[QUOTE=D Etat]Nah no problems mayne... your answer was on point as usual and I am just asking because on this thread a lot of you guys seem to be against marriage. Maybe just marriage to an American lady. I been there and done that already and frankly I am in no hurry to have a repeat. I been in a LTR for the last two years and its been great but my girl is Asian (From Asia) but I fear I must leave PI sooner then later as living her and trying to be faithful is like trying to stay warm in the arctic....anyway man go for what you know also when guys reach a certain age I think they start looking to settle down. Me I in my late 20s so I still just enjoying this ride...
My thoughts on marriage is that overall its just not a good deal. If you love someone or want to be with them a piece of paper is not going change that. What that paper will do though is financially and legally bound you that person and when she turns from a Stepford wife into a mean version of Rosie O'donnel then you go through $1000 worth of hell to get away from her. Speaking from experience playboy....[/QUOTE]
I would prefer to be single than linked up to some horror show. My ex would have been ideal actually, I was just tired of looking at her really, cute but not eye candy and I feel I can get a little bit of eye candy and that's not too much to ask IMHO.
My advice is IF your going to get married, make sure the girl is sprung on you bad.
My ex was sprung pretty bad, I did my fair share of fucking up, though never offically cheating on her, I did get caught speaking online with somebody else and got caught being on AOL when I said I would cancel my account...
She never slept in another room, never threathen to kill me or throw things at me. She would be mad for about 24 hours and I would be fucking her the next day...
She was content, maybe felt I spent too much time online but other than that, we went places when money allowed, visited her parents every other month in Arizona and generally I rate it a A- as far as relationships go and I hardly had to put any thought into what I was doing. I had freedom to chill with the boys, I could fairly come and go when I wanted too, within reason, its was almost ideal.
Now if I can find somebody slightly better looking with more sex appeal with all the same mental features my ex had, that would be the woman I would marry.
I found better looking and worst looking women since, but I don't regret letting her go, it will just take a better effort from me to dig deeper. I ulimately feel overseas will get me closer to what I want, than wading through American women or even Westernized EE women already in Los Angeles (already been down that route..).