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[QUOTE=Christopherd]I was thinking more along the lines of a postage stamp, maybe with a handwritten poem or something . . .[/QUOTE]
If anybody here can write a nice romantic poem in portugese can you please post it here so we can all copy it!
An easier option is to post a link to a romantic song on her Orkut, Ana Carolinas singing "isso ai" or Jota Quests " So hoje" are good bets.
[QUOTE=Abzsafado]If anybody here can write a nice romantic poem in portugese can you please post it here so we can all copy it!
An easier option is to post a link to a romantic song on her Orkut, Ana Carolinas singing "isso ai" or Jota Quests " So hoje" are good bets.[/QUOTE]
I've tried copying ordinary poems before and don't recommend it unless you're sure. Questioning her big smile, she told me, "Your Portuguese is good, but not [i]that[/i] good!" Lines from songs (nice suggestion, Abzsafado) and greeting cards sound cool though I will always in future modify them enough to make them believable. I'm rifling through some classic poetry just now though - one can be forgiven for copying great art - I've got a couple of those poetry books printed in simultaneous translation.
[QUOTE=Poucolouco]Good idea, Christopherd. Here are two options:
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[url]http://cartoes.uol.com.br/[/url] Send her a card - FREE![/QUOTE]
I have ordered online from this florist for years. They always do a great job.
[url]http://cameliaflores.com.br/loja-/[/url]
I've met alot of pros that are going to professional schools in fields such as medicine, law, dental, business, etc. So it seems to me that there's a chance that a successful beautiful girl might once been a pro.? What happens if you find out she was once a pro?
I might be in that situation myself.
Can't change the past. Accept her for who she is and hope that door won't open again. God knows I have alot in my closet yet I closed the door and tossed the key, so if your like US Customs who keeps stopping me due to my past, hey keep looking because I'm not going back.
Hi to all,
I have now over the last 6 years a very good friend of mine in Rio. She had graduated as a MD/Dentist and has now her own office in Niteroi. She was working on the side during her time at the university as a semi-pro. We met 8 years ago at Posto 5 the first time and during my regular visits to Rio we fell in love. We met occasionally and then more and more regularly and one day she declared that she is quitting her old life and gets "respectable". I respected here anyhow and treated here like a GF and she gave me the GFE.
She first worked as an dentist in a clinic for 3 years and then opened her own office in Niteroi. When I am in Rio and when I do not monger, then I stay at her place and we are like on old couple, going out, enjoying ourselves. We really live together, share out thoughts, I have usually all my stuff at her place and I stay in her appartment when I am in Rio. I can imagine staying with her for ever. For her her past is over. I still monger but by far not as much as I did 20 or 10 years ago. As all south-american women she is very possesive and would cut my balls off if she catches me mongering. But simply do not get cought. In Brasil every man with money mongers but avoids to be cought. I simply do the same. She knows that I do it but what the heck!
I simply recommend that time will show if she is worthwhile. Stay with her and forget the past (of her) and continue to do you part of mongering.
Carlos
[QUOTE=Carlos Primeros]Hi to all,
I simply recommend that time will show if she is worthwhile. Stay with her and forget the past (of her) and continue to do you part of mongering.
Carlos[/QUOTE]Good to hear that at least someone made a good life out of a bad situation. You are going to hear good and bad feed back on the situation at hand, but ultimately you are the one that has to live with the decision of making a life with her. My opinion, if you do not mind me giving one, is to forget what she did in the past. Think for a minute, that part of her life kind of brought you and her together and she took a negative part of her life and made it into a positive and that in my humble opinion means a lot more to me than what she did as a GDP. Good luck in what ever decision you make.
There is no such a thing as a ex-pro.
What is wrong with you guys? Once a ho always a ho.
Well if you want to spend rest of your life wondering.....
There is SO MANY women in Brasil who wouldn't sell ass for any reason.....
Here is the deal, ho's are for a fuck. Normal women... for relationships...
Just my 2 centavos (again).
Hi Perkele,
In 98 % of the cases you are right. There are 10.000 women alone at Copa selling their ass. This works only when you really find the needle in the haystack. My GF is making as a dentist approx. 150.000 R$/year - more than the best therma-girl would ever make. So why sell her ass???? She simply has enoguh money.
90% of the girls sell their ass for money. The absolute majority is un-educated and I agree with your that once they work as a GdP they see this as their way out of misery. A lot of easyly earned money. The small educated proportion of these girls, also quite often from good families, see this work only as a temporary time to get over some mishaps and they prefer to get back into "normal" life. That happened to my GF.
That at the other hand does not stop me from continueing to monger, as long as it will last (LOL). Everybody of us is getting older and to have a lasting relastionship is a nice thing as well. When I was a young stag it was the adventure of weaking up every morning with another woman in bed but priorities change in life.
Carlos
[QUOTE=Carlos Primeros]Hi Perkele,
In 98 % of the cases you are right. There are 10.000 women alone at Copa selling their ass. This works only when you really find the needle in the haystack. My GF is making as a dentist approx. 150.000 R$/year - more than the best therma-girl would ever make. So why sell her ass???? She simply has enoguh money.
90% of the girls sell their ass for money. The absolute majority is un-educated and I agree with your that once they work as a GdP they see this as their way out of misery. A lot of easyly earned money. The small educated proportion of these girls, also quite often from good families, see this work only as a temporary time to get over some mishaps and they prefer to get back into "normal" life. That happened to my GF.
That at the other hand does not stop me from continueing to monger, as long as it will last (LOL). Everybody of us is getting older and to have a lasting relastionship is a nice thing as well. When I was a young stag it was the adventure of weaking up every morning with another woman in bed but priorities change in life.
Carlos[/QUOTE]
Carlos.
I'm happy for you, but WHY settle for a prostitute as a girlfriend when one can find women who never event thought of selling ass?
I have nothing against ho's, but a ho doesn't make a good wife. That is a well known fact.
I'm sure that great majority won't agree with me, but in my books there are no such things as SEMIpro or part time ho's or onetimers. For me if a woman SELLS ass even once, she is a prostitute. Why you may ask and I will respond.
As we all know that relationships has its ups and downs. All relationships are great when everything is fine etc. BUT when the downs come and believe me they will come a normal woman will fight with you and curse and so on, but that's it. A HO will do all the above and on top of that she has the CAPABILITY to SELL her ass. This is significant difference. A ho (or ex ho as many of you may like to call some of them) can even justify an affair to herself (and even to you) by CHARGING money from the guy she's fucking. You know the drill, she asks money for some crap you don't find necessary, she really wants it and since you do not provide, she'll sell her ass. Problem solved.
May I remind that I do not judge ho's, I find them very useful. But they do not make good girlfriends/wives.
P
[QUOTE=Perkele]May I remind that I do not judge ho's, I find them very useful. But they do not make good girlfriends/wives.
P[/QUOTE]
Over the years this topic comes up repeatedly. I wonder what guys (fortunately, I am not one of them) who have had loveless, sexless marriages and ended up giving half their assets to a "good wife" think.
Many women who are prostitutes see what they do as the only means they have of ever obtaining economic freedom and not having to be dependent on a man. They have witnessed their father abandon their mother, same with their sister’s husbands, same with their friends. They themselves may have been promised the world by a gringo only to find out he is married in his home country.
If you grew up wealthy in a country which provides women economic opportunities, it might be difficult to understand how someone could sell their bodies for money. However, if you grew up poor, you might be a little more empathetic. Candidly, I have a lot more respect for GDPs in Rio than I do for lawyers, company milking executives and Wall Street’s greedy market manipulators.
I know of ho's that fit the archetype described by Perkele only too well, but I also personally know girls from a poor area who have made (and still are) good and faithful wives after some programma work to get themselves set up before getting married.
[QUOTE=Perkele]There is no such a thing as a ex-pro.
What is wrong with you guys? Once a ho always a ho.
Well if you want to spend rest of your life wondering.....
There is SO MANY women in Brasil who wouldn't sell ass for any reason.....
Here is the deal, ho's are for a fuck. Normal women... for relationships...
Just my 2 centavos (again).[/QUOTE]C'mon guys, you pay for it no matter if she's hookin or marries you, so stop kidding yourselves! Are you getting what you paid for? Now that is a good question for all men of the world!
[QUOTE=Christopherd]I know of ho's that fit the archetype described by Perkele only too well, but I also personally know girls from a poor area who have made (and still are) good and faithful wives after some programma work to get themselves set up before getting married.[/QUOTE]Ho's are just very good actors. The copa girls aim is to get as many dumb gringoes who send them as much money as possible. 4 dumb gringoes 1000r per week each. 4000r per week income. Them girls will go to help weekends to find more dumb suckers. That is all they know. You would be suprised at how many off them have a child by a american or european, got an apartment bought for them by the kids dad, there parents look after there kid and they are working help. They all claim they are studying at uni. I would say that one in 3 *****s at help are recieving over 1000r per week in alimony from some sucker.
[QUOTE=Perkele]Carlos.
I'm happy for you, but WHY settle for a prostitute as a girlfriend when one can find women who never event thought of selling ass?
I have nothing against ho's, but a ho doesn't make a good wife. That is a well known fact.
I'm sure that great majority won't agree with me, but in my books there are no such things as SEMIpro or part time ho's or onetimers. For me if a woman SELLS ass even once, she is a prostitute. Why you may ask and I will respond.
As we all know that relationships has its ups and downs. All relationships are great when everything is fine etc. BUT when the downs come and believe me they will come a normal woman will fight with you and curse and so on, but that's it. A HO will do all the above and on top of that she has the CAPABILITY to SELL her ass. This is significant difference. A ho (or ex ho as many of you may like to call some of them) can even justify an affair to herself (and even to you) by CHARGING money from the guy she's fucking. You know the drill, she asks money for some crap you don't find necessary, she really wants it and since you do not provide, she'll sell her ass. Problem solved.
May I remind that I do not judge ho's, I find them very useful. But they do not make good girlfriends/wives.
P[/QUOTE]
Perkele:
Agree with you 1,000%. Thanks for saving me the time to type.
This is the heart of the matter why hoes will never make good house wives: they know that there back-up plan is usually as good as option one. Therefore, they are less inclined to work things out.