[QUOTE=Mongo1;2443242]On my last trip I met that I went out with twice. I first met her at the M and and I went out to dinner with her and 2 other couples. After dinner went back to the M, had a few drinks and then ended up in my room for some fun times. I had an Apartment that I had rented in Laureles for a month so after I had returned to my apartment I WhatsApp her about coming over to my apartment and we could go out for some drinks and some dancing. She shows up at my apartment and I was feeling horny so I took her on the couch in the living room. Afterwards we had a few Cuba Libres and headed over to La Setenta for some Salsa and Marengue dancing. It was a weeknight so there was only a few couples in the nightclub which was nice (The Setenta gets crazy busy on the weekends). We hung out drank and danced, man this chick drank like a fish LOL.
We walk back to my apartment and start getting down again, total GFE. The next morning she starts talking about us getting together with her mother for dinner. I just kind of shrugged it off for a bit, left her some 200,000 COP on the table. When she was leaving I point out the money to her and said it was to help her get whatever she may need. She say's this is a lot of money and I shrugged it off. Later in the day she was Whatsapp me again bringing up that she wants me to meet her mother and we should all go out to dinner. I told her that I would not be comfortable doing that at this time and she didn't pursue it.
If you want to just get laid with lots of beautiful chicks it is best not to date the same girl more than 2 or 3 times at the most otherwise there is a risk of attachment and things start to get complicated and hurt feelings.[/QUOTE]A few years ago the Colombian tourist department had a saying that "the biggest risk of visiting Colombia is never wanting to leave" (or something similar), for us guys it should be something like "the biggest risk of fucking Colombian women is that they or you will fall in love".
This does happen, this has happened to me and to other gringo friends I know and it usually does not end well as when emotions are involved hearts get broken and I for one hate to break anyone's heart.
Best to have a maximum number of dates then move on, you will know when they are falling in love so take action beforehand. My last dear sue sit down come to jesus discussion with a special chica of mine was two months ago, had to tell her that I am not and probably never will be at the same emotional connection level where she ended up at. We still talk every so often, I spoke to her this morning via video chat and I see the love and concern in her eyes so am very hesitant about re-connecting with her in the future.
Thank goodness my Vennies in my apartment, even though they are young, both keep their emotions in check.
So tread carefully Mongo, meeting her mother and all and thanks for treating her with respect as any good human should.
The Tall Man.