Women Are The Same World Wide
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]D Etat, of course North American and Western European women are more independent in general than women in many other parts of the world because they have more opportunities to earn their own money. Given that fact, why are we picking up the tab for dinner, drinks and entertainment when dating American women? I find this disturbing. If a woman is truly independent and pulls her own weight she shouldn’t be expecting a man to pay her way, especially when they’re just getting to know each other. American women are usually able to pull their own weight but they seldom want to. For men who date upper and upper middle class women opinions may differ. Furthermore, I’d venture to say that Swedish women are far more independent than most American women. In Sweden a man isn’t expected to pay for a woman’s meals and drinks on a date.
I’ve never met a woman that liked a broke man, be it in the US or elsewhere. They always seem to need your money or want your money. At least the foreigners are nicer when they take your money and are less likely to act like it is their right to do so because they were born with a pussy.
I really don’t know why guys would like financially dependent women. Most men don’t like the idea of leeches. Some guys are traditionalists and like the idea of a stay-at-home wife. Personally, I don’t want anyone to stick around just because they need my financial support. If they have the option to leave at least I could be reasonably sure of their affections.
Some foreign women have a lot of ambition and show incredible entrepreneurial spirit once they get a little money. I’m sure that there are foreign women out there that stick with men even when they don’t need their money. Many educated professional immigrant women remain with their older unattractive lower middle class husbands in the US even when they can easily trade up.[/QUOTE]
Women are the same the world over the only thing that seperates them is those who have and those who have not....I lived in Japan and South Korea worked in Dubai, where hordes of independent women lived and they could be just as vindictive as their American sisters. Like I said the real problem most guys have with American women I think is their non-compliance...Guys love places like Thailand because A girl will screw them for 1000 baht...
I agree with everything that Chocha Monger and George90 has to say.
I agree with everything that Chocha Monger and George90 has to say. Foreign women are just something else - nothing compared to AW. Although, in all fairness, you do find a lot of women abroad with the AW mentality / syndrome (unfortunately, McDonald's hasn't been the only thing that globalization has taken elsewhere......) but it still doesn't compare with what you find here in pussy prison USA. And also, for the most part, those women
you meet abroad who have such "princess complexes" tend to be those who have either traveled to or have lived in (for x amount of time) in the U.S. and/or other rich countries. But for the most part, fortunately for us, they tend to be in the minority of numbers.
Before, I used to feel like a big loser for not being able to land an AW or an Americanized woman (which more often than not, turn out to be the same - in some instances, they even outdo AW themselves). But now, I am as content as I can be with my novia in Colombia. Sure, long distance relationships are not necessarily the best ones, but I don't mind saving my hard-earned $$ (money that I would be otherwise throwing away trying to date AW/Americanized women) with the hopes of returning to see and be with her as soon as possible. Hell, I have even considered the idea of living abroad altogether.
What do you fellas think? Would you be able to live abroad, even with very little $$$ but being in a position where coming around to women is not such an impossible thing to do?
Would you give up (at least temporarily) the pursuit of materialistic possessions in chase of the American Dream to be elsewhere with perhaps (but hopefully not) little money and/or materialistic wealth?
Would you be willing and/or able to trade one thing for another?
Could having things be more important than being able to have women (and beautiful ones, to punt) who actually value you for who you are?
And also, in a way, even if you were to be a man of means, why would you want to risk spoiling things abroad for the rest of us by throwing your $$$ around? Maybe living overseas with enough to get by in terms of everything (action, fun, love, etc...) would not be such a bad idea - especially since it would allow you to more truthfully know who really means it when they say to you "te quiero mucho, papi".
Just my two-cents worth. Peace out!!!!!
Love Lessons from Sex and the City
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Real Relationship With An Asian...
[QUOTE=George90]You are correct about AWs, but I feel you are WAY off base about foreign women and regarding "pulling one's own weight". One can contribute to a relationship in ways that are NOT financial. That said, I wager that you have never been in a serious relationship with a Latin or Asian woman.
I have many friends who are married to Colombian women. I seriously dated a Colombiana for over a year. What these women contribute in terms of cooking, cleaning, and keeping house I feel FAR outweighs what most non-professional women, and maybe some professional women, can earn and bring into the household. As one guy told me when his then fiancee (now wife) arrived in the US for a visit; there is clean and then there is 'Latina clean'. He said he cleaned up his house from top to bottom to make a good impression. His wife re-cleaned it from inside out. She found dirt that he didn't know existed. All he could say was 'Daaayyyyuummmm!'
I have no problem financially supporting a woman who keeps our home like that!
Also, do you prefer tasty home cooked meals or frozen dinners?[/QUOTE]
I been dating a Japanese-Filipina last two years mayne and known her for four. She is everything what you just described above she was working when I met her I told her to chill on the work as I earn enough....She was reluctant but gave in...