Hmm,
I'm not sure about the top 5, but I've had _excellent_ luck in San Diego....but, alas, I'm stuck on the East Coast (Southeast, to be exact). Compared to where I lived in California, it's a huge let-down.
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Hmm,
I'm not sure about the top 5, but I've had _excellent_ luck in San Diego....but, alas, I'm stuck on the East Coast (Southeast, to be exact). Compared to where I lived in California, it's a huge let-down.
KingArthurad
Dude, your assessment about this chick Elizabeth was right on the money! By now she's accumulated some years into her 30's and I don't see her chances of landing her dream man improving in the slightest.
Regarding your comment: "They think they're hot stuff, but their power is brief. At age 30 their chances of landing their ideal mate go down 70-80%. In my experience I find it too difficult to go after the beautiful and educated/intelligent/money girls. If your looks are average, it's much easier to go after the beautiful, poor, uneducated ones." BULLSEYE, my brother!
Life may not be fair but in this sense, vengeance is sweet: an older GUY with some cash is gonna make out like a relative bandit with the younger opposite sex MORE SO on average than an older woman in the same circumstance. I remember watching the show "Frasier" and he was talking to his coworker Roz about this same situation and he uttered a line that I think is a classic; "I don't make the rules, Roz, I only ENJOY THEM!"
For a man I think, men generally have more time to choose a mate than a female. Men usuall don't lose their looks and appearance that easily. Sometimes thinning hair is a problem or gain in weight but these problems are easily corrected these days with the medical technology available. Look at Hollywood, most of the top actors are in their late 30's to early 40's and many have active careers into their 50's. This doesn't hold up for actresses as most remain in demand only in their 20's and their careers tend to go downhill when they turn 30ish. So even is this day and age of feminism, it is still good to be a guy. Women unlike men tend to find maturity in the opposite sex attractive. I've actually spoken to a number of women in their 20's who want a guy who is well behaved, emotionally mature, and stable and most 20somethings are usually the opposite, basically someone who can take care of them. This is also coming from my own experience as my fiancee is nearly 10 years younger than me.
What do women want in a man, or in general, for that matter? I think the person who has the answer to that question would have to be a true genius.
CBGB, you mentioned baldness - I've met dozens of women who get really turned on by bald guys. I knew a guy in high school who had thinning hair before he was 18. Bumped into him a couple times when I was in college (he was at a different school), by the time he was 20, he was completely bald on the top of his head and he always had at least one good looking girl hanging on his arm.
Back to the college days, my own experience back then was almost always with older women (usually 10-15 years older than myself). The girls my own age were generally interested in older guys for a couple of reasons:
1. the older guys had money, where the young guys generally did not, so they could go to a nice restaurant, night club or take trips with the old guy, not with the young guys who generally didn't have enough money to pay their rent.
2. sex drive - young guys (late teens to mid twenties) are horny all the time & can generally get off 5 or 6 times a night (speaking of my own experience here, don't know about the rest of the guys) - this scares the hell out of most (American) girls the same age, while older men tend to have a bit more control on their sex drive (more in sync with the young ladies). The sex drive of the older women, however seems to increase - they're generally happy to have a partner who's ready & willing to go at it all night, while their younger counter parts want to hurry up and get it over with.
The few girls my own age that I got up with while I was in college seemed to be really up tight, needed a hell of a lot more foreplay than their elder counterparts & only interested in allowing me to get my rocks off once - if I was really lucky, they would allow me a second round.
American society frowns on all of this, of course. It's scandalous for an older woman to date a younger man. While it used to be common (even encouraged) for older men to date younger women (and be socially acceptable), this has been increasingly frowned upon for the last 20 years or so. What ever happenned to "if it feels good, do it"?
CW
I think every guy here in Us should vow NOt to date or even flirt with fat chicks. I think we are too nice to fat chicks in this country. Be rude to fat chicks, you are doing a favor to your bros here!
In the US, we men deserve the women we get. Most women in my company are too fat, assexual slobs and have no sense of how to dress. I am often shocked these women are married to guys who pretty much are also fat slobs. It is enough to make me want to live in Europe.
Bakuram,
I here you man, I wish is was that easy here in the USA. The problem is you go out and every girl is semi-fat, or obese in the bars. That puts us guys in a tough situation--if you want a little action. Suddenly your being nice to semi-fat girls. My strategy is to have five or six beers, then kick the semi-fat blimp out of my room at 4:00am before I sober up.
Yeah it is a sad situation here in the USA.
By the way, what USA cities do you guys find most favorable to chasing non-pros. San Diego?
Thanks,
NB
New Bound,
I think all the guys here should lobby so that prostitution becomes legal. The price getting sex will go down. Consequently, we wouldn't have to hook up /flirt/buy drink to fatties. If we can always give those fatties cold shoulder, they will have to go back to the gym to trim those extra.
I think the key is: mongring has to be legal and cheap. But there are a lot of feminist bithched (or dickless guys who support these bitches) who will go against that. The law in this country is extremely discriminative AGAINST men. That is a sad story.
I think NYC might be better to get some free ass. A lot of sigle, and a lot of competition for girls too.
One more think that I must mention: there are a lot of dilusional girls in this country. I have met so many chicks in my life who need to lose at least 5-15 pounds, but think they are too hot for anybody to even approach them. If a really hot (thin) chick has an attitude, I dont like it, but I can see where she is coming from. But attitude from the chicks who has some extra in them is simply UNACCEPTABLE. This is definitly not the case in europe. SAD!
That is why there is a thing called a mail order bride service, many services can allow a client to matchmake with thousands of potential candidates. Some of the services I have seen abroad particularly in Europe and Australia are quite good. I knew an overweight German electrician whose buttcrack constantly showed when he knelt down, his wife is an absolute gorgeous Czech that is playboy quality, he met her through some service in Europe. An American guy with this type of profile would sadly be only masturbating to the Czech woman's image in a porno mag.
I am on the way to file a divorce with my wife. She is too dominate. And I am the one who fed the family. We had agreement with money and the kids. Do you guys know how much will it cost of this easy case?
Thanks for your help,
Pak
Quote by Bakuram:
"I think all the guys here should lobby so that prostitution becomes legal. The price getting sex will go down. Consequently, we wouldn't have to hook up /flirt/buy drink to fatties"
You sort of touched upon my theory as to why most (Western) women are so vehemently anti-prostitution. You see, their vaginas are pretty much a form of currency/leveraging tool for them, and they know it. If it were suddenly possible for a man to "get some" on demand, without the games or without jumping through hoops, then the value of that "vaginal currency" declines; the "leveraging tool" between her legs loses at least some power. In short, pussy for hire pretty much fucks the game up for the (manipulative) non-pros.
In fact, I dare to suggest that legalized activities may cause an eventual wholesale shift in attitudes of the manipulative sex; think about it- if they wanted to keep our attention in such an enviroment, they would have no choice but to abandon their games. Ironically, the prostitute becomes SERIOUS competition for the Western Female swine.
Reminds me of a saying I once heard from a friend: "women act the way they do because they're the ones with all the pussy".
I couldn't agree more.
Smut Villain,
your quote reminds me of a similar saying a guy told me 20 years ago. He said: "Dude, women have HALF the money and ALL the pussy!" It was utterly enlightening and hilarious to hear him say that! "Half" being the minimal amount of money that they TAKE after becoming the warden in the matrimonial prison.
About a couple years ago, I started to see (metaphorically) that women's "currency" is their looks and their "two-lipped" commodity. What they don't see while they recklessly wield their power without thought of consequence, is that their currency is time-based and loses its value as the days pass. When the time comes for them to decide to settle down and finally act civilzed, they find that their currency is nowhere NEAR in demand as it was when they gleefully abused that power like an insane potentate. I then saw it as Karma. Said chick is now bitter because things don't go her way as she has been used to having and blames those (men in general) who she fucked over in the past. American Women, the Universe is circular and those heartless, evil actions which you set forth to satisfy your ego and to make yourself look good in front of your friends has now returned as a Karmic (is that a word?) credit card bill which you MUST PAY.
MEN'S currency (thankfully) is CURRENCY and the perceived attributes that come with it. That currency will ALWAYS outlast a woman's currency and I'll be the FIRST to be thankful for THAT.
Pak, my man, I'm sorry to say that your soon-to-be-ex is gonna do her damnedest to make you grab your ankles! What with dickless politicians and the biased court system, they're gonna AUTOMATICALLY assume that SHE is the more appropriate caregiver and that YOU have BAGS of money to provide for your kids and her soon-to-be (RELATIVELY) extravagant lifestyle subsidized by YOU. You should listen to guys like Dickhead (first time I ever praised him, I believe, and possibly long overdue), CBGB and others I haven't mentioned.
Thanks Sinanju :
After 12 years getting together with my wife. I know my soon-to-be-ex won't make my life miserable. We just don't get along well. And not talk often. We agree to keep the house myself, I will give her an apartment in China. After that $1200USD/month. Which is not difficult for me and they can maintain above average life there(a nany 800RMB/month).
Thanks much for your kind and suggestion.
Pak
GPS = GOLDEN PUSSY SYNDROME.