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So has anyone ever used AFF to hook-up with someone successfully? It's the cyber equivalent of looking for SW in a sense.
AFF has been a scam as far as I'm concerned. After being a member for a month all I got was a bunch of spam. Most ads are not real, just meant to get your email addr.
I was a paid member both as a single and a couple. Never had much luck. Set up a number of meetings, all of which were no shows. Plus other game playing. Never hooked up with anyone in person.
On the other hand it was exciting exchanging responses for a while.
I've had nothing but bad experiences with AFF. All the girls that responded to my profile were just trying to get guys to subscribe to their website. I would suggest looking elsewhere. Just my two cents.
rickenrack,
Could you elaborate on AFF? I've never heard of it.
DfB
AFF = Adult Friend Finder
I've heard a lot of people say they have success with it. I don't believe your analogy is correct to compare it to online SW scene. It's more of an incognito independent esort site.
I've not yet hooked up with anyone from it. I've found a large number of women who will spam the crap out of you. But if you know what you're looking for, you can also find professionals doing some "advertising". It all depends how clever you are in your search.
Anbody ever try date.com?
How about sex-on-the-side-org? Is anybody willing to take one for the team?
ADULT FRIEND FINDER:
I hooked up on AFF with this fat chick in my area a few years ago for a couple of romps but it took me 6 months of emailing dozens of girls before getting a single response and I never got any from my own ad. She on the other hand said she got over 50 emails her first week and didnt even post a picture so you can imagine the response hot naked girls with pictures get. The obvious problem with AFF is, it advertizes now on every other porn site and draws in a disproportionate amount of horny desperate men to selective few women. Thus the competition will be fearce among it's drooling masses if you can even find a ligitamate ad to begin with.
I think AFF probably works better and has more real ads if your a man seeking a man or if your part of a swinger couple looking to swap with other couples. If your a single hetro guy however, your likely just wasting your time and money while helping to make AFF rich. My sucsess was certianly not worth the effort I put into it and I've gotten much more play through regular dating sites. You will have to play the dating game to get any pussy from regular dating sites though, but thats to be expected.
J Burb
I have used AFF off and on for a couple of years. I usually get a silver membership for one month and don't renew it. If you are a standard member, expect no benefits at all. All you can do is browse. As a standard member I never received one response to my profile.
As a silver member I have had a bit of success. Over the past two years I have been a silver member for one month on four different occasions. Each time I was able to meet at least one woman.
The first woman was in Andalusia, AL. We met at a motel after chatting occasionally over a week. She was not much in the way of looks, but she was a super sex partner. She was married and bored and her oral skills were very good. I saw her only once because she was so ugly.
I met the second woman at a motel in Panama City, FL. She was a divorcee. She was like a dead fish in terms of agressiveness in bed. We had sex once and I left, even though I came prepared to spend the night.
The third woman I met at a motel in Evergreen, AL. She was married but was not getting any sex. On a scale of 1-10, her looks were a five. What she lacked in looks, she made up in agressive sex. She was good. But, again, I was turned off by her looks and never saw her again.
The fourth woman I met at a motel in Ozark, AL. She was as ugly as hell. She was a screamer, and I was not comfortable knowing that whoever was in the next room could hear her. One time was enough on her, too.
The fifth woman I met was also in the Ozark, AL area. I went to her house. She was divorced and had a couple of kids at home (but not at the moment). She was a good sex partner, too. But her pic flattered her.
A couple of other ladies strung me along for several weeks. After several cancellations of planned meetings I wrote both of them off.
If you join AFF, you might want to stay away from the standard members that have posted pics that seem too good to be true. That's exactly what they are. They are fakes.
I just joined back up with AFF as a standard member, but I don't expect anything to come of it. I'll probably wind up signing up for a month of silver membership and see what else I can come up with.
I've been on AFF myself. It probably does work best for swinging couples and single women looking for couples or being real, damn picky.
I tend to believe that it's a scam for single men. It could be done easily, if you know what I mean. I've gotten a couple of emails back, but they say auto response on them. ???? Doesn't people read their emails anymore?
I've paid one time, and that will be the last.
There is a service - I don't know how long its been around - called Web Date. The service has been free so far, and you can cam with other people. You'll have to see it to know what I mean. The address for this service is:
webdate.com
It's been interesting so far because you do find some of the women at times flashing their tits. (:
Reno Dude
Brethren,
FYI, I noticed here that some are inquiring about AFF, and want to add my "Dos Pesos". AFF is a slick site that really feeds on its self by creating a community of hopefuls. My experience is that you can indeed find that jewel, but it requires creativity. I have found a few cuties, all married, by joining in the chat rooms with the objective of making the women laugh. They seem to have a weakness for wit, and will often make contact to let you know. My most notable episodes were cultivated by returning to the same room, flirting, but not pouncing as soon as she begins to flirt in return. Often, I will simply take note of her handle, and return the next day or two to continue the same. Another advantage of AFF is that when women find you interesting, they have ways of letting you know; via pm, invites ect.
If you join, never engage in a pissing contest with the competition. Many of the women on AFF are regulars and they do take note of what you say, and how you say it! And, do get YIM or another instant messenger so that you can communicate privately. The downside to AFF, in my view, is that the site is chuck full of 'large' women who are not honest about their weight.
Now, as an alternative to AFF, there is a site called [red]Paltalk[/red] (note: some imitators with similar name). They have several rooms, many for adults, but some for teens and special interest. The beauty of Paltalk is that many women use there Cams while on-line and mic for audio too. This way, you can actually see who you're talking with; and if bold, let them see you too. There are two down sides to Paltalk, as I see it; First; the women are often miles away. Second, when you find a 'looker', all the other guys are shooting their best shot. The pace is fast, the energy is high, but if you can isolate a cutie it's worth your while.
I find Paltalk to be quite interesting because the women will perform sex acts right on camera, they are often in various state of dress. Currently, working on a cutie that I met through this site but I think she wants more that I have to offer; you see - I lied! Oh well!
Let me know what you think.
I am not sure if these fit into this category, but I have been using free services (Hey, I am cheap in some respects) lately craigslist.org and loveaccess.com
Everyone basically knows about craigslist, it is popular for being popular, more than anything else. Sort of like the flea market for any and everything, at least on the site, people are specific about exactly what they want. I have met some women from the site who were not bad, but no success.
Loveaccess.com seems to be the typical dating site except that you do not need to pay in order to contact/e-mail someone that you are interested in. I am currently working on meeting someone from that site.
Has anyone had any experiences with these sites or know of similar ones that they can pass along?