Its About Economics- Hooking Pays
I do not think Colombian women go into prostitution because of self-esteem and psychological problems, although I am sure all do have problems, just like you and I.
The reason they go into hooking is plain and simple---MONEY
Should a woman with a bambino go work in factory and make maybe 2-3 dollars an hour, and struggle to even live, or should work in a casa or freelance and make maybe 3-4 times as much money minimal?
This is also cultural, for many of these girls support not only bambinos, but also mama, little brothers and sisters etc.
General Info From My First Viisit
From my first trip to Colombia, 3.5 weeks, while it is fresh in my mind:
1. Buy a SIM for your GSM phone. Cel numbers are 10 digits and start with 3. For fixed lines, start with 03 plus the city code (1 for bogota, 4 for medellin) then then fixed line number. If you date non-pros, never leave your cel turned off even by accident. They will be sure you are cheating on them.
2. Internet cafes are everywhere. If there isn't an @ character on the keyboard, type Alt + 64 on the numeric keypad.
3. The sidewalks are very irregular and have pot holes. If you need to girl watch, I suggest that you stop walking. Otherwise, you may twist your ankle or break a leg.
4. People are friendly and welcoming, especially in Medellin. It is easy to strike up conversations. many will practice there English on you, but Speaking Spanish is necessary to function on your own or to approach non-pros. My Spanish is not perfect, but it was enough for most things.
5. There are many beautiful women in Colombia, ranging from white to black with everything in between except Asian and very tall. But the majority are ordinary looking. Silicon is not as prevalent as I expected from my observation of the pros in St Maarten. It is heavily concentrated in the Poblado neigborhood of Medellin.
6. Pros.
In strip clubs and girlie bars, the on-site rooms for sex are sometimes hidden behind secret doors. I found this charming. My favorite was Maracaibo strip club on Calle 53 in Medellin, where you first duck under the bar counter, then duck again through a bar height secret passage.
I did not see any massage places or sex casas with signs. That is probably why there are people on every busy corner giving out cards for such places. I picked up 7 in a few hours walking around.
Sunday is quiet in Colombia, with many shops closed. In Medellin, cards from Atenae, Barcelona and Play Model claimed they were open on Sundays.
One of my favorite pro sessions was back in Bogota. I was walking to the corner of CRA 15 and Calle 84, when I spotted two attractive girls and smiled at them. They said hello and handed me a card. It was for a massage parlor nearby:
Sala de Masajes La Femme.
Open mon-sat, 10am to 8pm. CRA 15 No 86A-57, apt 301 on the 3rd floor.
Their web site doesn't say much. [url]http://www.geocities.com/la_femme_gourmet[/url]
I walked on, but was intrigued. I have been given many such cards, but this was the first time the card came from two of the working girls, giving me an advance look at what was on offer. And very pretty ones. I liked their enterprise and I thought the price might be better than the other places in Zona Rosa.
I went up to the 3rd floor and the girl who spoke to me on the street recognized me and gave a big smile. Natalia. She introduced the other 4 girls. All nice, no gordos, but no 10s either. Prices are 60k for massage, 80k for massage with something extra (I presume CBJ) and 100K for full serviee. for an hour. With a massage table, not a bed.
I focused my attention on Natalia, because I had a connection with her. I selected the 100K option. Very GFE.
I pulled out my ipod and speakers and let her select Sin Bandera. I happened to have a Sin bandera cd in my bag, so I gave it to her as a gift (I consider this a good 50 cent investment). The massage table was not the best for sex, but we managed admirably. When I was finished I gave her a massage. She gave me her number and asked me to call her tomorrow.
7. Non-pros.
I found myself moving too slowly for most Colombian women. One beautiful girl in a shoe store in downtown Medellin had to wave to me across the street the second day I walked by and then had to ask me for my phone number. I found it very hard to get over North American habits, but it was necessary. This girl then called me two days later, after I was in Bogota and could not do anything about it.
An Ipod with good latin and USA pop music is a great ice breaker, and a seduction tool if you include romantic ballads. But Colombians listen to a lot more local pop music (ranchera, vallenato, llanera, drinking songs, etc.) than I would have believed possible.
Non-pros have a life with a schedule and responsibilities. They can't just stop everything and play with you. I have been spoiled by 3 years of Colombian pros in St Maarten (in brothels where they work on 3 month visas).
Non-pros may be using you, even if subconsciously. For example, if she is lonely and horny, the sex may be hot and passionate. But she may not be horny again for a week. You make a good paying escort for restaurants, clubs, movies, etc. One paisa MILF had never been on the metrocable before, in fact she didn't know how the metro worked. One night in bogota with a young beauty without much money, she ordered lobster for 120k and I ordered a bottle of wine and then I ordered a small bottle of imported whiskey at a Parque 93 disco, and the evening cost over 400K. And I was so tired and drunk at the end, sex was not an option, even if she didn't have to go home to get a couple of hours sleep before her obligations of the next day. But another beautiful woman, an engineer, went with me to see the new Mummy movie on opening weekend and ate lightly in the mall and cost me less than 50K. I met these women and others through cypercupido.com - only one was an obvious prepago, the rest were normal middle=class women.
8. Visiting a pro at home.
I only called one of the many girls that I was friendly with in the St Maarten clubs,
When I arrived at her house, she had severe cramps from a drug she had taken to abort a pregancy she got working in the islands (not mine). It didn't work, so 2 nights later she took a stronger more dangerous drug and at 1:30am I heard her crying in the bathroom as she flushed the fetus down the toilet. She was a physical and mental wreck for 2 days more. All the while, hiding what was happening from her young son, her neighbors and her mother.
It was an intense, up-close, real-life experience, but not one that I would recommend for your vacation in Colombia.
9. Security. I visited Bogota, Medellin, Barranquilla, and Ibague. I walked a lot, rode the bus, took taxis, rode the metro, went to the circus, discos, bars, and public festivals, and explored scummy downtown Medellin during the day. I followed precautions as recommmended by Colombians (don't go downtown at night, don't wear jewelry, etc.). There are police and security guards everywhere in good areas and shopping centers. I experienced no petty crime and felt safe. However, I didn't get drunk very often and never alone, or visit any poor rural areas, or flash any money around and I stayed only in secure neighborhoods.
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