Directing someone to an arrangement
Akibono, Nounce, Steve.
You guys are all correct. But I do not want a girlfriend in the city where I live and work. Two main reasons: (1) I don't have the time and (2) I don't want to get caught.
And yet, I don't want to be with a real pro all the time. Sometimes, I like being liked. Sounds kinda gay, but whatever. It's true. So, an arrangement with someone poor and who likes me would be the ideal situation. I think this is what we are all looking for on SA. However, my problem is that I am trying to talk girls that like me into an arrangement. They were not initially seeking an arrangement. So, this is a challenge, for all the reasons that you guys pointed out.
I wonder at what point a non-pro decides that she now want to get paid for fucking. One girl I knew on SA told me the following: "Why am I having sex with poor guys for free when I can be having sex with rich guys for money?" She said this voluntarily, as if to justify why she was on SA. I need these girls to come to the same epiphany.