist *****. I don't know what I did to deserve this but I was very loving and respectful towards her. I always listened to Nury and solved her problems, bought her things she needed and wanted, and cared deeply for her and I never even physically or mentally abused her but after meeting Martha, Nury started being abusive. It's not really that we are nice to these women or overspoil them but it is the American influence. If I lived in Cuba with Nury, she would never have met such an American neo-feminist ***** like Martha and we would still be together. This is why I'd like to retire in Brazil and marry a much younger, much prettier and less shallow girl.

What chuponalgas says is true in my experience.

By the way, it's true that the situation in Europe is a little better than the US, but there are big differences within. Those of use who live in the North-West of Europe see women from Eastern Europe in the way that some of you guys see women from Latin countries.

One problem here is that the girls are more conservative and less materialistic than their western counterparts - sounds great, but the disadvantage is that means that they won't usually have sex with you just for a visa or because they think you are rich (professionals aside of course).

On the other hand they are all looking for the right men. I live in an area where there are almost no westerners (Kosice in Slovakia), but the girls are trying to find themselves a good man, and make sure to dress themselves well at all times and try to look pretty all the time - the main street looks like a fashion catwalk at times. The girls have difficulty finding a good man though, because the local men are almost all openly chauvinist alcoholics. When you get to know a girl and she works out that you are different (ie that you are a closet chauvinist alcoholic, who can actually control when he misbehaves) then you have a good chance of getting into a L-T relationship with a girl who behaves and looks much better than her western counterparts, and who also has not had lots of previous boyfriends.

Don't know the situation about needing Spanish to teach English in Mexico, but out here you don't need to speak the local language to teach advanced students (there was no English teaching under communism, so even most professional teachers have average English (having learnt from books, or other teachers who had learnt from books), and if English is your native language then you will get a job easily).

Just wondering as a Black man what are the best countries to go to? This is a great site but one thing that may need to be taken more into account is race. Many of the same countries that worship white skin, dislike the opposite. I know being American negates some of this, but whats's the deal?

I'm not here to make any moral judgements, but from a practical point of view perhaps I need to interpret these country reviews through a different lense so to speak. It's ironic, but a friend told me a blackman in Germany or Amsterdam would do just as well <or better> with non pro's than with pro's. I recognize these are not 3rd world countries we are talking about here,so that may be a factor. Conversely I'm told some Thais, Dominicans, and other dark skinned peoples have varying degrees of disdain for dark skin and therefore may charge a black man more than the usual rates. Comments? Opinions?

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In Europe at least the best countries to go to as a black man would be the western ones (which is unlucky as the East is better in lots of ways).

Your black skin will be most attractive in countries where there are few black men (like 1 percent of the whole population), as most of the girls will not have known a black man and you will be their one chance. In countries where there are lots of black people (like 5-10 percent as in UK, France) you will be just like a normal guy (so you won't have extra luck with the girls). In countries where there are virtually no black people (usually former communist countries) then there will be lots of predjudice against you - partly because people are not used to black people (except as gangster rappers on TV, which doesn't exactly help), and if you read about the treatment of the Roma/Gypsies in most eastern european countries you will see they are quite racist anyway (like USA in the 50s).

So I think your friend was probably right about Germany - it has few blacks, but it also has a non-predjudiced attitude - that's your ideal combination to make it with non-pros.

manofkosice,


Thanks, that's what I figured. I heard Iceland would qualify too....
You white guys are lucky, you are the shit in Asia, Africa , and South America.

That is because the white guys are known to have the money. Some foreigners think black men are poor. The only thing that will negate this is the fact that you are American so by all means mention that you are American. When I went to the cave club in DR, all the women flocked to me because I was a well dressed Asian American guy. Nobody sat next to my black friend who looked like a Domican local and he spoke fluent spanish so he was thought to be poor and abusive like the DR men. When I mentioned he was American in broken spanish, the girls started sitting next to him also. American men are known to treat their ladies right, especially the brothas. They are known to spoil their women and not to abuse them unlike DR men. Both of us walked out with women just by saying we are American and that's what makes me proud to be one overseas.

I am black and I went to Brazil to see some friends the women were really receptive! Especially the mulatas (some have blue eyes)! Just go to any fast food restaurant and speak english little and they will start to flirt!

I also heard Chile is a good place to go for brothers!

Also I dated a Columbian girl in the U.S. She told me that there is a island where White European and White American women travel to have sex with black men! There are places in Jamaica like that too!

I know a lot of Japanese girls and some love black guys! As a matter of fact my roommate who is Jamaican has a live in Japanese girlfriend. My friend who are white and U.S. Marines told me that black guys in Japan don't have to pay for pussy or food because the Japanese girls spoil them!

I the Philipines blacks are treated good!

I Thailand "The land of vertical smiles" black are treated good!

Basically avoid China and Korea!

I even heard Taiwan was o.k. not the best but o.k.

Go to www.goldsea.com in the poll section for asian women and black men! And you will see some examples of blacks in asia.

You just have to remember that most asian are easily influenced by the media! And some take everything as fact. So the best thing to do is to be sensitive to their concerns and try to smile and be helpful. Explain all question clearly and even when you're pissed don't get emotional!

Here is a story you may like! A buddy of mine was in the USAF and he was sent to Greenland! It was so cold there and the base he was at there were no females 64 men!

So all of the white men would go to a city called "Too Lee" but they would tell the black men they hate you in "TOO LEE" don't go! So he being a brother went anyway!

When he arrive he saw brothers with 5 girls a piece driving the local (girls) cars staying in their home and kicken it at the bars with them!


Iceland, Poland, Romania and Hungry are the same way!

Black music (Rap,Hip Hop) has helped and damaged our imagine aboard in many ways, exploit the positive! Just remember we control youth culture with our styles!