Why start with Woman on Top (WOT)?
I've read many reviews of ladies at the [URL]https://www.fiwfans.com[/URL] website. And Woman on Top seems to be their first position with the lady almost every time. These ladies prefer to do it first, with them on top of the guy. Then they lie back or assume the doggy position for the guy to do them. The convention seems to be ladies first, then guys, when it comest to penetration and banging.
So, I was wondering why do ladies have to be first, then guys? Is there some good reason for this? Or is it just the habit and tradition of guys being gentlemen with the lady and letting her be first? Is it like a guy opening the door for the lady, so that she can enter first, then he follows her? Or is there something more to it than this?
For a long time I thought that this was just a social rules and guys being gentlemen with the lady. Ladies first, as they say. So, the lady does her Woman on Top thing first, then the guy gets his turn with her either on top or behind for doggy with her.
But I've recently been reading some questions and answers at another forum. And some ladies were asking there why their sex was often painful with the guy at first, but then eventually it would become pleasant for them after some time?
I thought about it and recalled some of my personal experiences with women. And I realized that the reason why sex can be painful for the lady at first is because the lady isn't quite ready in terms of her sexual arousal and lubrication. So, when the guy attempts penetration in this situation, then he basically ends forcing himself inside for the ride. Which is painful for the lady, who isn't quite ready. But the guy can't feel what the lady feels. So, he doesn't know and doesn't even try to be slow or careful. He has no feedback at all, and he just enters the girl, even though it's unpleasant and painful for her.
And that's the reason why Woman on Top (WOT) is so popular with P4P ladies as their starting position with their guy. When the woman gets on top of you and does the penetration herself, then she knows how it feels for her. So, she does it in a way that's comfortable for her. And if she feels any discomfort or pain, then she changes what she does and works at it, until you are inside for the ride in a way that's pleasant and comfortable for her. And once the lady bangs you for a while on top, then this lady becomes so ready, that she can turn around and let you pound without any pain or discomfort for her and in a way that's pleasant for her.
The problem with the guy doing the first penetration, when the lady might not be fully ready, is that he doesn't know what it feels like for the lady. And he can't know either. Because he can't feel the lady's feelings. Only the lady can feel and know how to plow, when the penetration might be painful and uncomfortable for her.
And this the practical reason why ladies should start with being on top of the guy. This has nothing to do with social rules or conventions, or the lady being in charge and dominating the guy. This is just common sense for making sex pleasant and comfortable for the lady throughout her experience with the guy. There is no reason why ladies should worry about pain and discomfort, every time they have sex with a guy. So, Woman on Top should come first, just in case the lady isn't fully ready. And once she works it out and starts banging your cock really well, then it's time for her to turn around and let you pound.
This is the routine P4P ladies have worked out with their guys. And there is a good reason for it. Because P4P ladies do many guys. And they have to do it the right way that enables them to do many guys. If they ignore their pain and discomfort, then they'll get some injuries, and they'll have to stop.
There is more than one way for a lady to make sure she is truly and fully ready. With her being in control and doing the Woman on Top thing is just one way. Another way is to use dildos that are about the same size as a guy's cock. The lady can penetrate and bang herself with a dildo, until she is fully ready for a guy. And that's what you see in some porn films. But in terms of efficiency and fun, it makes more sense for P4P ladies to do the Woman on Top thing with their guy, rather than do it with a dildo.
A dildo might come in useful for the lady, if she is with a guy who is totally against the Woman on Top thing. She can penetrate and bang herself with a dildo to make sure she is ready for the guy, and then let him do it with her.