Sorting the good from the bad
Helena Moscow
Your right in that I should and will seperate the honest and innocent girls from the ones who want to enjoy my company for a short time.
The Girls Will Hope For More I think
[QUOTE=Lover]Privet to all readers!
I read all disscussion on this topic including posts from Blastoff and Helena and tend to agree more with Helena even though I understood Blastoff points clearly because in couple of weeks I am going to visit Russia and have a lot of fun.
But, I am planning in no way to give anybody idea that I am looking for something serious. I am speaking Russian and on russian dating website I placed my profile and get some responses.
I let girls know that I am traveling for a few weeks and I am no looking for anything serious and just would like to have fun.
There is no mention sex free or paid. I will travel outside of Moscow in some places for personal interest and I already figured out 3 girls in those sities: two of them already gave to me their phone # and I expect the last one to follow soon.
I will be happy just to have somebody to hang with in their native places, be happy and if their is no sex not a problem I will find it because in Russia it is not a problem.
I do not have any connection with girls in Moscow yet because I decided to concentrate on proffesionals there or semiprof.
Yes to pretty, smart russian girls
Yes to parties
Yes to happiness
Yes to great sex
Yes to great conversations
Yes to great memories
No to lies
No to hurt feelings
No to sex slaves
No to morning headaches
No to something I will regret rest of my life.
Lover[/QUOTE]
Good for you and I hope you have a wonderful trip. I look forward to your report when you return.
One thing I think that you may be overlooking is that no matter how clear you are with a woman that you only want some fun, if she likes you, she will hope for more from your relationship and there is nothing you can do about it. Your clear and honest words will not stop her from falling for you. This is the same in all countries and same with all women. They tend to fabricate a relationship or a strong hope for a relationship in their minds and hearts no matter how clear you have been with them to the contrary, so no matter what, when dealing with regular girls, you WILL hurt their feelings in the end when your relationship ends be it 1 week or one year later.
Best regards