The 3 Different Orgasms. Vaginal vs Clitoral vs. Anal
It seems to me that most non-pros never have enough sex, so they are always horny. Most time when they lay down in bed they would already be aroused, their pussies already sloppy wet, ready for action. They don't really need that much stimulation for sex, unless you are doing the second or third shot, and their pussies got tense and closed shut.
With most girls, I usually start out with caressing, kissing, licking, sucking on their mouth, tits and pussies. I like DFK so I don't stay long DATY at their crotch. Sucking their tits, while simultaneously rubbing and squeezing their clits and G spots with the thumb and middle fingers, almost always bring intense and repeat spine-curling, body shaking orgasms at the large area of the clitoris structure linked to the nerves at front side of the abdomen and along the spinal column on the back.
I don't know if women can reach this intense clitoral orgasms with just DATY or sucking on the clit. The men's tongues would have to be long and strong enough to reach into the G spots. Given time I can bring them to this intense clitoral orgasms again and again, but I would get so turned on watching them, that I would have to stick my dick quickly into their pussies for my benefits.
The girls say vaginal orgasms are different, milder, more local in the vagina and the zone around the anus. Naturally they want to have both but clearly prefer the more intense clitoral. Even the pros, who fuck lots of guys everyday, can be turned on into raging sluts with this stimulation.
In porn, looks like women can also climax in the anal area by stimulation and penetration of their anus and rectum. Have not seen any women extremely aroused and climax by my anal. If women can get their rocks off big time by their anus, lots of them insist on getting fucked up their asses, but I have not seen it. They seem to just put up with it. The intensity of pleasure seems to be highest with the clitoris, then lower with the vagina and lowest with anal.
I never lasted long enough to see if I can make any girl come in all three ways. Have not searched for any studies or research into this area. Perhaps some studs can try all three ways with horny Thai girls and advise their scientific findings.
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1836558]Firstly, when you get used to a girl, you get to know how many times she might cum realistically. My GF always gets one cum away within first 2 or 3 minutes of DATY. However she is not done yet. 3 or more cums is normal as she is extremely sensitive and cums very easily compared to most P4 P girls I meet. So don't assume every girl will not enjoy the following sex. However, once she has had enough, that is different. I once suggested to my GF I would change the routine sequence and do something other than DATY first up, and maybe DATY later. She did not agree. She had got too used to the DATY warm up, and did not want to change that. O.K. No problem for me. DATY is what I do best.
Also I agree some girls cum only once (if at all). It can be best to get them off at the end of the session rather than at the start. They can get warmed up by the fucking, and then be ready for something more. Problem is that most guys loose interest after already shooting their load.
For girls that like vibrators, she can use one on her clit during the normal penetration sex, so as to get off more easily while just fucking her. I know one girl who likes this double stimulation a lot. My ex wife used to only get off by my finger diddling her clit concurrent to normal penetrative fucking. Again the double stimulation was what was needed. Was slightly awkward for me at times. LOL.[/QUOTE]
Dan the Beverly Hills' Man Ho
That video shows the guy doing a lot of hard work. Not sure if anyone can really penetrate and screw anally from below. The girls' anus would have to be loose and they would have ram their asses down hard for that position to work. In that spooning position the guy cannot suck, kiss and lick her mouth, her neck and her nipples, which are highly pleasurable for most girls.
Unless I am crazy in love with some girls, I would never do that much work for anyone. There are probably some toys in the market that can penetrate and stimulate all areas of the women's body simultaneously and do hard work on batteries. But I suspect women are more mentally inclined and still prefer the males' warm, sexy, loving bodies to just physical stimulation. I believe my instinctively gentle and loving approach to feel good myself would bring mutual pleasures. I found that, despite screwing many guys everyday, the putas in Tijuana still enjoy sex and capable of climaxing with just gentle caressing and slow insertion. They all seem to prefer slow and gentle screwing to any hard and fast action. Their sexy expressions are precious and very satisfying.
Dan has his sexual theories and practices down pat in good details. Why don't you advertise yourself discreetly in Beverly Hills, Hollywood, Los Angeles areas with that video. I ran across many sexually-frustrated women, young and old, in this area, even some actresses and movie stars. Some would go insane because they cannot reach climax for years despite all sorts of sex partners and sex toys. They would worship you if you can make them come again and again. You would have lots of the best-looking and sexiest young girls and women in the world begging for your company.
You know where to advertise your services and test out your theories and practices. Let us know how it works out.
[QUOTE=Dan7373;1836830] going after all three at the same time. Here is a link to a moving GIF picture to show you what I mean:
[URL]http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vhrw7nnG1ryino5o1_400.gif[/URL]
Perhaps this mental division barrier comes from watching porn. Because in almost all porn-movies, the guy does only one thing with his lady. He either nails her pussy, or her ass, or he plays her pussy and clit. But you almost never see a guy do all three at the same time, the way the link above shows.
I think this anal GIF picture actually shows a pretty good pussy massage technique. Because this guy is massaging her pussy from side-to-side, the way experts recommend. And he uses pressure and stretching to stimulate her pussy and clit, rather than rubbing and friction. You can easily overstimulate the lady's clitoris and make it uncomfortable for her, if you do it with rubbing and friction.
I think the trick isn't just to go after the lady with your hands and your dick. You also need to adapt your extensive experience of masturbating yourself for masturbating the lady. Because only this way you instinctively know what to do and you can read her reactions too, which enables you to recognize when she is close to orgasm and finish her off, the way you finish off yourself.[/QUOTE]