[QUOTE=Hesekiels]LH:
that's not wrong! According to my experience one has to make crystal clear what one really 'wants' from a girl. I believe it is best and fair to tell her that one wants to have a 'great time', but no serious relationship. And it goes without saying that we treat the girls nicely and with respect!
Cheers!
Hesekiels[/QUOTE]You are exactly right, Hesekiels!
I have heard from lots of girls that many of the Facebook and AfroIntroduction farangi pretend that they came to Kenya looking for the Love of their Life, whereas in reality, all they want is a quick free fuck.
No wonder that girls who make this experience get bitter as a consequence, but the total lack of options forces them to still keep on playing along in the hope that not all men are like that (seems that every malaya kows of a girl who used to hang out at Big Tree and ended up meeting a nice young man from "Switziland" who took her back to his cold Heimat, where she is really happy now. Bless her soul!)
The M. O. For a permanent resident like me, who is in the market for somebody new every now and then, should be: make it clear upfront that you are not interested in anything serious, that you believe that variety is the spice of life, but that you are prepared to pay a fair price as you go along. This way you don't raise false expectations which will bite you in the ass sooner or later, and you develop the reputation of being a "desirable catch".