waiting 'til it's too late
Tyhigs77,
you brought up a point I made quite a while ago about younger AW's. During their more attractive years, they become aware of their attractiveness and sexual powers and abuse those powers like there's no tomorrow. After all, earning another notch (broken heart, "used" schlup, or financial sucker) is a testament to how hot she is and feeds her ego like an engineer feeding a ravenous coal-burning train of yesteryear. This outrageous behavior gives rise to two outcomes: 1] as she grows older, she now realizes that she has YOUNGER COMPETITION! "Food" is now becoming more scarce, and she has to "hunt" for easier, although possibly LESS ATTRACTIVE prey/suckers. 2] There is almost NO guy out there that hasn't run into this type of barracuda, and therefore, REMEMBERS when this type of woman either MADE him a sucker or ATTEMPTED to. Instead of wisely using her powers in her younger years to couple with a guy who is marriageable material, she's left with a pool of undesirables (1] the bad boy who will NEVER commit and leave her as a single mother only to re-enter her life periodically to deposit MORE of his seed or 2] the spineless schlup who is so grateful to be with her that he takes her shit until he can take it no longer). Either way, her NOW-present choices are the result of a lack of foresight. THIS is the typical man-hating "bitter b*tch" in her 30's that you encounter. It's ALWAYS: "He was never enough THIS", "He was too much THAT". NEVER do you hear them say anything similar to: "I had to change my bahavior/outlook/expectations".