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[QUOTE=Lugalzaggizi;1331143]The Colombian woman texted me while I was in the movie theater, just two hours after meeting me. I was going to hedge the liaison with her by setting up an outing at the museum for next Sunday and refrain from any concupiscent overtures until the second date, if indeed she did agree to a second date. However, due to the fact that she texted and rather quickly at that I am going to change my game plan. I texted her for a date at Persepolis. I rarely ever get a woman to send the initial text, so for her forthrightness I am going treat her to a fine meal at a nice restaurant and then I am going to ask her if she would be interested in partaking in a concupiscent interlude in which I will do my best to satisfy her sexual desires. I am confident that she will except my overtures and if she doesn't then I will have enjoyed a scrumptious dinner with companionship. We can't have everything we want now can we. This is what I live for and prepare for. I am going for it.[/QUOTE]No need to lie, just say anything is possible at this point, and tell her to win you! :P If she's Colombian there's a good chance she will succeed too!!!
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[QUOTE=Lugalzaggizi;1327634]The Velvet List on Facebook is an effective way to effectuate sociosexual liaisons. Send out friend requests to women on the list that come up on your page. One can also hedge by sending friend requests to 25% of the friend suggestions that come up on your page and 75% of the women just a message in order to meet for a date. If you can get some to accept your friend request you now have their entire friend's list at your disposal. Your dating pool has now gone viral.[/QUOTE]I've never tried the velvet list (what is it?) but have always had a terrible time with USA girls on facebook. I've seriously sent out 45 messages to random girls in one day and not gotten a single response. I'm not old or bad looking by the way, but looking for girls on facebook these days is impossible. I blame the whole "creepy stalker" thing which is stupid because random guys at bars are totally 100% more dangerous.
I've actually given up on USA dating.Too much work for too few rewards.
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[QUOTE=Great Muta; 1332670]I've never tried the velvet list (what is it?) but have always had a terrible time with USA girls on facebook. I've seriously sent out 45 messages to random girls in one day and not gotten a single response. I'm not old or bad looking by the way, but looking for girls on facebook these days is impossible. I blame the whole "creepy stalker" thing which is stupid because random guys at bars are totally 100% more dangerous.
I've actually given up on USA dating. Too much work for too few rewards.[/QUOTE]In today's social makeup. It is definitely harder for the average guy to succeed with the "above avg" woman. 6+ and above. You have to think from their perspective.
6+ women are approached by guys (wealthy to poor). In person and social media. Their available choices have quadrupled. So now the "6" in a small town. Who in the pass, was only approach was limited to the local guys. Now gets Friends request from."wealthy" Ted from the big city. Who will fly her out, wine and dine her to get into the panties. Show her a night (no one or only a few) in her area can.
Just as you send out Friends request. So has the guy who lives in "bum fuck" Idaho. But with money to burn. Before FB he had to choose from his locals. Especially if he was not the "Rico swavvay" kinda guy. But now he can send FR to 6+ girls everywhere. With offers of weekend rendezvous to nice hotels on the beach. They even have that one site."Sugar Daddys". Just for these kind of guys. So if a woman is really the type who is going to respond to a FB approach. These are the type of guys and type of dates "Most" expect. So when they check out your site to decide whether to accept or not. It should reflect that.
But all in all. Social media has given 6+ women access to more guys willing to lavish them with dates and gifts. Its about the same as Guys going abroad for women. Only difference AW don't have to go abroad. Because. There is a large supply of men in the USA willing to lavish them. Social media just gave them a means of contact. So now there is a larger segment of 6+ women who don't even consider guys who don't treat them in this manner. Making the available pool of 6+ who will smaller and tougher to find for the average guy.
I too have changed my views on the matter. And can see why guys consider women outside of the USA. But I think much can be blamed on the USA culture itself. Where people put more value in "material" wealth than value in family. So women grow up with a "what can you do for me" attitude.
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I do really miss the old days. Back in the day before cell phones and the internet, if you were travelling or if she was travelling (or both of you) it was understood that a one night stand started and ended there. Now there's a whole bunch of expectations that you'll keep in touch and you can never move on. And people talked with each other because they REALLY wanted to, because reaching out to somebody else took more than zero effort, now people just talk with each other in a vain attempt to kill the boredom.
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[QUOTE=Bango Cheito;1333019]I do really miss the old days. Back in the day before cell phones and the internet, if you were travelling or if she was travelling (or both of you) it was understood that a one night stand started and ended there. Now there's a whole bunch of expectations that you'll keep in touch and you can never move on. And people talked with each other because they REALLY wanted to, because reaching out to somebody else took more than zero effort, now people just talk with each other in a vain attempt to kill the boredom.[/QUOTE]Well in my "old" days before cell phones and the internet there was the chat line. 976-GABB. It cost but I always had a hookup. Back in those days calling card numbers would circulate and if that didn't work you could always stick a safety pin into the mouthpiece of a pay phone and rub it on the silver part of the main box and voila, free call. It was always understood when you met one of those girls in person that fucking was mandatory. The internet became more widespread a few years after, giving way to chat rooms. These days if you bag a chicks number they never tell you to call. It's always "send me a text." WTF?
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My opinion
My opinion on american women is that they need security and want to get married and have kids. I came across with a few women who were trying to tell me no sex before marriage. LOL. And some wanted to fuck without condom and get kids asap. Its dangerous game out there for guys who don't understand american women thinkings. And the WOMEN worry about feminist rights and always talk about how men abuse women.
Nobody has ever raised questions about how manipulative these women can be. Guys get trapped badly and pay hefty penalty to get out including divorce settlement, child support when they did not wanted kids. Not to mention these once pretty chicks turn fat after marriage and don't want sex anymore.
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[QUOTE=Nsd1983;1333044]Not to mention these once pretty chicks turn fat after marriage and don't want sex anymore.[/QUOTE]This is the real issue and all that other shit is just noise.
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Amen
[QUOTE=Great Muta; 1332670]I've never tried the velvet list (what is it?) but have always had a terrible time with USA girls on facebook. I've seriously sent out 45 messages to random girls in one day and not gotten a single response. I'm not old or bad looking by the way, but looking for girls on facebook these days is impossible. I blame the whole "creepy stalker" thing which is stupid because random guys at bars are totally 100% more dangerous.
I've actually given up on USA dating. Too much work for too few rewards.[/QUOTE]Dating in the USA has very few rewards period. In New York unless you are a rich banker, business man, play for a major sports organization or have killer good looks, the average pretty girls (5) is out of your reach. They will allow you to spend lots of money on them and string you along but you may not even get to first base.
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That is why, with AW, on the third date I always talk about the hereafter. If you're not here after what I'm here after, you're going to be here after I'm gone.