[QUOTE=Chris H]I have to agree that SXM is alot better than the USA. I would have to say by a big measure. You can get ripped off easily by the AMP's and escorts in the US. Since they know that having any type of sex is illegal, and that you can't tell LE if you have a complaint, and alot of escorts take a advantage of that. I don't think itis worth the risk of bad service in the US, but I am glad you had a good time Zing!![/QUOTE]
ok, ok. sxm is way, way, way better than the usa!
Five hours at 3 clubs in St Maarten, took 4 girls, and money was never mentioned once. I just pay what I think is fair. I usually put the money on their dresser, but the girl at defiance didn't have a dresser, so I put the money in her shoe - she thought I forgot to pay, was about to ask for money, then looked down to put on her shoes and broke up laughing. SXM has a lot of friendly, natural girls.
Seamans Club:
I started at seamans at 1130am, with a favorita from 2006, Juliana in rm 15. While in the states, I bought some inexpensive items as potential chica gifts, including $39 mp3 players from kmart which I loaded with 1GB of music (about 15 solid cds). Saw Juliana as soon as I entered, sitting by the door with another guy and some other girls. Gave her a kiss and moved to the bar, she dumped the guy and followed. Bought an agua fria for me and a lady drink for her, then focused all my attention on her.
Recently I have realized that much of the chemistry in the sessions comes from my own attitude, which then affects the girls reactions and attitude. And since it is all a fantasy, I decided to have as sexy a fantasy as possible: I missed Juliana, the USA massage parlor girls and the reserved escort were but pale imitations of what I have in sxm: Young, smooth skin, long dark hair, dark eyes that can suck you in, thin body (factual aside: she is not as fit as when she arrived in sxm, but eating rice and peas every day and drinking alcohol all night will start to put a little belly on anyone), small natural breasts, patiently waiting for me to return from my trip so that she can shower all her love on me!
Went to the room and had one of my best sessions ever with Juliana. Kisses, bbbj, daty, cfs. I just ate her up and adored her. I was going to hold back and save my leche for the next girl, but I couldn't resist. (Factual aside: her fk was light, and she faked a bit of her response to daty and cfs, but her bbbj was longer and better than usual).
How To Deal With Chica "Jealousy"?
Juliana now rooms with Gloria, a beautiful dirty blonde that I met with Juliana last month and have lusted after ever since. As all of you will learn if you stay in st maarten more than 2 days, if you repeat with a girl, she will assume that she is your "girlfriend". And the more you repeat, the more angry she will be if you go with another girl. This is not love and jealousy, it is pride, respect, ownership, and status in the brothel. If you come to the bar and you take another girl, because "your" girl is gone, she will know about it and be angry. This makes no rational sense - she goes with lots of guys! But it is a fact. And your 150% GFE will turn into a cold fish. And it lowers your overall reputation in the club with all the girls.
Of course you can always rotate through a number of girls and never repeat with the same one. That is a safe approach that I have used and it works (as long as you remember who you went with last time and be sure to nicely say later - "mas tardes" - the next time).
However, I like having a regular. I like seeing what happens over time. I like the guaranteed GFE. I now have a new strategy for me to have both the regular girl, plus sample new girls at the same club. It is very simple: I ask the girlfriend for permission to take the other girl! Of course I do this while publicly continuing to pay the most attention to my regular amiga. And I use a euphemism ("Gloria is very stressed and tense; she needs a massage. Is it okay if I give her a massage?"). The issue is pride and respect, not love and money.
My new strategy worked like a charm. Juliana said no problem. And Gloria did badly need a massage, so I gave her one. It was very professional, but of course we were both naked. And after relaxing her from neck to feet, I stradled her butt and did a finishing, more gentle massage to her back and neck and temples. At which point my dick had recovered from Juliana and started to rub itself gently in her butt cheeks, which then moved themselves up and down my dick. Honest, we had nothing to do with it!
From the back, Gloria had a body to match her beautiful face. Long firm legs, smooth skin, just enough butt to be interesting, but not too much. She reached her hand around to her butt and started stroking me harder.
I turned her over and stared deep into her eyes. I was really into romantic attitude on this day. I fantasized about taking this relaxed beauty and making her excited and stressed again! (Factual aside: from the front, Gloria has a young girl's body and hips, with small breasts which are pushed up by a special bra in the bar. around her waist is a little belly - not flat and fit - typical latina problem.)
Although we were officially in the room only for a massage and 25 minutes had already passed, we appeared to be moving forward to sex as well. I gently massaged her front, but not the breasts or pussy. Then massaged her temples and kissed her around the neck and face and lips. At this point she started to go into her standard room routine, reaching for the condom, and starting a cbj. Sometimes I ask for bbbj at this point, but today I didn't. Instead I encouraged her to lick by balls. Then pulled her up for some kissing and caresses. At which point I went down on her. I told her the massage of her back was duro (firm), but this massage would need to be suave (soft). (Factual aside: I figure that working girls get way too much pounding and grabbing and rubbing of the pussy and breasts, so you need to be even more gentle in that area than you do with regular girls. I am talking about super gentle.) I started by just lightly licking with the tip of my tongue on either side of the pussy, then gently up and down the inside of the outer lips, and finally a light lick of the clit. Slowly. Softly. Nothing strong and lustful that demands that she pretend to be turned on.
I feel her involuntarily start to slightly move her hips and to press into my tongue, so I put my upper lip firmly on her clit, brushing from side to side, while I continue the very soft licking with my tongue. After that, it was not quite so gentle! (Factual aside: this doesn't work on all chicas - many can turn off their responses completely. in that case, there is no point in prolonging the process, nor in abrubtly ending it in disgust - let her pretend to be turned on for 10 seconds, then move on). Gloria got very turned on - whether she orgasmed several times, or not at all, she enjoyed it and we continued for a long time.
She knelt between my legs and resumed the cbj, but better this time. She mounted me in cowgirl and we had some nice sex. Switched to missionary. I stopped to take a breath and she asked why no leche for her. I told her the condoms are a problem and that I usually use my own durex avantis. She said let's try again. So I switched to my condom and she got me hard again with a standing cbj. The sex felt even better with the avanti, but i wasn't going to climax again so soon after juliana unless we went bareback.
We ended the 60 minute session affectionately - I dropped $80 on the dresser and walked her back to the bar. I immediately went back to Juliana and gave her a hug and a kiss. Gloria came over too, since they are roommates. But Gloria came up with an excuse to leave for lunch with just a kiss on my cheek. Left the two of us alone. Got to show respect.
Here is the odd ending to this experiment. In the past, Juliana has been a bit reticant about talking about her personal life. Didn't volunteer information or get involved in long conversations with me as some girls do. Now that she had sent me off to massage her roommate, something had changed. She was less reserved, told me about the tuition cost for private schools, about football school for her children on the weekends, etc. Perhaps she was always worried that I would dump her, so she couldn't totally relax. Now I had done the natural male thing (wandering to another woman), but without disrespecting her. We had another drink and a long chat. Then I said goodbye and headed for Carolina Bar.
P.S. The lineup at Seamans is new and improved. Very nice looking girls everywhere. How could I have thought that my pitiful experience in the USA was even close?
Carolina
I met up with sxmperson at the bar, having to fend off 5 chicas in the 10 minutes before he showed up. We had a great chat about girls and st maarten and life. My favorite Kenney (rm 14, aka Shakira in the bar) finally found me and rescued me from another chica. However, as with the aborted ISG meeting at Carolina a while back, it is hard for us men to concentrate on each other when there are cute girls around.
Kenney leaves for home on feb 28, and it was too noisy in the bar to talk, so we went back to her room. Her roommate little Tatiana has already left, so she is alone in the room (nice, no time deadline).
Kenney also got an mp3 player from me, and was even more lovable than in the past. Her room was full of valentine gifts (big stuffed animals, lots of roses, etc.). In Juliana and Gloria's room the only gift was a small one from the boss of Seamans! although kenney is not a classic beauty, she is really affectionate, a true GFE. Long curly, dark hair, diamond in the side of her nose. I am not surprised that many guys want to be her valentine.
We started with me giving her a massage, in fact, she handed me the massage oil and stretched out on her belly. (vanessa told sxmperson that I would be in the room with kenney a long time, since I always give her a massage - these girls know everything!) Kenney wasn't really tight, compared to Gloria, so I spread my attention over her entire body, trying to get every spot to feel good.
Some nice kissing, then bbbj - longer and more loving than ever before. then she slipped on my avanti condom and mounted in cowgirl. in previous encounters, I would have done daty, but today we just moved from massage to kissing to bj to fs and skipped that phase. So whatever sexual stimulation she had came from the massage and the kisses and rubbing her pussy on my calf while she gave me a bj.
What happened next with Kenney has never happened with a chica before. After Kenney mounted me, she basically fucked me ferociously until she had what appeared to be a major orgasm, then collapsed on my chest. no concern for me or my feelings at all! (factual aside: she could have been faking, but later i was fingering her pussy and it was still completely engorged and wet. besides which she didn't do any of the standard fake orgasm things that chicas do.)
We continued with sex and fun for another 45 minutes (total about 90 minutes), after which we returned to the bar for a cold bottle of water and to get her email address. The bar was empty of girls, as it was now their break time (330pm to 8pm). Kenney went outside to pick up her dinner delivery from the colombian guy who provides home cooking to the girls, and I gathered my stuff and gave her a kiss on the way out.
p.s. the line up at Carolina is new and better looking than ever. once again better than seamans, but only by a bit. try both.
Defiance
I still have some time 80 minutes left, so decide to check the girls at Defiance bar. This place is located at the top of the hill on the road that runs past seamans club. as you reach the summit, you will see a car wash on the left. slow down. you will come to be big arched entryway on the right, turn in. there is a nice snack bar on the left (i ordered a chicken sandwich - el sandwiche pollo, por favor) and defiance is the bar on the right. there is no sign. it is quiet in the afternoons, but there are plenty of girls around. be patient. you can even go back in the rooms and ask around. and there is no time limit or bar fee. and no air conditioning, so winter is better than summer!
I shook hands the bartender, ordered a coke, and had a short chat. she remembered me because I gave her a music cd last year. so i gave her another cd of salsa music. by the way, they play better music in this bar during the day time than in the other 2 bars.
I checked out the talent as I walked in and around the bar and there are some nice looking colombian girls at defiance now. not quite up to carolinas, but perhaps it is just that the carolina bar is dark and defiance is bright during the daytime, and the girls at defiance are in their casual afternoon clothing, while the carolina girls dress sexy for the afternoon. there are other advantages to this bar: there are almost no customers in the day time! so you get a lot of looks from the girls. in the past the lineup has been mainly dominicanas, but now it appears to be mainly colombianas.
an attractive black girl caught my eye across the bar and came up to greet me. I returned the greeting and gave her a hug. She was fit, with a large rack (implants). She was from Cali, Colombia. What I liked about her was that she had her hair in pig tails!!
after some chit chat and a drink, i thought my sandwich would be ready, so I took her over to the snack bar and got my sandwich. by now I had decided that I would sample this dark honey, so I only took a couple of bites of food and fed her a couple of fries. Then off to the room, passing a beautiful slim light-colored girl at the bar that I will try to meet next time (when? once a day would not be often enough, and once a week or so is painful!)
In the room (#211), I continued my fantastic fantasies: this dark beauty has only been in st maarten for 5 days and I shall be her first beautiful experience! Another massage, another daty (factual aside: the giant implants are a bit of a turn off for me. at the start I showed her that I had my own condon and she held it in her hand the whole time, waiting to slip it on at the first opportunity.) when we finally shifted to bj, she pulled out the condom and I asked her nicely, "sin condon, por favor, mi amor. mi gusto mucho." she proceeded to a bbbj, which she was a little nervous about, but made up for it with the best ball licking that i have had in a long time. world class.
we spent about 45 minutes and i left her the standard $40 (in her shoe) and my sandwich. I returned to the bar and sat down to chat with 3 cute girls, all with braces! they immediately proposed 3 girls for 1 guy - business was very slow. I laughed and started to talk to them. my dark girl returned to the bar, waved and disappeared. what is cute is that as soon as i exchanged 3 sentences in a row with the girl closest to me, the other two disappeared. she was from baranquilla, very simpatico eyes, pretty face, another enhanced chest. but I only have 15 minutes left. i spent them talking to her and looking deep into her eyes. finally, gave her a cd by andrea bocelli (very romantic) and said adios.
It is SO GOOD TO BE BACK IN SXM!
-zing
p.s. some of the experiences in this report require a little bit of spanish, but not that much.