Warning - Equitable Paternity
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N.Y. High Court Says Mistaken Avowal of Fatherhood Imposes an 'Equitable Paternity'
"With this decision, this Court supports a public policy that says a man should never take on a parental role unless he wants to be unconditionally responsible for the child's financial support," Judge Bundy Smith wrote.
NY High Court Ruling an Outrage!
"'COMPLETELY INNOCENT'
The dissenters objected to the application of estoppel against a "completely innocent litigant" who was misled by the child's mother. They noted that the woman swore in Family Court that she had not had sexual relations during the relevant time span with anyone other than Mark, an assertion that DNA analysis proved was a lie.
They said the decision rewards people who make no effort to nurture or support a child who may be their own while penalizing people like Mark who immediately assumed responsibility.
"With this decision, this Court supports a public policy that says a man should never take on a parental role unless he wants to be unconditionally responsible for the child's financial support," Judge Bundy Smith wrote.
Judges Smith and Bundy Smith concluded that it could not serve the child's best interests "to have an order of filiation declare respondent to be her father, a man, who in addition to having no biological tie, has no interest in continuing a relationship with her or her mother." "
The above is the dissenting judges' opinion. Guys, you've been warned. If you're an American resident dating a woman with kids even in a foreign country, don't lift a finger to help them. Sounds heartless, but no good deed goes unpunished in today's perverse culture. He boinked this chick a couple times and then gave her pregnancy money and after the birth signed a few papers to help them come here, believing her lies on paternity. No surprise that all four women on the high court ruled against this poor guy. He deserves restitution and a medal, not a bill for retroactive support of $13,000!
If you know it's not yours, keep your distance and render no assistance unless you don't mind being financially chained until the kid is 18 or 21.
If you're told it's yours, demand a DNA test.
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Love, Lust, Marriage... A comparison
love, lust, marriage... a comparison
----> love - when your eyes meet across a crowded room.
lust - when your tongues meet across a crowded room.
marriage - when you try to lose your spouse in a crowded room.
----> love - when intercourse is called "makin love".
lust - when intercourse is called "screwing."
marriage - when intercourse is a town in pennsylvania.
----> love - when you argue over how many children to have.
lust - when you argue over who gets the wet spot.
marriage - when you argue over whose idea it was to have kids.
----> love - when you share everything you own.
lust - when you steal everything they own.
marriage - when the bank owns everything.
----> love - when it doesn't matter if you don't climax.
lust - when the relationship is over if you don't climax.
marriage - when...uh...what's a climax?
----> love - when you phone each other just to say, "hi."
lust - when you phone each other to pick a hotel room.
marriage - when you phone each other to ***** about work.
----> love - when you write poems about your partner.
lust - when all you write is your phone number.
marriage - when all you write is checks.
----> love - when your only concern is for your partner's feelings.
lust - when your only concern is to find a room with mirrors all around.
marriage - when you're only concern as to what's on tv.
----> love - when you are proud to be seen in public with your partner.
lust - when you only see each other naked.
marriage - when you never see each other awake.
----> love - when your heart flutters every time you see them.
lust - when your groin twitches every time you see them.
marriage - when your wallet empties every time you see them.
----> love - when all the songs on the radio describe exactly how you feel.
lust - when the song on the radio determines how you do it.
marriage - when you listen to talk radio.
----> love - when breaking up is something you try not to think about.
lust - when staying together is something you try not to think about.
marriage - when just getting through the day is your only thought.
----> love - when you're only interested in doing things with your partner.
lust - when you're only interested in doing things to your partner.
marriage - when you're only interested in your golf score.
----> love - when a rainy day means more time to stay inside and talk.
lust - when a rainy day means more time to stay inside and have sex.
marriage - when a rainy day means it's time to clean the basement.
----> love - you only leave the house to buy coffee and doughnuts.
lust - you only leave the house to buy condoms and vaseline.
marriage - you only leave the house when you're allowed.
----> love - when you take a bubble bath together.
lust - when you take a bath in jell-o together.
marriage - when you give the kids a bath.
----> love - a romantic candlelight dinner for two.
lust - "do i have to buy you dinner first?".
marriage - 4 happy meals...to go .
----> love - giving your love some candy.
lust - thinking you are the candy.
marriage - scraping candy off of the carpet.
----> love - a night out at the symphony.
lust - a night out at the ramada inn.
marriage - a night out at sesame street on ice.
----> love - lending your jacket to your love when he/she is cold.
lust - "i can think of a way to stay warm..."
marriage - your teenager just took your jacket.
----> love - talking and cuddling.
lust - rolling over and falling asleep.
marriage - getting up to wash your hands...
----> love - long drives through the countryside.
lust - long parking sessions at lover's lookout.
marriage - long drives with the kids screaming in the back-seat.
----> love - sex every night.
lust - sex 5 times a night.
marriage - sex ?
Ridiculous Case, Ridiculous Country
It's funny how the court of appeals ruled that,
"The potential damage to a child's psyche caused by suddenly ending established parental support need only be stated to be appreciated. Cutting off that support, whether emotional or financial, may leave the child in a worse position than if that support had never been given"
But doesn't consider this when they take parents out of the home and throw them in jail. How damaging is that? Furthermore, it seems that good decent honest people don't get rewarded in this country. If you step up to the plate and try to do the right thing, you're penalized. But in defense of the "System" it's no different than in a boxing ring, the referee tells fighters to protect themselves at all times and that's what men have to understand. That ***** you're sticking your member in has NO compunction about sacrificing you to serve her needs.
I think men are given one message about women and women are given an entirely different message-there in lies the problem. If men were told that the Eve story in the bible is as about as far as you need to look to know the true nature of a woman, perhaps we wouldn't be in this mess. Keep a foot on their necks at all times, otherwise she'll attack.
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