Why are people preordering and booking chicas for the entire trip?
I've never had it go well when I pay all you can eat prices and make an agreement with a chica before I get there. Tell her you'll see her when you get there and then work it out after fucking her for a bit.
Upping the BNP of Colombia with SA
[QUOTE=Sangnyc21;2517155]There are 2 things ruining SA.[/QUOTE]You forgot the mongers. I guess specifically me. I'm on vacation and not really looking for a SD / SB relationship, I'm about the single dates, and they're not even real dates in the proper sense. They come over, we chat and have a few drinks, then it's a shower and sex. Rappi afterwards is optional and depends on performance / personality. Those types of punters are going to steer the site in a certain direction.
I already told another BM in private messages that if you don't want to be shelling out $300 dollars you have to be ready to walk away. Don't fixate, play the field. I had a girl laugh me out of the chat when I offered 150 K only for her to counteroffer with 250 K a day later. I had a cam model that wanted $100 that agreed to 250 K, taxi and all the bells and whistles included. The only way you're getting free sessions is if you've put in the time to where you graduate from being a SD / punter to more of a friend. In essence, you're going to be paying either way. It works for me as I enjoy sex a whole lot more with a personal connection, and mutual enjoyment. At the same time there's something to be said for the type of interaction this board is built around.
It's not difficult to separate the semi pros from the pros on SA. If you're 3 sentences deep into a conversation and she starts asking about the arrangement. Yeah. If your latest message never gets a reply, she's got about 40-50 convos going, you just got lost in the herd. If you move her over to whatsapp and beyond the initial greetings she leaves you on read for weeks on end. She doesn't care about you until you're in Medellin, money in hand.
Then there's the 'send me money' schtick. I've had 6 or 7 of those. I don't doubt that they need money but it's probably not for the father with cancer in the hospital, and why leave yourself open to being taken advantage of like that. Some of them are on SA purely for the scam and never intended to meet with anyone, some are trying to open a separate income stream. It hurts when one of the best prospects brings it up, but you need to say no and either meet up when you've arrived (hasn't happened for me), or block her. If the 'no' doesn't lead to her blocking you herself.
There's a ton of white noise on SA that you need to sort through to be able to get what you want out of the site.
There's been some talk on the board about underage girls, and I want to reiterate to use your judgement as best as you can. I literally just met up with a girl that had her age as 19 in her profile, and who's cedula had her listed as 20. She was 16, turning 17 in two months. I would've never caught it, except she volunteered the information on a straight question.