Don't forget that it cuts both ways
It seems hardly credible that guys are still getting sucked in by online dating site scammers. It seems that there is still one born every minute but that otherwise sensible people are willing to send money to girls they have not yet met (or have met only briefly) is ridiculous to the point of sublimity. So why do they do it? Is it forlorn hopelessness or lonely desperation? Or maybe soft hearted gullibility? Or is it in anticipation of repayment in sexual favors to come? Will someone please enlighten me? For anyone who has spent anytime reading reports on this forum, or similar sites particularly those that deal with The Philippines and Thailand, cannot have failed to have noted the numerous warnings and salutary stories that appear on a very regular basis. So maybe these men are car crashes waiting to happen anyway and have no one else to blame but themselves for their heedless blindness.
We must also be aware that it not only the girls who engage in scamming. What about the sexual scamming engaged in by guys? How often have we read and chuckled over, reports submitted on this board by members crowing over their successes on DIA and similar sites. And, yes, before I am accused of hypocrisy, I too have also indulged in this, but I will say that I have always made it clear, both in my pen picture and in pre-meet chat, that I am only interested in a purely casual relationship. But is everyone so honest? I think not and enticing a young and naïve girl to put out on a one nighter, in the anticipation of a prolonged relationship, is an even worse form of scamming than the financial kind. I get the impression from reading the many ‘no players’ (playboys) and other comments on Pinay PP’s, that this is not an uncommon occurrence.
"where's my gift, hehehehe"/ I am shy to you"
"where's my gift, hehehehe"
I have gotten that at least 10 times the last couple of weeks from girls I have met to those that I can barely remember.
I have yet to come up with a a good response that indicates that I want to screw them, with out sounding like a total douche bag.
My 3 week trip to the Phils in Dec2008
Hey guys,
I don't want to write 3-4 different reports in different sections so I'll summarize my trip in this section since you guys were so helpful and DIA worked so well. Quick background. I'm in my mid-30's, decent looking, but live in a small town where most of the girls are married by 25 so I hardly ever get laid. I wanted to go somewhere for 3 weeks for a mix of pro, semi-pro, and non-pro action. The perfect solution. The phils.
I added my profile to DIA 2 weeks prior to my trip. Put a nice photo on there and a nice sounding write-up. Omg, 2 weeks prior to a trip is plenty. I had hundreds of girls contact me. I'm serious. I didn't get any work done for those 2 weeks. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.
I spent 3 nights in Manila when I landed. Got my fix quick with a LA Cafe girl (see photo section). Second night met a nice 25 year old from DIA. Bit of a party girl but it made getting laid easy. I took her and her 2 cousins out to the Embassy Club. Cost me about 80 USD for the night but she rewarded me for the following 48 hours with non-stop sex. Great time. I told her I was flying to Cebu (white lie. Was heading up to AC first for 2 nights. LOL).
The first night there I went to Lollypop (see photo section) and picked up a tight little spinner. The second night I met a 19 year old girl from DIA. She said she was a student but obviously a semi-pro (or pro. Who knows). She looked a little young when she came over to my hotel (pacific breeze). No ID but she knew how to f*ck so I'm pretty sure she was at least 18. Great GFE for 24+ hours. Didn't ask for anything but I gave her 2000 PHP. She really deserved it after being such a great GFE (she pampered me non-stop).
Then I flew down to Cebu City. Met a chick there from DIA. Cute little 19 year old factory worker. Spent the next week with her (went to Dumaguette and Apo Island). Good times. But too young for anything serious. No pics of her b/c she's a nice girl. Went over to Bohol after. Met a cute single mother. Only 19. Couldn't even tell she had a kid. She needed the money so she was very willing to please. Again, a nice girl so I won't post pics.
Then back to Manila. Met another DIA girl at the last minute. Chatted with her on YM and met up with her and her friend. Took her to a club called Nirvana. Kind of a dumpy club but I got them both drunk after a few hours and a bottle of vodka (buy a full bottle when you take more than one girl to a club. It looks pimp, it's cheaper than a bunch of single drinks, plus it's a great way to get them drunk. LOL). Took them both home. Only shagged the one girl though. The hot girl turned out to be a pro and wanted money. Was tempted to go for the 3some but she wanted like 3000 PHP and she had a slightly bitchy attitude so I opted not to. Gave the friend 1000 PHP for the 'taxi' after the second shag in the morning. Probably didn't have to but whatever.
Anyways, to summarize. The Philippines is a guy's paradise. Beautiful islands, beatiful beaches, great scuba diving, friendly people, and the women there go bananas over white guys. You could easily do a trip without any P4P and get laid lots. But I had been deprived of sex for too long so I went hardcore. LOL. Anyways, I've been a lurker for a long time. I hope this report helps out some of you guys.
-ps- for those guys who are looking for a nice girl. Be very careful. The 19 year old factory worker seemed very genuine and nice for the week we were together. No red flags. 10 days after getting home she sends me the 'omg, my nephew is in the hospital email. ' Didn't see that coming at all. I guess the ultimate red-flag test is time. Even the best scammers will crack eventually.
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Rgbburn....that website is priceless. Wow!
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]Perhaps a beggars and scammers thread should be started.[/QUOTE]
hahahahah.....
Money Requests and Filipino Reality
Here is a quote from Richard:
"-ps- for those guys who are looking for a nice girl. Be very careful. The 19 year old factory worker seemed very genuine and nice for the week we were together. No red flags. 10 days after getting home she sends me the 'omg, my nephew is in the hospital email. ' Didn't see that coming at all. I guess the ultimate red-flag test is time. Even the best scammers will crack eventually."
I think the girl here in question may very well be genuine and not a scammer. This is the reality of marrying a Filipina. Someone in the province dies, and they need money for a burial, a young niece gets taken to the hospital, grandparents need money for seed rice, a nephew is starting school, etc. I've been married to a Filipina and all of these are real crises. No one in the family has money, so where do they go when crisis strikes? You.
If the girl in the above quote was genuine in her affections, and there was a real connection, she will turn to you. This is how Filipinos operate.
The Bus Stops Here...Welcome CM
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]Perhaps true freedom comes from fucking a beautiful woman and casting her aside. The more one values something the more power it has over you. Maybe by placing a low value on beauty these men challenge their women to bring more than a pretty face to the table. In the West a pretty face, slender body and a pussy is pretty much all that is needed to guarantee a life of relative luxury. Thank goodness the men from the East exercise more pragmatism in this regard or else the whole world would be like the West.
The Thai and Filipino men have learned to see women and their purpose from a practical point of view. Therefore they do not dote over them or shower them with money and attention. Some mongers, like That Asshole, eventually learn the ways of the Eastern men after years of experience in the hobby.[/QUOTE]
CM glad to see you here on this thread you always respond with insightful posts taking us deep into the human psyche. I am not saying we should be a "dick" to the ladies but the bus has to stop somewhere.