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Littlejackuk,
Yes, you are correct about the risks of BBBJ's. Unlike most STD's, herpes is viral and cannot be cured. There are some theories about washing the area extensively with soap and water right after before the virus can invade and infect the skin. Some guys and my Dermatologist recommend alcohol wipes afterward to neutralize the virus. This is all conjecture and has never been subjected to formalized medical inquiry.
The problem , however, is that a BBBJ is sooo pleasureable for guys given the density of nerves on the penis. As a result, many guys will take the risk (myself included) because it feels so great.
Do you or the other guys out there feel satisfied with a covered BJ? If not, what's the alternative??? I'm open to suggestions.
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i agree littlejackuk about the risks involved but like paddy said the pleasure of a girls tongue and lips directly is too hard to resist sometimes .i have tried cbj till almost completion and then removing the condom and either spraying the gals face or shooting my load down her mouth .but still theres nothin like bbbj in the raw.
havanaman i definately love seeing them cumstrings on a gals face after giving her a fantast theraputic facial ;)
what i do now after my bbbj is carry with me a small pack of the antibacterial handwipes and makesure i wipe down mr happy after the job is done.i also ask the gal to wipe hands and lips with the same wipes before begining the bbbj.i do not know medically how much this may help from preventing or reducing risks of any std's but have seen it suggested on this board and some other websites as well and thought that at least it will maybe help to some extent.i also make it a point to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord111][CodeWord111][/url] soon after the job is done as it has been suggested that doing so helps lower the risk too.
any suggestions from you all will be welcomed and appreciated.
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Gentlemen,
Of course Raider and Paddy are right on the button. BBBJ is by far the best. CBJ is dull by comparison.
We all know the risks. We make our choices, much in the same way smokers make the choice. Its not a matter of an intelligent choice, more a matter of an informed and personal choice.
[b]My simple policy for BJ & FS:[/b]
With a SW in a car (rare for me, but does happen) I use the medi-wipes (alcohol-based tissues: use the large surgical variety, not the injection-wipes). [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112][CodeWord112][/url] after the fact is a must. Indeed I drink water to ensure I “have to go…” afterwards.
For ANY indoor action (short-time hotel, parlour, TLN etc), I pay extra to shower with the chica. I always have a shower cap with my travel toiletries, so it is not a problem if the hotel does not have one. Over the years I have found chicas will not take a shower unless they can keep their hair dry… The mutual shower is not only a turn on, it keeps things as clean as I can get them. Which I am happy with. I also insist on mouth-wash, which I also use inf front of the chica, so she can see its about both our comfor and safety. This is good, visual example of respecting each other.
This is the best compromise I have. I accept it.
Any other methods / strategies / procedure appreciated.
Regards, Havanaman
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Does anyone know anyone who had contracted herpes as a result of indulging in BBBJ ? I like most people have taken and continue to take the "risk" of BBBJs due to the incredibly superior sensations over a CBJ and of course the experience of the CIM.
It does sometimes worry me afterwards but everything I have read here and elsewhere talk about the risk and probability. Hence the question that I have posed.
(see also the board "Safe Sex")
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I too was wondering how many guys here who enjoyBBJ have actually contracted any sisease. I know this is completely unscientific. But I would like to hear from all who do BBJ and how many of you have gotten a lil gift.
Thanks
Bill
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Skinless
Very interesting and informative read. I’m going to further into this.
Purely out of curiosity, have your personal practices changed as a result of your looking into this subject / reading?
Regards,
Havanaman
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OK, no one has responded in the affirmative. So are we to assume that out of thousands who read this forum, no one knows anyone who has contracted herpes from unprotected oral sex ?
Lets widen this a bit - does anyone know anyone who caught anything as a result of BBBJ ?
Cheers.
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Quite a while back I had many sessions over a period of time with a lady. All intercourse was covered, but liked my BBBJ. Found out she was HIV+, shit was I scared. Had myself tested and retested and all negative. Over a couple years probably 20 BBBJ and DATY. Also tested for all other including Hep ab&c and all neg.
Scared me but I'd still go for a bbbj. In the reading I did on it if you have a cut there is a possibility, or if DATY and you have cut gums, etc.
Migrant
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OK, since the question has been asked and people are drawing conclusions based on the lack of response -- I contracted the clap from oral sex. Whether giving or receiving I'm not sure, as both were involved. But it was absolutely no fun.
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For a good series of posts regarding STD through BBBJ just search "Bradman" in the United States>Maryland>Baltimore section. He contracted the clap. I just recently got syphilis most likely from BBBJ. I originally thought it was herpes. Read my posts in the same section. BTW- The cure for syphilis (2 shots in the backside) sucks.
Baltimonger
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To my fellow lovers of the oral arts:
I Hate to add science to anecdotes, but here is the simple fact, the number of mongers reporting themselves clean or infected by reports here is TOTALLY irrelevant. The next thing I want to say does NOT reflect my feelings or opinions on the truth of the other members' reports, just the statistical view. [Red]There is no statistical validity[/Red] to these individual reports here for a variety of reasons:
First, this is what is known as a "self-selecting" group of respondents, and is always a source of statistical error.
Second, what is the writer's agenda? Do they want to promote a particular behavior or justify their own? Again, from a statistical research view, this is a big flaw in developing valid results.
Third, assuming we knew the total population of infected and clean women us hobbiests patronize, and the number of oral acts performed with them, we would need a shitload (technical term) of data to begin to give a valid statistical prediction.
Do your homework, make your choices. Do NOT count the numbers here as any evidence pro or con.
Good luck, good hunting,
Iron Jack
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Perhaps but I did find it strange that a forum like this did not report any cases (until recently). I agree anecdotal evidence is not conclusive but statistics can be misinterpreted.
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Supposedly oral sex can cause some cancer, according to that new study.
Does this mean I'll stop getting blown? Aaaa, I don't think so.
I have done some serious skank in my time, and thankfully I can say it was all cured by antibiotic pills! I've gone down on plenty o' snatch too.
If I do catch something through a BJ, y'all will be the first to know...ok, well the second.
Ciao,
JB
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Iron Jack writes: ". Do NOT count the numbers here as any evidence pro or con."
The original question was, has anyone contracted a disease from bbbj?
Obviously based on the responses given the answer is a definative yes.
Scientific or not, we have shown that bbbj is not completely safe.
On the other hand, I have received hundreds of bbbj from street prostitutes and never gotten a thing.
Civ2000
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Bottom line on the BBBJ/STD issue is this: First, consider the amount of risk you are willing to take. Second, use your best judgement with each new partner. Third, paranoia is both your friend and your worst enemy in all of this. Fourth, statistics do not mean much. There is a huge difference between actual rates of infection based on known cases and and assumed rates of infection based on unknown (undiagnosed) cases. The genital herpes statistics are a good example. 90% of all assumed cases are asymptomatic and therefore undiagnosed. If they are undiagnosed, than how can we assume they exist? On the other hand, I monger in Baltimore, which ranks higher in actual diagnosed STD's than any other city in the US. It's not surprising that we are. It's a decadent city and that's the way we like it. :) All IMHO. http://www.cdc.gov/std/stats/toc2002.htm
Get tested regularly, even if you don't show symptoms. Most STD's are curable, especially if caught before they do major damage to your system. There is great promise in newer antiviral and antiretroviral drugs in terms of making it so that incurable viral infections, such as herpes and HIV, can eventually be made incommunicable to others. Famvir (for herpes) is showing great promise in this area.
A female co-worker asked me if I learned a little something about messing around with SW's since my syphilis ordeal. I said "yes, I need a larger vehicle. I'm having a hard time fitting the taller ones on my truck's bench seat." :D
Enough of this, everyone go get laid!
Baltimonger