Usually Dinner Not so Flexible
[QUOTE=Midwestern;2411863]Good insights, Steve9696.
Did you ever have a long term (monthly) financial arrangement? If so, I would be curious what the arrangement was. I only had one, 5 k per month, and it was because she wanted to see me every day and even gave me a key to her apartment (plus, she had a body of a Hustler centerfold). Other girls were strict about number of dates, so it wasn't worth it.
I agree with everything you say, but one small exception. I would never do a dinner date as a first date. If there's no chemistry, then it's a waste of a couple of hours. Plus, I'm never horny on a full stomach, LOL. So, I always suggest meeting for drinks. We can split after the first drink if there's no chemistry.
And I especially agree with you that one great aspect of SA is that most of these gals might genuinely like you, since they are not emotionless professional escorts. During initial chit chat, the question of what each other is looking for always arises, and I usually want to hear what they're looking for first, because they usually know what they want, while I'm flexible.[/QUOTE]Usually I do dinner because I want to. I really enjoy spending the whole evening together and dinner is a great way to start that off. I am usually quite confident we'll have chemistry because we are often chatting for a couple weeks in advance. I can always tell by the chat whether we vibe well or are just going thru the motions. My London dinner was a bit of an exception because I found the Columbianas just the night before. But it worked out great.
But no question dinner adds a bunch of cost too. My Vegas dinners were like $200-250 each night. But I kinda just ignored it and I really enjoy the girls getting a real SD type night out.
I did one non dinner date where she really wouldn't vibe over chat. So we just went for drinks. This was in Miami. Another Columbiana LOL. But we drank and danced and did shots and hookah for a solid three hours before going to the room. This was early in SA for me and I was not setting price beforehand but playing by ear. I was on my way to Brazil so I could afford a fail and figured if she set price too high I'the walk. So after our theee hours in leaned in and said "hey you want to get out of here — if we go to the room I'll want to give you a gift — did you have something in mind?" And she said $400.
This is actually a reasonable and common price in the US and we were together four hours. I would have paid it. But forum friend Marelobomex had given me a priceless line that I used — "Ouch baby. That's the I don't want to go with I price. I thought you liked me. " And she immediately said 300 and off we went (best value to date — she was smokin hot. But what a priceless line. Thanks MM.
Oh and I am not very flexible I am only in town for 3 or 4 days and wAnt to ensure a fuck every night. So I am very careful to vet the girls beforehand Nd know I have a 90% chance of scoring.