We must be careful. He is able to unmask our sentimental contradiction LOL
[QUOTE=FrancisU;1722648]Following a review I posted earlier of a girl named Larissa, which can be read [POST=1721705]here[/POST], I received many comments from many members who apparently were upset by my assessment.
I logged in initially to post another review but I found myself entangled in this web of attacks and hatred and I had to make things clear. I will post more reviews very soon as I'm running out of time now.[/QUOTE]Personally I do not share the same value with him. But I appreciate that he does not retreat against the critical comments and that he stay normal in such situation where another one drift in PPD recently. I find his writing is long but is easy to read for non-English speakers. I hope he continues to write.
I prepared my popcorn (as saying BB).
All a matter of interpretation
[QUOTE=FrancisU;1722648]Following a review I posted earlier of a girl named Larissa, which can be read [POST=1721705]here[/POST], I received many comments from many members who apparently were upset by my assessment. I will post more reviews very soon as I'm running out of time now.[/QUOTE]Francis you will recall that I was one of the readers who complimented your earlier report which I found really interesting, well written and informative. I am far from the most experienced both in terms of frequenting these clubs (which I really like) or posting. In ISG terms I'm a relative novice. However I tend to agree with the latest comment from Frozty:
[QUOTE=Frozty;1722756]Re your review of Larissa, I found it odd. Like a letter to Penthouse. But it is my choice not to read your future reviews, and yours to write what you choose.
For what it's worth, I am not surprised that some readers questioned your approach to the session. I am sure that you treated your partner of the moment completely reasonably, but the report reads like you were hard on her. [/QUOTE]The second report (which has attracted much criticism) did seem a little odd compared to the first. I don't share the views of those who criticise your provision of detail. On the contrary. I believe details (particularly of attitude / willingness / upselling / enthusiasm / friendliness or lack of) are the very essence of the forum. Those details enable other readers to know which girls might be a great session and which might not. I can recall going to Artemis and having a session late last year. I had read a posting about a girl who looks stunning and was bubbly outside of the room but awful in it. Like an idiot, when I got there and saw her my jaw dropped. She really was very attractive and I decided for 50 euros I'd find out myself in the hope that I could create a chemistry that my fellow monger hadn't been able to achieve. After all, some girls work with some guys and not others, and for only 50 euros to be in the company of this stunner it was worth it. I thought. Not! As previously posted, she turned cold the moment we entered the room and after 10 minutes of me trying but being told she doesn't do DATY (even if I extended to an hour), doesn't like DFK (she'd said outside it was fine) etc. I terminated the session and decided to give up on the E50. I contemplated front desking it but if you don't go to these clubs often you don't want to cause trouble and as Artemis is the only FKK club in Berlin I didn't want to get kicked out if the management preferred her version. But lesson learned. Read the forums, and in particular, read details given by other people who take the time to post them. It would have saved me that time and as I'm off to Sharks soon I shall take your posts into consideration.
The criticism I think sparked out of your honest recall of having to chide the constant upsell and your description of what, as Frozty says, was written as you being more than firm and maybe a bit harsh. Your explanation of getting weary at the friendly attempts put it into perspective for me. I too get frustrated if a polite refusal on upsell is completely ignored. Moreover, I've considered that the persistence with it sometimes is deliberate: that you get so distracted from enjoying yourself that you end up saying yes to shut the girl up so you can concentrate on what you doing. If that is a (clever) tactic it is as unwelcome as any other.
I have to say that I still quite enjoyed your dealing with some of the barbed comments! Don't let it put you off reporting: I think your reports are really informative and good reading.
What's more important though it that the FKK forums remain a great place where people in them share their experiences without the "overlording" by some senior members I've seen in some forums. There are a bunch of guys in the Dubai forums who are quick to jump on any comment they don't like and hound people. It is really quite sad. The result is that though I'm in business and monger a lot in Dubai, I never post my experiences there as I just cannot be bothered with the hassle of having to deal with whingers with little more to do in their lives. I've found nearly all of the guys in the FKK forums to be really helpful, and I have to say it is pretty rare to see a multiple-comment criticism (I think attack is too strong). So clearly some of what you said did cause some concern. I like your reporting style and detail but your Larissa report (I don't know her and have never met her) did seem a bit heavy. All that said. The information / detail was useful. That she ended the session is good spirits wishing you well, blowing kisses, recommending the shower etc tells me she clearly was still well disposed to you so albeit the upsell had failed it seems your effective cessation of it did not cause her offence. And should accordingly not offend others.
I look forward to reading your next report!