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Whether you're a brother or not, a good rule of thumb I've found when traveling (as an American) is to refer to your city or state of origin, as opposed to saying "I'm an American".
When you say you're American, you instantly embody the ugly, Yankee, capitalist American imperialist. When you say you're from California or Detroit, you get a more personal conection and will hear "Oh, Disneyland!" or "Ahh, Motown. I really like the Camaro!".
Remember, you only have one chance to make a first impression.
Good luck and happy humping.
MC Ess Var
Example story: When I was in France a few weeks ago, I was drinking in a bar and a few people from an office were drinking adjacent me and upon hearing my American accented English, started making rude comments about Dubbya in French with some extra nasty phrases in English, clearly for my benefit. Rather than getting upset or defensive, I joined in the Dubbya bashing in French and wound up going home with one of the girls and fucking her silly.
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In my own opinion whenever I visit Europe I make damn sure people know I am American. The next time I go I will even wrap myself in Old Glory. From my own experience in France, younger French people are very pro-America, even the large Islamic population are very warm to Americans. I knew a Turkish woman who has an American flag T-shirt that she always likes to wear.
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mcessvar, You are right, when I went to Brazil and I use my California ID that open a lot of doors for me!
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Brazilians and people from other countries love Americans not just because of the money but because we are known as party animals that brought hip hop, techno, reggae, pop music and other great music into their country. The fact that I am Asian makes Brazilians mistaken me as Japanese which they worship because most of their technology such as stereo systems and video games come from Japan. I am Chinese though but I play along with this mistaken indentity just to get into their pants. I also say that I can't speak Japanese because I was born and raised American. This combination makes it a lot easier for me to meet non-pros in Brazil. :)
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I was expecting to be representing NYC in Amsterdam next month. But someone dropped a hint about Estonia... Brazil is a story of it's own. That will be my Mecca for next year.
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by darkseid
[i]Brazilians mistaken me as Japanese which they worship because most of their technology such as stereo systems and video games come from Japan. I am Chinese though but I play along with this mistaken indentity just to get into their pants. [/i][/QUOTE]
I have a new hero.
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That's the way Brazilians are! Everyone in Brazil who is dark skinned is assumed to be from the Northeast of Brazil and everyone that is pure white is assumed to be from the south of Brazil where the Germans, Poles and Italians live!
As for getting in their pants:
Brazilian women want a good time they are more comfortable with their sexuality.
They know that they are not men and most like it that way. American women BLACK, WHITE, ASIAN and a few LATINAS want it both ways! The wants the privileges of women and of men!
IF YOU DON'T MAKE A MOVE ON A BRAZILIAN WOMAN ON THE FIRST DATE SHE WILL THINK YOU ARE "VIADO" "GAY".
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mcessvar - excellent point....!! i have found the same but never really gave it much thought. it just seemed to work better that way.
but i must say, i can't feel as good as some other posters here in the way americans are received as of late. i seem to see and experience only negative emotion toward the u.s. at the moment. i mean i get dam scared sometimes and pretty saddened by what it has now come to.
o.k. i don't usually post in this forum and so i am generally speaking about a different corner of the world that i travel in. i'm just killing some time and was passing through this forum. glad to know some of you guys out there are still finding the "proud to be american" experience.....
later,
-agl
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On my first trip to Brazil when I first met my first Brazilian girlfriend (I didn't have money to pay for prostitutes at that time because I was in college), I was accused of being "viado" because I was used to waiting a long time for sex from American relationships. In America you have to work hard for sex. But my Brazilian girlfriend questioned why I did not make the first move and asked if I was "viado" (she gestured with flapping hands meaning gay). I said, "No I am NOT "viado". She then ripped off my clothes started kissing me then unzipped me and gave me a blowjob. Then she pushed me on the bed and sat on me and started fucking me (without condom). She then pulled me out and sucked it more until I released in her mouth and she swallowed it. I experienced culture shock because I didn't expect this to happen. I loved this experience and that's when I decided that Brazilian women are better and more passionate than American women.
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darkseid-
You know, until recently, I too thought that you had to date American girls for time before you could fuck them. Turns out I was just picking the wrong girls. I will agree that I have a lot more one night stands in other countries. I haven't been to Brazil, but it sounds very similar to what I've experienced in European vacation spots.
On the other hand, I've found that I'm able to get pretty hot and heavy on the first date with most of the American girls I've dated over the last 5 years. I sleep with about half of them on the second date, a few more than you'd think on the first date and if there's no sex by date 3, there's no date 4. Almost all of these ladies have been met on the internet (American Singles, Match, etc.) in the regular boy-girl personals. I'm not looking for an LTR right now, so there's no pressure to find Ms. Right.
With US girls, no means no, but if you know how to play the role, she'll never think to say it. Be a gentleman, but let the "accidental touch" linger. If you're interesting and attractive enough to hold their interest, you will get laid as long as you've been sure not to date a Christian, a feminista or someone in rehab (doesn't matter what for).
Actually, the most fuckable American girls are likely to be one or more of the following: Democrat, tatooed, overweight, college educated, over 30, bookish, urban or old suburban, into music other than Top 40 pop, funny. Bottom line, find girls that are somehow out of the mainstream, either by choice or default. They are more interested in connecting, have less options to connect and you have something to hook them with.
Everybody talks about how much cheaper it is to get casual sex from professionals, but I've found that if I discount any emotional cost (potential rejection, etc.), if you're not time constrained, dating sex, even in the USA, is not too expensive. My typical MO is coffee or cocktails (you gotta drink), dinner (you gotta eat) and a stroll in an interesting area ($0). Really your only added costs are a dinner and some drinks for an extra person. Total cost: >$50. Even if you don't get laid on the first date, it's cheaper to grope than a strip to the strip club and if there's a second date ($100) it's cheaper than most AMPs and all US escorts.
Anyway, I split my time between date sex and pay sex and find I get benefit from both.
Happy humping out there!
MC Ess Var
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Chilean women for LTR:
Many girls lost their virginity about 15 years old, many others still virgin to marriage.
An average chilean woman will wait over 2 /3 months of commitment before the first fucking, even when she had sex before, doesn't matter how
wet their panties are.
Now, women who travelled, those who are fascinating with foreign costumes, probabbly let you fuck the first night.
There are also, very horny girls arround, 'cause sexual restrictive society, some girls are extremely horny and others extremely cold.
If she trust you will not tell anybody (main concern), she'll feel more confident. You gotta make she feel confident about sex, 'cause teachers, priests, government, and TV has told her whole life sex
is only to make children, not to enjoy. The best seasson to get the girls horny is summer on any beach, they have a little more freedom there and
they take advantage of summer and less parents supervission.
It's not common find a woman under 35 years old single and living alone. Most part of single girls living alone are from the rich part of the city.
Married chilean women are quiet with their husbands, if you get enganged to a chilean woman remember you are the king she's the serveant, this also applyed for STR.
Chilean women are mostly looking for marriage a rich guy and go shopping.
Doesn't matter what they say, they will catch you, very often they will use the old trick of being pregnant. But remember that say abort it's not same that in other countries.
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German women
Any of you guys had an experience with German girls. I just met this chick from Berlin and she's very tough to read. I'm pretty sure she likes me but doesn't show it too much emotion. IAre they usaully conservative but wild behind closed doors?
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[quote]originally posted by mcessvar
[i]darkseid-
you know, until recently, i too thought that you had to date american girls for time before you could fuck them. turns out i was just picking the wrong girls. i will agree that i have a lot more one night stands in other countries. i haven't been to brazil, but it sounds very similar to what i've experienced in european vacation spots.
on the other hand, i've found that i'm able to get pretty hot and heavy on the first date with most of the american girls i've dated over the last 5 years. i sleep with about half of them on the second date, a few more than you'd think on the first date and if there's no sex by date 3, there's no date 4. almost all of these ladies have been met on the internet (american singles, match, etc.) in the regular boy-girl personals. i'm not looking for an ltr right now, so there's no pressure to find ms. right.
happy humping out there!
mc ess var [/i][/quote]
the american women i meet in bars, clubs, gyms, or classes expect you to get to know them on the first date and that first date in only to get to know them in most cases. they all refuse to have sex with you because of that initial barrier especially in a big city like new york where there are over 3000 [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord124][CodeWord124][/url] reported per year.
the personals seem to be the most popular way people meet in this big city because it is convenient and you don't have to spend countless nights looking for someone with your same interests only to end up finding women that don't share your interests. (i had a lot of those including unadventurous book readers that are afraid of heights, the religious prude, the money grubber, and anything else bad you can think of... and still no sex from them). the personals cut out the first date and you get to see what kind of person they are in advanced. because the first date which is a barrier is removed, they feel more comfortable having sex with you in most cases. the least amount of dates i had to go through to get sex is the second date and that is a girl i met on the personals because we cut out the smalltalk and we just talk about the hobbies we are into. i was afraid to ask her to have sex on that first date because i thought she would be like any other american woman but maybe i could have scored that night if it wasn't for my stereotyping of aw. the second date we got passionate and had it.
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Three x
[i]I am black and I went to Brazil to see some friends the women were really receptive! Especially the mulatas (some have blue eyes)! Just go to any fast food restaurant and speak english little and they will start to flirt!
I also heard Chile is a good place to go for brothers!
Also I dated a Columbian girl in the U.S. She told me that there is a island where White European and White American women travel to have sex with black men! There are places in Jamaica like that too!
I know a lot of Japanese girls and some love black guys! As a matter of fact my roommate who is Jamaican has a live in Japanese girlfriend. My friend who are white and U.S. Marines told me that black guys in Japan don't have to pay for pussy or food because the Japanese girls spoil them!
I the Philipines blacks are treated good!
I Thailand "The land of vertical smiles" black are treated good!
Basically avoid China and Korea!
I even heard Taiwan was o.k. not the best but o.k.
Go to www.goldsea.com in the poll section for asian women and black men! And you will see some examples of blacks in asia.
You just have to remember that most asian are easily influenced by the media! And some take everything as fact. So the best thing to do is to be sensitive to their concerns and try to smile and be helpful. Explain all question clearly and even when you're pissed don't get emotional!
Here is a story you may like! A buddy of mine was in the USAF and he was sent to Greenland! It was so cold there and the base he was at there were no females 64 men!
So all of the white men would go to a city called "Too Lee" but they would tell the black men they hate you in "TOO LEE" don't go! So he being a brother went anyway!
When he arrive he saw brothers with 5 girls a piece driving the local (girls) cars staying in their home and kicken it at the bars with them!
Iceland, Poland, Romania and Hungry are the same way!
Black music (Rap,Hip Hop) has helped and damaged our imagine aboard in many ways, exploit the positive! Just remember we control youth culture with our styles! [/i][/QUOTE]
Hey Bro,
My brother went to Japan In 95. He mentioned that when he was there(2 weeks) they treated him like a king!! Had sex with like 5-7 women They BADLY want the BLACK EXPERIENCE He's going Back again In June. You said it best "Exploit the Positive" Oh..... and he's a rap artist