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[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2687944]Oh, you couldn't wait to brag about that. You had a stripper as a GF? Every guy I ever met who was a stripper BF was a pathetic loser who the stripper took on just to have someone around who was more pathetic than they were. So you are the guy who would call me after the "GF" gave me head in the club and chastised me and said, "She does not do that anymore. " LOL.
You forgot to mention how it ended. She changed her ways, found God, and you had little ones together? LOL. Or did she go right back to fucking other men again? The suspense is killing me. You called the men and explained she was your GF instead of dumping her? LOL. And you think that story makes you look good? Man, I am dying here.
Sorry, that is not how it worked, and I think my paying strippers for sex was less than you paid. I wasn't polishing stripper heels, getting cum and cocaine stains out of her clothes, having to set up IV caffeine when she got home, and scrubbing her in the bathtub to get her glitter free for the probation officer..[/QUOTE]It's good to see you're still incapable of understanding anything you read. The sequence of events was clearly stated, along with the conclusion. In deference to the flat line which represents your brain activity I'll clarify it, so that any child could understand, but it won't help you.
1. I met a girl. We began dating and she started living and traveling with me. At the time she was unemployed and had never worked as a stripper, at least as far as I knew.
2. Through her mother who was manager of all the Guitars and Cadillacs stores in Texas, she got a job managing a new store that was opening at The Galeria in Dallas. The company put her up in a hotel.
3. I had to work, so just saw her when I was in Dallas. For Christmas I got us both cell phones. At that point, other than gifts and dinners when I visited, I spent nothing on her, and got a free hotel room when in town.
4. Unknown to me she took a second job as a waitress at Cabaret Royale. Shortly after, I started getting a lot of wrong number calls and figured out what was going on. It wasn't difficult. I called back when I got a hangup and left a message that I knew would get the guy to call back.
5. I took a trip to Dallas, confronted her, took the phone back and said goodbye, then went home. I kept the phone for another month and returned messages explaining that she was now my ex and they would have to contact her some other way.
6. She went from waitress to dancer and quit her day job. She also acquired a sugar daddy. He bought her a new car and put her in an apartment. Then she got drunk, had a Long Island Lolita moment with her Joey Buttafuoco in front of his wife, totaled the Audi and ended up in ICU. All of that information came from her best friend after the accident.
That's it. I bumped into her once more at a party in Columbus, Ohio. We were both shocked to see each other there. She left, I stayed. She reached out several months later, but I wasn't interested.
So all your bizarre fantasies are for naught. I was never a stripper boyfriend. I've bedded a lot of strippers, but no relationships. Most of the ones I had sex with ended up paying me.
I was a mover, owned my own truck. When a stripper needed to move, she called me. Probably moved a dozen strippers over a 2 year period and they all paid cash. Well, except for one. I was moving 2 strippers that lived together. I gave them a price, which I was losing money on and only one of them paid me. However, she paid me double what I charged, so I came out ahead. The other one decided to pay me in bed.
I profited in other ways. I had a nice house that was almost always empty, since I spent most of my time on the road. So I rented a spare room to a stripper, 4 different strippers. It was a savings for them, plus nicer than they could afford, and I had someone to take care of things while I was gone. As a bonus, I came home to a stripper who rarely wore anything more than panties.
I also did a bit of photography and html work for a few strippers. The money was never a huge amount, but it mostly paid me back for what I spent in the strip clubs.
That was a swing and a miss. Not only a miss, but in typical Elvis fashion, you showed up with a hockey stick when we're playing basketball, and everything is going over your head.
Villainy mentioned Pretty Woman, not me. And, in the movie, Richard Gere didn't play a fat, balding narcissist. Plus, as was covered before, and now a second time, I didn't have a stripper girlfriend. I had an ex who became a stripper.
I hope I have the time to thoroughly enjoy your next installment of "Pay Regularly and Pay Excessively", the definitive work on paying hookers to pretend they aren't hookers.
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[QUOTE=JustTK;2688054]I heard at the very start 2 years ago that there were no RCTs to support the use of masks during the pandemic, and therefore there was no science. All RCTs to date showed the had no effect. It was just a tool that governments were using to pretned they knew what they were doing and to reassure and pacify the public.
Well, it looks like we now have the data to support the view that masks do indeed do f*k all to prevent the spread of CV. Here it is:.[/QUOTE]Ah yes. The prestigious YouTube Journal of medicine, which has brought us so much "truth."
For example, without the tireless work of YouTube researchers, we wouldn't know about talking cats:
[URL]https://youtu.be/cPb2mHkFwws[/URL]
And we wouldn't know that pigs can fly:
[URL]https://youtu.be/RRB-mxrbUiI[/URL]
Yes, truly the most excellent of all scientific journals is YouTube.
Now I admit, I didn't watch the entire 12:49 video. What would be the point of spending 13 minutes, with the ads, watching someone with no credentials, fail to understand basic math? Perhaps there was some big reveal that I missed. I guess I'll have to wait until it makes a splash in the real scientific journals.
I went back and tried to watch it, but there's no usable content. Perhaps if I had the reasoning ability of a small child, with a learning disability, it would seem profound, but it's just a couple of idiots, pandering to idiots, hoping to get enough views to earn some money from their idiocy.
And it looks like they found the perfect viewer.
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[QUOTE=JjBee62;2688019]You're paying more than she is going to get from anyone else.[/QUOTE]LOL. I must have missed that part. What I have given her is the exact amount she was getting offered to be paid by someone else for her time and what she asked for was in line with what Colombian salaries are.
If you are saying I am paying more than anyone else for sex, something she would have an issue with your saying about her, she would point to her friend in Mexico City whose boyfriend owns a jet, and I think my girl is prettier than her but her friend is smoking hot too. So she has an example of someone in her social circle of giving her more than I have.
And yet if you asked the guys here if they agreed with you about your statement, almost if not all would. Maybe you do not get that a popular answer and a correct one are the same. Have you asked her if what I am giving her is more than what anyone else has offered? But you know right? LOL.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2688019]Face it. When Nounce starts making fun of you, you're completely off the deep end.[/QUOTE]LOL. Nounce's comment was just as arrogant as Mr. E's was. It is another how dare you tell me that I am not getting the best.
Do you think that women know if a guy is seeing other women? I do. Do you think that they hold part of themselves back if they know that you are seeing other women? I do. So in order to get the best out of a woman and have the best sex, you have to be loyal and see just her. You can disagree with this, but you would be wrong.
I am not saying I have the best steakhouse. What I am saying is this is the best one I have been to, one so good I do not need or want to go anywhere else. And that is how I know it is the best or at least the best I can get.
Maybe someone can have a better one than me, but you are not going to get there unless you commit totally to one steakhouse. Sorry. Now are you going to get the steak if you do not pay? Fuck no. That is another stupid comment. The best steakhouse has to provide value though and not rip you off though.
Your comment about the stripper was ridiculous as were Mr. E's comments and Nounce's. You completely missed the point. What would it take for a steakhouse to be so good so you would only eat there?
All three of you dummies had the same response. We are already eating at the best. Why you guys are dummies though is that I have eaten at all the places you have, and I am saying what I have is better. In fact, it is so good I do not want to eat anywhere else.
So how do you get to the best steakhouse? You have to think you are worthy to be there. You have to pay fair value, and you have to be open to and willing to commit if the steak is exceptional.
It is that last part where all three of you fail. That last point is so foreign to you that you cannot even visualize what I am talking about, so we will just stop the discussion right here. You all are obviously too arrogant and pig headed to have any fucking clue what I am talking about.
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[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2688230]It is another how dare you tell me that I am not getting the best.
Do you think that women know if a guy is seeing other women? I do. Do you think that they hold part of themselves back if they know that you are seeing other women? I do. So in order to get the best out of a woman and have the best sex, you have to be loyal and see just her. You can disagree with this, but you would be wrong.[/QUOTE]How could anyone be wrong when you are talking like a woman. What does this best mean? Every restaurant writes on their advertisement "Best," because best does not mean a damn thing. It is subjective. So until you start adding qualifiers saying that she is the best because she wears a size 9 shoe, she is the best because her hair has highlights, she is the best because she makes me hot dogs and french fries on Wednesday nights, you are not saying a damn thing by saying she is the best.
And what is this hold part of themselves back thing you are talking about. Just like women you are speaking abstractly and talking in circles. Maybe if you said when women know you are not seeing anyone else they will give you two extra oohs and three extra ahhhs, that would mean something that someone could imagine or put their finger on. But simply saying holding themselves back, or giving more of themselves, it does not mean a damn thing and as far as I am concerned you are getting the worst, not the best; and this includes sex as well. No best nothing for you, because you have not defined what best is. So it is a good thing that you are happy with the worst girl and the worst sex from that worst girl, because that is exactly what you are getting.
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"So in order to get the best out of a woman and have the best sex, you have to be loyal and see just her."
Then why post on a hooker board, especially when your conclusion is incorrect based on majority experience? Because you are just seeing her and she is seeing anyone with money?
But you do stimulate a discussion about what is the best you can get out of a woman. I will go first. She comes over, a bit of food and beverage, some chat. Then sex, maybe more food, maybe more sex, then she leaves. Then you can fuck someone else and so can she. Lather, rinse, repeat. But I don't weigh three bills.
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[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2688230]LOL. I must have missed that part. What I have given her is the exact amount she was getting offered to be paid by someone else for her time and what she asked for was in line with what Colombian salaries are.
If you are saying I am paying more than anyone else for sex, something she would have an issue with your saying about her, she would point to her friend in Mexico City whose boyfriend owns a jet, and I think my girl is prettier than her but her friend is smoking hot too. So she has an example of someone in her social circle of giving her more than I have.
And yet if you asked the guys here if they agreed with you about your statement, almost if not all would. Maybe you do not get that a popular answer and a correct one are the same. Have you asked her if what I am giving her is more than what anyone else has offered? But you know right? LOL.
LOL. Nounce's comment was just as arrogant as Mr. E's was. It is another how dare you tell me that I am not getting the best..[/QUOTE]Wait, wait, wait.
Without having a clue who any of us have been with, for me, that's over a more than 40 year span, I have no idea about Nounce and MrE, you've declared that you're having better sex than any of us have ever had, or ever will have, and we're the ones who are arrogant?
And you still can't grasp the meaning of a simple sentence, although it's exactly in line with what I expect from you.
I didn't say you're paying more than anyone else for sex. In what twisted psychotic break did you get that? I merely repeated what you said.
1. You have to pay consistently.
2. You have to pay more than is necessary.
I don't give a damn how much you're paying. Long before you came here crying that you paid to move a hooker and her family from Venezuela to Peru and then she dumped you, I was telling people, right here on ISG:
"Your money, your dick, your business."
All anyone is pointing out to you is the exact fucking thing you keep saying and then claiming it isn't true:
If you stop paying her, she stops fucking you. Period. End of sentence.
You've said it 20 fucking times, then you babble about earning monogamy, better sex than others, giving everything. You sound like Gwyneth Paltrow channeling the spirit of Liberace.
Just for the record, and I'll try to keep it as simple as possible, because you're a complete idiot, there's nothing that the certified most incredible steakhouse in any universe can do to get me to commit to only eating there.
The reason is simple:
I don't always want steak. I've done that, metaphorically and literally. I want variety, in all things. I've done the whole commit totally, give everything to one woman thing and it was fantastic, for awhile. Then it was great, for awhile. Eventually it was tedious.
Kind of like you.
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[QUOTE=JjBee62;2688208]4. Unknown to me she took a second job as a waitress at Cabaret Royale. Shortly after, I started getting a lot of wrong number calls and figured out what was going on. It wasn't difficult. I called back when I got a hangup and left a message that I knew would get the guy to call back.
5. I took a trip to Dallas, confronted her, took the phone back and said goodbye, then went home. I kept the phone for another month and returned messages explaining that she was now my ex and they would have to contact her some other way.
6. She went from waitress to dancer and quit her day job. She also acquired a sugar daddy. He bought her a new car and put her in an apartment. Then she got drunk, had a Long Island Lolita moment with her Joey Buttafuoco in front of his wife, totaled the Audi and ended up in ICU. All of that information came from her best friend after the accident...[/QUOTE]Uh yeah, that is funny how the story changed so much. It is just more of how full of shit you are and this fat, balding "narcissist" line tells me I got under your skin.
Your stories do not line up. First, you called all your GF's johns (not sugar daddies) and told them to quit bugging her. Now you broke up with her. I am going to go with version one there.
She went from being unemployed to a waitress to a dancer to a ho. Yeah, I would probably do that too if I had to hang around you. And the moral of your story is you were fucking a girl for free? Given her history, being such a cheap skate that your GF that had to ho herself out is not something I would brag about.
Seeing arrangement started in 2008. The phrase sugar daddy was not used that much in 2001. Dallas was a hot bed of hos back then though starting with the infamous Diana of Dallas. The women were fine and could be had for $200 to $300 an hour at the very top end.
Cabaret Royale was not tops in Dallas back then. It was maybe top half. The Lodge, Men's Club, Baby Dolls, and Fantasy Ranch were the top clubs. CR had its hey day years prior to 2001, and all four of those clubs had better women then CR.
The women routinely pulled in huge $ prior to the 2000 NASDAQ bubble going burst. In 2000, the best women were making $2,0000+ just dancing and did not have to ho themselves out like your gal did.
And there were no feature dancers at CR.
So now that you have revised your story it looks even worse. You had a GF become a ho right before your eyes because you could not support her.
Oh right. You are trying to compete. I was banging the 9's and 10's at those clubs back then and the hos in Texas at that time were gorgeous. If the hos continued to look that good in Texas from 2000 to 2010, I would have never went abroad.
Top girl at CR back then would have been an 8. Average girl there would have been a 7, and that is probably what your girl was, a 7. So here we go again. You are turning your 7 into a 10.
And I was married then. A few years later, after the divorce, I too was banging strippers without paying them so your antic about how you did not pay them and I did does not work either.
So why bring this up and make the personal attack? Because you are a lazy, underachieving, bullshit artist who feels inferior to me and what I had and have, and you are mistaking popularity for being right.
And are you trying to equate this with what I have now? Are you out of your fucking mind?
My intent was not to sit on the top of the mountain and laugh at you all but maybe I should have so let's get this straight. I fucked all the best hos in Dallas over that 10 year period, and I banged a slew of 9's and 10's from the top club. Don't worry though. I did not descend into CR. I had my standards.
I have been to the boates in Sao Paulo, the termas in Rio, was in Argentina during its hey day at Black's and Madaho's and what I have now is miles better than all that. I saw what was in Thailand (did not partake. All the women looked like 14 year olds to me and I was really married then). I had sugar babies from 2009 on that guys would suck in their breath at and say "Ooooh".
But when I found the best ever, I eventually committed to it and it got even better. Maybe if you find the best of the best, you might duplicate what I have done or maybe not. Like I said, you are the type that makes a 7 into a 10, and I do not see that changing.
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[QUOTE=Huacho;2688303]"So in order to get the best out of a woman and have the best sex, you have to be loyal and see just her."
Then why post on a hooker board, especially when your conclusion is incorrect based on majority experience? Because you are just seeing her and she is seeing anyone with money?
But you do stimulate a discussion about what is the best you can get out of a woman. I will go first. She comes over, a bit of food and beverage, some chat. Then sex, maybe more food, maybe more sex, then she leaves. Then you can fuck someone else and so can she. Lather, rinse, repeat. But I don't weigh three bills.[/QUOTE]I've found that the best sex comes from bipolar women, but you have to catch them at the right time. The downside is, when that switch flips you're left dealing with all the bad stuff.
Certifiable nymphomaniacs (not just someone who really loves sex) are fun, but exhausting. Not much of a conquest though, since they will accept just about any offer from anyone.
Women with a fetish which is acceptable to you, can be great. Spent 3 days of almost continuous sex with a girl in Richardson, TX who would do anything and go nuts, as long as I paid attention to her feet.
I think the absolute best was one who was bipolar, bisexual and enjoyed group sex and public sex.
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[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2688466]Seeing arrangement started in 2008. The phrase sugar daddy was not used that much in 2001.[/QUOTE]Yes it was used much. Maybe in 2001 and before, you were just not in the circles that it was used in.
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[QUOTE=Huacho;2688303]Then why post on a hooker board, especially when your conclusion is incorrect based on majority experience?[/QUOTE]Such a simple question but of course he'll reply with a multi paragraph response that doesn't answer the question.
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[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2688466]Uh yeah, that is funny how the story changed so much. It is just more of how full of shit you are and this fat, balding "narcissist" line tells me I got under your skin.
Your stories do not line up. First, you called all your GF's johns (not sugar daddies) and told them to quit bugging her. Now you broke up with her. I am going to go with version one there.
She went from being unemployed to a waitress to a dancer to a ho. Yeah, I would probably do that too if I had to hang around you. And the moral of your story is you were fucking a girl for free? Given her history, being such a cheap skate that your GF that had to ho herself out is not something I would brag about.
Seeing arrangement started in 2008. The phrase sugar daddy was not used that much in 2001. Dallas was a hot bed of hos back then though starting with the infamous Diana of Dallas. The women were fine and could be had for $200 to $300 an hour at the very top end.
Cabaret Royale was not tops in Dallas back then. It was maybe top half. The Lodge, Men's Club, Baby Dolls, and Fantasy Ranch were the top clubs. CR had its hey day years prior to 2001, and all four of those clubs had better women then CR.
The women routinely pulled in huge $ prior to the 2000 NASDAQ bubble going burst. In 2000, the best women were making $2,0000+ just dancing and did not have to ho themselves out like your gal did.
And there were no feature dancers at CR.
So now that you have revised your story it looks even worse. You had a GF become a ho right before your eyes because you could not support her.
Oh right. You are trying to compete. I was banging the 9's and 10's at those clubs back then and the hos in Texas at that time were gorgeous. If the hos continued to look that good in Texas from 2000 to 2010, I would have never went abroad.
Top girl at CR back then would have been an 8. Average girl there would have been a 7, and that is probably what your girl was, a 7. So here we go again. You are turning your 7 into a 10.
And I was married then. A few years later, after the divorce, I too was banging strippers without paying them so your antic about how you did not pay them and I did does not work either.
So why bring this up and make the personal attack? Because you are a lazy, underachieving, bullshit artist who feels inferior to me and what I had and have, and you are mistaking popularity for being right..[/QUOTE]If the drugs I experimented with 40+ years ago had been as good at altering reality as whatever is running through your veins, I'd have become an addict. It's every single thing. It's written, clear, obvious and straightforward, but once it enters into whatever substitute you're using for a brain, it comes out completely unrecognizable. If I wrote that my vacation starts on Tuesday, then repeated that my vacation starts on Tuesday, you'd come out and say that I said I was taking 3 months off for physical therapy and that it began 3 Sundays ago.
Seriously. Seek help.
I'll try to work my way through your psychosis one point at a time. I know it's useless, every word has to run through your insanity and never comes out the same.
1. My story didn't change. I added details, but they all correlate with the original mention.
2. I never referred to the additional guys who had her number as either John's or sugar daddies and didn't call them to tell them to quit bugging her. Whoever called and left a message, I returned the call, left a message telling them she no longer had the phone and I was not able to forward their message. In one case, I answered a call and told the guy the same thing. The only person I might have referred to as "sugar daddy" is the one who was keeping her as a sugar baby.
3. There was never a version where I called guys and told them to quit bugging her. I've got $1,000 if you can show me I ever so much as insinuated such a thing. When I realized it was over, I told her so and walked away. I wasn't happy about it at the time, but I quickly moved on.
4. The moral of the story was that having a girl you used to support turn into an escort doesn't qualify you for a Presidential Medal of Freedom.
5. Being a cheap skate? I wish you people would make up your mind. First I'm getting blasted because I take women out to dinner and now I'm a cheap skate? This is all going to be a mystery to you, because you've probably never been with a woman who you didn't buy. I didn't get into a relationship with her, or anyone else, in order to support her. She decided to take the job in Dallas. At that point, her decision, she was no longer living with me and supporting her was not my obligation. Perhaps you see things differently. Once a woman decides to move on, I'm not wasting money trying to get her to come back. I'm moving on. Then again, I've never had to pay a woman's family in order to get her in bed.
6. The phrase sugar daddy has been around for 100 years. The Bellamy Brothers recorded "Sugar Daddy" in 1980. It begins "What you need is a sugar daddy, diamond rings and a brand new Caddy. " Laurel and Hardy starred in "Sugar Daddies" in 1927. As with so many other things, you haven't a fucking clue. I'm not surprised.
7. To be honest, I didn't spend my time in the late 90's and early 2000's keeping a day to day ranking of Dallas strip clubs and it doesn't matter to me. CR was one of the top clubs in Dallas and if you say the dancers there were 7's, it means nothing.
8. Except for the guy who bought the car and paid for the apartment, I never said that the other guys who had her number were paying her. I wouldn't know if they were, and I doubt it. She decided to gravitate towards being a SB. I had no interest in that. She found someone who did. I assume the others were either potential SDs or just guys she wanted to get tipped by at the club.
9. I don't pretend to understand everything every woman does. If a woman is making good money and decides to chase after more money, I don't try to make sense of it.
10. I don't feel inferior to you and what you have, because I have no idea who you are, or what you have. Even if I knew, I wouldn't care. I'm not you. I don't want to be you. I most certainly don't want to give a woman money so she and I can both pretend we're in love. However, I'll have some time in Medellin from May 1-9. Bring yourself and your best girl in the world. I'll post a day before where I will be (a safe, decent, public place) and you can come and convince me about how perfect everything is. I'll even sweeten the deal, $500 if you show. Of course, Bigfoot is more likely to show than you are.
11. Amongst all your other insanity, you keep talking about what you believe other people are doing, feeling, experiencing and getting. Care to explain? If I sit down at a table with someone I can see what they're eating. If I taste it, I can decide whether I think it tastes good. However, there's absolutely no way for me to know how it tastes to them. They can tell me and I still don't know. But you take it much farther. You talk about a restaurant you've never been to, one which you don't even know what's on the menu and you tell the customers who you know nothing about, that they aren't enjoying what's on their plate, without knowing what the fuck they ordered.
12. It's all just words. Always the best. Right? I have no interest in "best. " I've never had interest in "best. " Because "best" is just a subjective evaluation and once you've decided that you've achieved it, it's all downhill. I focus on the moment. If the moment is good, I'm happy. If the moment isn't good, I'm happy, because it will get better.
I've said it many times, and I'll probably keep saying it:
Get yourself into treatment.
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[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2688526]Yes it was used much. Maybe in 2001 and before, you were just not in the circles that it was used in.[/QUOTE]Shit, we were making jokes about "sugar daddy" when I was 10.
[URL]https://www.reporterherald.com/ci_22623737/sugar-daddy-has-sweet-history[/URL]
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[QUOTE=JjBee62;2688019]...Face it. When Nounce starts making fun of you, you're completely off the deep end.[/QUOTE]It sounds that way because that is what I think Elvis is saying but maybe I don't understand it. I do appreciate that Elvis takes the time to reply and he seems genuinely trying to share.
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I think a lot of us prefer to fuck hookers because it's just a lot less trouble. Women are a pain in the ass. But if you're heterosexual, you still want them. So a lot of us have come around to the idea that mongering is more efficient, more cost effective, and more sexually satisfying as opposed to 'having a girlfriend. ' But for those of us who actually like women, we've found a lot of alternatives to these greedy sugar babies. Seeing the same hookers regularly is an alternative, if you know how to pick and treat hookers. You still need to know the difference between a girl friend and a hooker. Don't go looking for a hooker when you really want a girl friend, and don't go looking for a girl friend when you really want a hooker. Guys like Elvis want a girl friend but don't have the wherewithal to bring it off. So, they find a hooker and anoint her as their girl friend. That will work until it doesn't.
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[QUOTE=Nounce;2688648]It sounds that way because that is what I think Elvis is saying but maybe I don't understand it. I do appreciate that Elvis takes the time to reply and he seems genuinely trying to share.[/QUOTE]Okay one more time. You go to a steakhouse and it is one of the best you have ever been to. You go back and it is just as good. It is the best of the best. Is it easy to find a steak house this good? Hell no.
But how do you go one step further than the best of the best? You say to the restaurant I am going to quit going to all the other steakhouses and only support you and in exchange for this commitment: I expect you to go up a notch higher. Can you do that? And the restaurant says yes, and they do exactly that. Now, you have reached the pinnacle of steak houses. You are getting the best service at the best of the best. Is there better? Probably. But is this about the best you can get? Well, it is so fucking good that going to any other steak house would likely be a disappointment.
So when you all are telling me of the great steakhouses you have eaten at, my question to you is did you commit to it? If not, then do not tell me it is all that great. Okay, maybe it is 90 out of 100. My point is what gets you to 100 is commitment.
Can you say that a steakhouse that is a 50 and in demand can be 90? Hell no.
Can you pretend that a 70 is just as good as a 90? Hell no.
Can you say if the restaurant really liked me they would do it without pay? Hell no.
Can you get to a 100 by saying, "Well, you are pretty good but I want to keep my options open and keep eating steak at other places?" Sure you can do that, but if you really are eating at the best of the best, the chances of getting better are pretty slim.
You have to do the work and find the best steakhouses. You have to get the staff to like you, accept your proposal, and you cannot go anywhere else. You have to be loyal to the one place.
So with women, you have to find the best of the best. You have to get her to like you. You have to propose commitment, have that proposal accepted, and you have to be loyal to her to get the best sex out of the best of the best.
And it is not easy doing this. There are so many ways it can fail. All I am saying is this is what you have to do to have the best sex. That is what I have learned. If you are content eating at steakhouses that are 50 or 70 or 90, that is fine. Maybe you want variety. All I wanted people to say was that was interesting and I will keep it in mind. It is not like the best of the best is on every street corner. It is a lot of blood, sweat, tears, time, and money to get here and maybe it is not worth it for some people to shoot this high.
Anyone who questions me on this topic I will ask this: if your woman is so fucking great, why can you not commit to her? If she truly is the best of the best, you should commit to her if you want to get to the next stage. If she is the best of the best, how likely is it that you are going to really find better? Realistically, the only way to do better is going deeper with the best of the best.
If I were truly a narcissist, Nounce, I would say that neither you or anyone else could get where I am but I do not believe that. I have met guys here who are pretty close to this level.
If your mind set is I could never be happy with just one woman, then you will never find her. One of the biggest things I had going for me was people in my life who really believed that if I found the right woman, the best of the best, I could be faithful to her. I get it. You think I am just as crazy as I thought they were.
Now do you get it?