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Spidey,
I have reviewed all of your posts and I could only come to one conclusion: you shoot your mouth faster than your brain could think. You made several attempts to strike a conversation with intelligent mongers in this board and mostly all have ignored your attempts. The funny part is that some of these people, oblivious to you, are Filipinos. You exude a racist persona and people know it. At this point, I am truly certain that you are racist. After reaching America from an Asian country (I could tell you are Asian), you seem to have boosted your "superiority complex", or likely, dysfunction, by learning a little of America's language and culture but mostly by money, and, begin to think that you know it all. If you cannot understand this now maybe you should find some time to avail yourself of proper education. Your brand of ridicule is out of place in this board. I believe Jackson will agree with me on this.
MasterBlaster
Jackson, Sorry, allow me to fight for my dignity. Spidey will have the chance to retort intelligently if he is even capable of it.
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Hey Guys
I have a simple question. I met this filipina chick online, and Ive been talking to her for about a month. She is all happy with me, I even call her, and she calls me. Im starting to have second thoughts about her since she brought up the idea of a fiancé visa.
What does the fiancé visa entail? If she applies for it, and we somehow break up can I send her back to manila? Or will I be a fool and she has a free ride to the states?
Let me know guys
Un
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MasterBlaster,
100% support you talk about " Mr Spiney" all stupid messege!
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Yes, since he's being an ignorant racists, let's do the same, he must be Asian, no make that Oriental like my rug. He must be Chinese, Korean, no Japanese, those guys think they are superior. You end up being the same dumb arse smucks, making ignorant comments like him... leave the troll alone and don't become a troll yourself.
Mook
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Dam what is your problem! I looked at his post and his bias dumb ass! I don't care where he is from shit! Some people take the net to seriously, go outside and get a fucking life.
P.S. In the states we spell Arse a s s !
Three X out!
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3X, Blaster, Danny, Mook
1. In UK we spell it ARSE - what does it matter anyway?
2. I'd rather see some well written reports on the great hobby of shagging, in preference to this tirade of argumentative bullshit. Can’t you children quit fighting?
3. No other comments!
ER
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Undray:
The ceaseless pursuit of a Fiancee Visa is the avocation of half the Filipinas in the country under the age of 40. Be very careful about this, as the process is time consuming and expensive. First, unless you can get an exemption from USCIS, you need to be in the Philippines during some of the process. Second, you will need to prove the durability and seriousness of your relationship. Third, you will have to demonstrate the financial capacity to take care of the girl and fourth, she will have to go to the US Embassy in the Manila for a lengthy interview and a lot of physical examinations.
The odds on clearing all of the hurdles are not great and it sounds like you have never even met the woman! She may be a terrific human being. On the other hand, she may be having the same conversation with a handful of Western men, hoping that just one of them takes her seriously.
The best advice I could give you is to walk away now and not even to consider pursuing this further.
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Three X, what the heck are you doing, you're pointing at him saying "his post and his bias dumb ass!" and you come out and say because he's like that, "He sounds like a Chinese or Korean to me!"
You're statements are troll statements just like him.
And yes I know ass is spelled A S S, I thought there was a profanity censor on this board.
Mook
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Mookman,
I'm Asian and he's asian. I never said he is Korean, Chinese or anything but Asian. I precisely said he may be Asian. There is a thin line there but I never crossed it.
Three X,
Arse as in Arsehole? Which time period do you belong? Get a life yourself. I was not talking to you anyways! You are a racist pretending not to be one.
Dannyvip,
Thanks. Some people think they can get a way with everything even ignorance.
MasterBlaster
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Undray,
If you are having second thoughts, it looks like the girl isn't for you or you might need more time to know her. You are already talking about how she could possibly betray you and how to get even with her when things fall apart. When you are at the stage that you are comfortable, maybe that's the time to talk about getting a fiance visa.
MasterBlaster
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Wicked SH, GoodEnough, Deep Diver, Instransit and Spidey:
Thanks for your responses to my message of 6/22. Sorry I am just now getting back to you all. I appreciate all of you taking the time.
I would like to say that some of the comments were very helpful and I have shared some similar observations that some have made such as her tendency toward jealousy, possessiveness etc. I broached the matter with her and she was genuinely apologetic and really wanted me to help her with this. She said she would really try to do better in the future and felt this way cause it had been so long since she had felt any feelings of love from someone or toward someone (she has been in a bad marriage for 15 years). Her response sounded reasonable. The idea that she may be ten years less mature is an interesting concept. She is now 34 - so some of you have suggested she might then be only emotionally at a 24 year old level or less. Yet this is a woman that has been married 15 years, been raising 4 children, colleged educated and working full time in marketing while married to a dead beat lazy guy who abused her and abondoned her. My guess is that her emotional stablility and maturity to handle all this must be pretty good. Please, I genuinely welcome your rebuttal on this. Some of you pointed out some practical issues such as marriage, fiance visa and stuff. At this point she has not talked that language though I think she would be willing to leave her children behind if she could get a job in the states (I think she is thinking more less of an arrangement like a long term girlfriend kind of thing). That is not bad. However lets say I did want to go the next step - it was suggested that annulment is not possible with her having 4 children. Her sister told me it could happen for about $ 5000 (I think this is done under the table if you know the right people). What is your experience or observations with this.
Anyway - she is a good girl who is not making any demands of me. We met online but there was never any kind of seducing or stuff like that. The attraction only started after we met in person.
Thanks for your feedback here. Still contemplating my options of holding on to her for a while and seeing how it goes. We have a planned trip together in Thailand in Aug for a few days of fun. She is really looking forward to getting away.
Thanks again
Hank
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GoodEnough,
What part of the fiancee visa process does a guy need to be in the RP for? I know the man has to go there and prove they met initially, but other than that, what else? I was under the impression you then come back to the states, petition her, get the approval and then they send it to manila where they contact the girl and tell her what to do. I am not aware of any reason why the man would have to return, unless he wants to attend the interview in Manila. What am I missing?
Thanks
Mikster
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EverReady,
Read the heading "Filipinas - Opinions and Advice". Use your head instead of your Johnson.
MasterBlaster
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UNDRAY
"What does the fiancé visa entail? If she applies for it, and we somehow break up can I send her back to manila? Or will I be a fool and she has a free ride to the states?"
My man, you seem nervous about about this filipina. I can understand why, all the horror stories you will hear. The only piece of advice I can offer is this. " take you time"
I mean this in all it's forms. Get to know the filipina, get to know her family, her friends. Try to see her in all types of situations. (personally I try to get them mad/angry to see how they react, but that's just me)
If this woman is serious she will wait, believe me if she thinks you interested she will wait. Don't let her rush you or push to do anything without you thinking about it. Be polite and interested in her.
Also for Yoda's sake ask questions. Too many guys just get stuck with the figure, the sex, the affections they bestow.
Stop, and take a deep breath and ask questions. See how she is responds to them, wait awhile and ask the same questions again. If she is evasive, you may have a problem, If she responds to the same questions with a totally different answer, again you may have a problem.
Now as far as visa are concerned. You could do it yourself. I have some friends who have done so and got through with it. You can order most of the forms via the Internet or via the phone. I personally would use a lawyer.. However, that's because I am lazy.
You can go to any INS web site and read about the requirements. It's not as expensive as all that. but it can add up.
The important thing to remember is or be wary of is the affidavit of support. This is where you promise UNCLE SAM that you will take care and provide for all your bride's needs and wants. That she will not request assistant from any government agency.(They're are exceptions to this rule but by and large that's what it means.)
The last time checked into the affidavit I was told their were 2 version, a 10 year one and 3/5 year?( I think).
Now heres the really fun part. If your bride from the filipines up's and leaves you for any reason after you are married. Your fault, her fault, the dogs fault, no one's fault.
If she she goes some where and request government assistance
YOU CAN BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE ASSITANCE.
The state or Federal government can recoup the monies given her for assistance from you. They can and may come after you for the money.
This why I say don't be rush into anything. Take your time. There are a lot of filipinas who do what ever it takes to get the hell out of the filipines.(can't say that I blame them)
They will say anything and project the type of image that will make you weak in the knees and make you want to run to the alter right away. They will screw you silly and do any thing to get you to remember them.
I have no problem with that. I personally feel if you into a contract(marriage) then you should keep you contract agreement. She be a good and loyal wife and you should be a husband as you stated you would be. Neither should break the contract. The problem is that one or the other will or could decide to break it. That's where the problem comes into this.
Sorry, I don't usually do these long posts. I am going through this process now. So I feel strongly about it.
I wish you luck.
Don't be afraid to try. But don't overlooked things from her that could be a problem because it will only get worse.
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Three x-ray, (you need to check up your lung actually), Mookman (you also need to change a woodman--no educated), why both you guys don't like or hate Asian? Are you American or European?
Rubbish!