Happy New Year to all brudders
[QUOTE=KL Guy]I wish to take this opportunity to wish all a Happy New 2008 Year, especially to Bulai69, JAD, Menteng, Mighty Spearsman, Ebowan & not forgetting MD2 & Panya & also Oyenk = hope to see you in Jak 1 of these days! My apologies if I forgotten to mention anyone else!
KL Guy[/QUOTE]
I also do wish for all of us a prosperous and healthy year 2008... and for many years to come.
MAY THE FORCE BE WITH ALL
Ebowan
My very best wishes to all of you for the new year
[QUOTE=Mighty Spearsman]Thanks for mentioning me, and Happy New Year to you as well! I look forward to hooking up again with you, it's been much too long.
I'll add in the names Smoothy, Knight 1001, Traveler1234 and Prof Designer as well, good people all, and I'm sure that I've also forgotten a few deserving names as well :)
It's 11:45 p.m. on New Years Eve and pouring rain right now in Jakarta, guess I won't see many fireworks this year![/QUOTE]
Kl Guy, Mighty, and all the other Bros of this forum,
Thank you for your kind words and wishes and in turn I wish you all a wonderfull year where not all of your dreams will come true, (that would be such a bore thereafter), but as Mark Twain said :
"New Year's Day… now is the accepted time to make your regular annual good resolutions. Next week you can begin paving hell with them as usual."
But don't do it too fast though ...
Ciao
Pancha - Indonesiancupid.com
Hi Pancha.
Good tip, thanks mate! I hope to be in Jakarta this coming March. That site sounds like it offers good way to meet some GF there.
[QUOTE=Pancha]Hi there,
Also try Indonesiancupid.com. It is a paid site. Still worth. Get one month membership and also get a new SIM. Look for those on line and if you think anyone is worth hit the 'Online" button. Do a chat. Most of them are good in english. See how it goes. They will give their YM immediately. Most of them will say there are looking for a life partner. That is a bit exaggerated. Ha Ha. However talk nice with them. Don't talk naughty or dirty initially, they will just shut you down bluntly. Instead take the long road. After a couple of days they themselves will start talking naughty to you. Arrange for a meet if ok take it forward from there. Most of them are from very very good backgrounds. Some work, most of them well to do, even some have their own vehicle. They will even take you out for a meal.....[/QUOTE]
Dutch44
Hard work, patience and ... surprises, good and not so good
[QUOTE=Bulai69]I 100% agree with recent postings about finding girls on "dating" sites; as Pancha says it's really important not to dive in too quickly and crudely, then you get a great pay off. I've certainly found girls who are well off with their own cars etc etc. On a note of caution however, they don't always drop their pants quickly (or ever!) either. Even if they don't, you can have a pleasant night out (if you have the time) and of course, if the night ends early it's never a problem to find a girl afterwards.
I once met one girl at my hotel who I'd previously "met" on YM. I thought I was on a winner because having chatted with her for many hours (I was in UK at the time with nothing better to do) she had talked a little bit "dirty". For example she eventually told me that one of the reasons she went on YM was to see men wanking (jerking) themselves off!
However, when she turned up at my hotel she was wearing a jilbeb (initially exciting!!) but she was accompanied by her aunt and it soon became clear that anything "nakal" was not going to happen! However, after dinner I just went down to 30 bar and got another: not as good as I could of got if I'd spent all night looking, but nothing ventured nothing gained...[/QUOTE]
Funny you should say that bro and I can't agree more with you: patience, kindness and politness are key.
I have had all kinds of surprises:
- One cutie came with her mum ... good thing I hadn't planned to meet her in my place, so it was coffee and chat and bye;
- Another one turned up with about 6 cousins of her ... good thing she was very late, so I left under the pretext that I had another engagement which did not take into account her being soooo late ... never saw her again: all they wanted was a free meal I guess.
- Others came as true virgins at 26 years old plus ... and refused stubbornly to abandon that status, so it was ... not necessarily wasted time coz I managed to play with some of them, to a certain extent of course, quite exciting actually;
- Some others come in pairs with friend(s) and then you know they don't intend to drop their nickers this time round, so I usually refuse them when they say they want to bring a friend along. Sometimes though they accept after a long time to come alone: it took more than 6 months for one of them to accept that. And the wait was well worth it in the end.
- Some will tell you bluntly upfront: no sex tonight ... 3 hours and a few drinks later, you both gain access to heaven and stay there for the night ...
- Some will refuse to go to your hotel or apartment: don't panic, you can fuck them in the car: crazy maybe, especially here, but I did it ... and it was a first for me, and I did not even ask for it either ...
- And I almost forgot, some may heat you up red hot on chat but will run away the moment you try to get in their nickers, while others who at first will be very quiet, shy and reserved will prove to be the lay of the year and wild in bed ... the morale being: things are not always what they seem to be.
If I had to sum up what could happen or not with these girls here in Jakarta, a few words come to mind : be prepared and expect the unexpected.
Cheers