Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Marconista]in the RP, and I fail to understand how the guys end up with the scammers.

OK - a few has asked me for gifts and money, especially now that it is Christmas, but overall - I dont find this as a problem.

During my, about 15 years, visits to the country I have mainly good memories from being with the ladies that love sex and cuddling more than any other ladies on this planet.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately vaccination confers only partial immunity M. :)
I've only been around the PI for 3 1/2 years and during that time I've avoided all but the most well concealed traps. An occasional loss of a few pesos here and there i take in my stride. Nobody can have perfect x-ray vision of people here but most scams are obvious.

Guys sending money to unmet people from internet chats are total fools.
Guys sending money to GF's have to be very very careful & ultimately, just like marriage, be prepared to take a loss on their investment sometimes.

AV

You gents are correct. Sending money to unmet girls is dumb. There are so many guys who do it. I've had such good experiences with some girls. I've had girls in both RP and Indonesia who would never let me send money. Maybe they have a job, maybe not, but they feel cheapened by a man sending money (*****-ish). On the other hand, you find out a few days before your trip to visit with your woman that she's been scamming multiple other men.... you see the range. From human trash to humanity.

[QUOTE=Amavida]Yeah FF you are not alone, i have many experiences like that. Over on the AC board I just finished readig the umpteenth story about runners. I've never had a runner. The last BF I had in AC would not take a tip in the morning & happy to repeat for 3 more days also with no tip.

I have regular GF's same deal, dont bleed me for money. Only occasional hint about needs.
Im sure there are many guys like us.
Cheers
AV[/QUOTE]

If you read these boards apparently not…What type of cologne are you and Freebie wearing? :D

[QUOTE=Amavida]My god you are so right GE.
I tell you a little story. A few months ago my asawa got into an argument with me over money (at this point she had no evidence of sexual wrong doing on m part mind you). Any way to cut a long story short she incorrectly calculated that she could be boss & blackmail me into unwise financial decisions. When I called her bluff & let her know that when push comes to shove I have the final say on finances. Her response was to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off & disappear. She took my little boy with her which was very hurtful. AV[/QUOTE]

Sorry about your wife man my American wife took off damn near 3 years ago for reasons I still don’t know... I escaped with all my Warbucks one reason we didn’t have any rug-rats but man I know what it feels like… my condolences

my guess is that she's preggie, and that ample bosom has a lot of milk in it.

sidenote: recently barfined a lady with a SIX yr old kid and she suggested breastmilk. Huh? I clarified things since I suspected a six month old, but that was not the case. She had some baby sag, but at 4 10, she was a little sprite of a thing. She did have milk -- she squeezed out a few drops.

I thanked her for her calcium contribution, but over a decade ago the mother of my child was a happy contributer. Been there done that.

KK, have you seen any recent breast photos? I wonder if the grandmother is still milking those big tits for Pesos...depriving the kid of some very good nourishment.

X


[QUOTE=KongKing]I have just posted some chat and show pics (see my posting below) from a few of my chat mates who promise me a very happy time when we meet in the New Year.

One I am less certain about. I will call her Daisy from Davao, a 23 year old mother. She initiated a DateInAsia chat which led to a sharing of our Yahoo addresses. But before we had our first cam chat (I always like to see them on cam) I received this email:

[i]Hi loverboy,
Im Funny, have sense of humor and im open minded too..
Aside from that im willing to be your lover and we having a lots of fun. Theres a lot of tourist spots here in davao city a lots of beaches and mountains you can see, but Im sure if you are with me, you will like to explore me than those tourist spots here.. [inserted at this point a few tongue hanging out and wink-wink icons]
Im easy to talk and little bit hot.... in bed.. hehehe
This is my latest picture. I hope you will like to lick it..[clothed pic of her sitting on a park bench]
You ask me if we can be together.. For me theres no impossible if we want it.. Hope to hear from you soon..
Your hot babe
Daisy[/i]

Of course I gave a sufficiently encouraging response which led to our first cam Yahoo chat in which, more or less unprovoked, she revealed her upper chassis and nice it was too. It kept me busy for a while using SnapIt screen captures! (see two pics attached) I never had someone do that before on a first cam chat. Too good to be true? Probably. A few days later I received this email:

[i]Hi,
My daughter shes not fine the doctor said she have dengue fever and its very dangerous to her because her platelets very down. Shes really weak now and im worried for her. I know that we only known for each other for few days. I ask help to you for my daughter she really need white blood to transfer to her that her platelets will go back to normal. And she will not in danger and the white blood transfer to her. I really need 5000 pesos for 2 bags. Can you please help me.
I know its not good im asking help to you bcoz you dont know me very well but for me its hard also to ask help like a beggar, but im doing this for the seek of my daughter. I know you will not think not good for me. But i will understand that. Im just try to ask help to you. Im just disperate now. Bcoz my sister in china cant help my problem. I know its my obligation. But im still hoping that maybe you can help my problem. I hope you understand me. Just in case you want to help me i will give you my address.
(address given)
Im just here to send you this message. I will go back to hospital now.[/i]

This is the first time I have had a situation where she shows it for free and then subsequently seeks money. I have had a few situations where obvious cam girls want to show it all but “send me money so I can buy a cam”. They get the “delete” treatment.

After one or two previously hard-learnt experiences of being well conned (exceeded by many fine examples reported by others on this web site) I now have a policy of ignoring/deleting all requests for money and hard-up stories. And I have done that, but still have that sneaking feeling: I wonder if her story is true? Maybe if I do have a spare afternoon when next in Davao I might give her a call (I have her number) and check her out, and see if there is more chassis to be revealed.

KongKing[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]It’s not the gender it’s the westerners. I don’t see Filipino men or Thai men going “goo- goo” over their own women like we do. No matter what they look like. I brought this up on the Filipina advice thread. No one responded. I wonder why? I have met Filipinas and Thai girls who in my eyes where beautiful enough to be models and they all had tales of how native guys from their respective countries fucked them and cast them aside. I think us westerners who come to third world countries with our over inflated wallets and “heads” could learn a lot from these guys.[/QUOTE]They do. We just don't get to see it because we're not in their world.

Been to Asia many times and have mongered (or tried to monger) everywhere I've traveled. The hard part many of these guys face is that they're looking for love. Looking for someone to love them. It might sound cold-hearted, but that's a recipe for disaster.

Whether in America or elsewhere, where is it normal that a nineteen year old girl will fall in love with a sixty year old guy. From a different culture? Regardless of where you are, it just doesn't happen. Sure, the girl will tell you she loves you, but do you really believe it? I know you want to, but don't.

Over the years, I've run into all these types of girls. One girl in Nicaragua that had a fiancee told me that her birthday passed but she's open to late gifts. Sure, I'll give you a gift, but I expect you to toss my salad first.

I'll give a girl gifts, I'll give her money. But she better look good to me and deep throat my cock before fucking her. That's the exchange. That's the game. And it's actually true whether you're mongering or dating in real life.

I'm sorry to hear you got burned, but remember that all of this is a game. You spent some money. You even got scammed a little. But I presume you fucked the shit out of a girl many years younger than you. That's pretty good in my book.

Hello All- I have a question about online sites and the various quality/quantity available on them. I joined DIA about a month ago and although I'm over 2000 emails received, I've yet to find a single person worth talking to. Most seem to be either under 18 or lady boys.

Last summer, before my first trip to PI, I was on a pay site that I won't name and the quality there was above average. I eventually started talking to a 21 yo Manila girl, who I eventually met. This girl would have easily been a 10 in any western country. Had a job, spoke great non-accented English, and never asked me for a cent.

SO my question, is it just the free sites that have the lower quality offerings? Or have I just got lucky elsewhere?

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]If you read these boards apparently not…What type of cologne are you and Freebie wearing? :D[/QUOTE]Im all seriousness DW, i dont know about FF, but it doesnt hurt to be on the young side of 50, trim physique & have a good personality.
Personality is the big thing with flips. They detest type 'A' personalities. No matter how successful and driven u may be its best to be laid back, friendly & warm. I find it easy to engage flip chicks. Some guys dont have the knack.. The one complaint i hear most often from chicks here is 'arrogant'.
Dont get me wrong i've had plenty leeches try to attach themselves to me.
I toss them & keep the good ones.
We must never ever forget that the reason we are blessed with abundant nubile girlfriends is because we have <MONEY>

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Sorry about your wife man my American wife took off damn near 3 years ago for reasons I still don’t know... I escaped with all my Warbucks one reason we didn’t have any rug-rats but man I know what it feels like… my condolences[/QUOTE]Yeah thanks man. Its never easy. But I went in with my eyes open. I have a lovely 19 year old GF who disracts me from thinkin about things too deeply.
AV

Amavida? Flips?

Thank you for showing what a low life bigot you are.

x

Actually Daddy makes an interesting if unintended point. Rules for picking up ladies in Manila (20 years of doing it)

1. Be clean and neat with personal grooming. Unshaven unkempt don't work.

2. Smell good. Nothing overpowering. Simple Nivea spray works well.

3. Wear good shoes. Not rubber shoes or sandals.

4. Offer to buy the girl coffee/beer whatever. Don't look cheap. But never talk about how much money you got.

5. Be humble. If a gal asks if your rich never for numerous reasons answer yes. Me. I state that I work hard, 12 hours a day and have done so for many many years.

The "hard worker" tag is a clear impresser. Many will say. Ah then its your money, you deserve it, you don't have to spend it on me.

6. Make random acts of kindness. One gal loves me to buy her books. One is so impressed if I give her an old CD that I would otherwise throw away.

Gave one a disposable camera. Panties down 5 minutes later. Its not cash that works. Its the fact you show you pretend to care.

7. Send sms or email when least expected. A Filipina likes to know shes respected. And an sms from a guy in a foreign country remembering her birthday (I don't live in Phils, but visit often) goes a long way.

8. If your chatting, don't get naked or offer to get naked. Let her get interested first. All girls complain that so many guys want to just show off their "meat and potatoes". Be different. Its surpising how many I score with as I treat them respectfully on line. Till they get interested. Then if they ask for a little flesh, its come from them. Not imposed on them by me.

Any guy who wants to show how important he is. Will not go far. After all. This is a country full of politicians and other hangers on who all love to show how important they are. Remember the golf fight and the mayor who said " don't you know who I am". Enough said.

Show them a good reason to remember you. And they will. I'm never short of new ones or old ones by following the above listed principles.

Oh and I'm the wrong side of 50, have a nice smile, reasonable physique. And never stingy.

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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Actually Daddy makes an interesting if unintended point. Rules for picking up ladies in Manila (20 years of doing it)


5. Be humble. If a gal asks if your rich never for numerous reasons answer yes. Me. I state that I work hard, 12 hours a day and have done so for many many years.

The "hard worker" tag is a clear impresser. Many will say. Ah then its your money, you deserve it, you don't have to spend it on me.

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I agree and experienced the point 5...all points you mentioned are like bible codes for hunting down a filipina ..very true

On the other hand...i have experienced that getting rid of a filipina after been too nice is a double edge sword with a cynide tip... :)

you just cant get rid of a filipina ..i have not found a way other than offering her money, she breaking few objects or bucket load of crying, crying crying and me feeling guilty for rest of my life.

The lines like " i need space", "we need a break to see where our life is going etc" western excuses does not seem to work.

Even been nice to a bar girl, is like taking her for ever. after an year, im still getting mails from bar girls, saying i made her pregnant and its in 10's

I had nightmares thinking about it...we know its a scam...but still getting rid of a regular girl after one night of fun is a mystery to me...once you take a bar girl from a bar, be too nice to her, be a gentleman, then you JUST CANT take another girl from the same bar..or whats the point in been too nice..its too complex.

I would be very relieved and happy to know if their is any way around this... without hurting their feelings but a nicer way to dumb them.

[QUOTE=Born Loser 5]I agree and experienced the point 5...all points you mentioned are like bible codes for hunting down a filipina ..very true

On the other hand...i have experienced that getting rid of a filipina after been too nice is a double edge sword with a cynide tip... :)

you just cant get rid of a filipina ..i have not found a way other than offering her money, she breaking few objects or bucket load of crying, crying crying and me feeling guilty for rest of my life.

The lines like " i need space", "we need a break to see where our life is going etc" western excuses does not seem to work.

Even been nice to a bar girl, is like taking her for ever. after an year, im still getting mails from bar girls, saying i made her pregnant and its in 10's

I had nightmares thinking about it...we know its a scam...but still getting rid of a regular girl after one night of fun is a mystery to me...once you take a bar girl from a bar, be too nice to her, be a gentleman, then you JUST CANT take another girl from the same bar..or whats the point in been too nice..its too complex.

I would be very relieved and happy to know if their is any way around this... without hurting their feelings but a nicer way to dumb them.[/QUOTE]Here again I get lucky. They all know I don't live in Philippines so theres little way they can contact me. The big advantage of that of course is they never know when I'm there either. Then I contact the ones I want to and don't say Hi to the ones I don't. I find that this way puts me in a measure of control.

Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.

Haven't encountered too many clingers. But when I lived in Manila and faced one would always invent a business trip to somewhere far away. That seemed to quieten them down.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Here again I get lucky. They all know I don't live in Philippines so theres little way they can contact me. The big advantage of that of course is they never know when I'm there either. Then I contact the ones I want to and don't say Hi to the ones I don't. I find that this way puts me in a measure of control.

Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.

Haven't encountered too many clingers. But when I lived in Manila and faced one would always invent a business trip to somewhere far away. That seemed to quieten them down.[/QUOTE]

Yep i was in Cebu, which is a small place and in couple of months, people know who you are...Manila is always better to play hide and seek and im never telling anyone im here for long term stay but would go in a week and will keep two SIM cards..that should make things easier ..hehehe :)

I've come to the conclusion that some of the smarter ones know about when we (or people like us) take our vacations (Christmas?) and then give a call or send a text to guys in their phone around that time.

The first time it happened to me (a year ago) I had just reloaded my phone at the airport and bam -- this girl is calling me. It freaked me out. It happened for the third time last week.

X

[QUOTE=FreebieFan]

Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man]I had just reloaded my phone at the airport and bam -- this girl is calling me. It freaked me out. It happened for the third time last week.

X[/QUOTE]It's happened to me too. I flew into the Philippines a few days earlier than I had told gf. Switched phone on in the airport to check whether or not the sim was still active. Got a missed call from her within 5 minutes. That was the beginning of a very difficult few weeks!

Hi to all,

just read some reports here. I dont want to quote each statement so I will just give my 2 cents roughly to all what was posted here the last week.

Bornloser, if you let a girl stay in your place and you like to get rid of her it will be allways drama involved. Depends on you and the girl. I prefer not to let any girl stay with me unless I really love her and that is not going to happen any time soon. I just want to screw around with pretty girls :)

If girls miscall you when you dont expect them to do so, just txt them your sim is on roam, so you can get miscalls and txt but you not in the country.

Allways WAIT for their first move. If you dont want to see them, then DONT. You a manwhxxre once you touched Philippine soil!!

To my other fellow mongers or chataddicts, please avoid the following things.

Do not get your so called chatGF ym password, sign in and sent messages to all on their ym list not to contact your "fiancee".

That happen to me last time. Guy from UK visit that girl I havent met from dia and sent me an offline with that content to stay away from his fiancee and also not to txt her , because he holds her cellphone.

Actually I had no interest to meet her..she is to far..Alabang area..Im in Manila and I hate traffic.

Now, I consider to bang her, because of this guy who thinks boinking a girl for 10 days in the Philippines makes him to own her and sent angry emails to guys like me who live here :D....

BIG BIG mistake, its childish and now you can see that once you not around and out she can do whatever she want to do and she can meet up and bang who ever she wants, so dont do this, be cool, be matured, get a life or settle here in the Philippines.

Yesterday I did the "search" again on dia and laughed about one profile. I know the girl, she has a baby allready and lives with her pinoy boyfriend and now is "looking for a serious guy to be with " She aint a scammer, but people can change, specially if money is tight. So beware! If you here and have your fun its ok. If your out of the country, beware!!

I once talked to a girl from dia on yahoo. She told me her bf went back to the USA and she is working now on a "fiancee visa" to go and visit him. She works in bank, so nonbargirl. I told her its difficult to get such visa and it takes some time, so why not meet up since Im in Ermita next week....hehehehe...She says ok, no sex, drinks only...:D Of course, I dont want sex with a young hot girl like you, Im happy if we can have just a softdrink (yeah right)

Enjoy your stay in the Philippines, dont send any money to girls you never meet up in person, because this is VERY STUPID!!! Aside from that you will ruin the buyers market here, if the pros get money that easy, no need to provide the real thing, di ba?

Happy holidays , weather is fantastic here, cool, cloudy , but cool as in cool.


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