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Mike12,
Again you hit the nail on the head. I remember when I was much younger, I thought that the greatest thing in the world would be to get married. (OK, guys, I know that comment drew a loud gasp from my brethren, especially those of you who know me as the Great "Ameri-basher" where females are concerned! Heh heh heh... Ameri-basher.... I like that. anyway, I hope that comment doesn't cause any of you to throw custard pies at me Three Stooges-style!) It was after I caught wind of this website and saw that the number of guys who are fed up with the BS of "WESTERNIZED" women are LEGION that I said to myself: "Hey, why would I wanna enter into a situation where I shell out a prince's ransom for a rock that I'll never own, WILLINGLY commit to a situation where I will metephorically SLAVE AWAY for the rest of my life while she would be allowed to sit on her ass (which would probably grow very large from a lack of exercise or meaningful work), be subject to the whims of a one-women pussy cartel, AND agree to give her HALF of all my worldly possessions and wealth, while the courts nod in agreement with a blank-eyed stare"? FUCK NO! If my investigative work determines that said chick has no integrity and wants to dig for gold, she's down the toilet qucker than a fresh stool sample!
(waiting for the barrage of custard pies...)
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Sinanju Master, Mike12, Cash Works, et al,
I've been wondering... with immigration, the internet, WTO, and other things going on in the 21st century, the world has gotten a lot smaller. You guys think that makes it easier for Western guys (such as ourselves) to see all the other options out there, and that Western women behave quite differently from their global counterparts? I know I would not have had these feelings of general disillusionment had I not practically traveled halfway around the world (thanks to my previous occupation); those travels showed me (up close and personally) that things with women don't have to be like this. I think every man should visit an "old-world" country at least once in his life, as it is quite the eye-opening experience (at least it was for me).
But enough about me; what do you guys think?
P.S. Sinanju, this isn't the ONLY website where Western men have vented about the lopsided dating scene; if you look further, you'll find that dudes are waking the fuck up all over the place and coming to pretty much the same conclusions.
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Sinanju Master,
Would love to get married if I could find the right chick without all the nonsense that goes with it. Tell my married friends they don't know the half about being single. Too many games to play and money to be spent on someone that don't appreciate it. Not to mention you don't know the chicks pedigree. Have seen married men get more play then single guys anyway. Women love married men.
At the convenience store near my house there is a pretty married indian lady I always chat up. New to the country. She likes that we talk about Indian food and her culture. Brings cooked food for me. Asked her if she had any sisters and she said I should go to India to meet Indian girls. Said they all like to make their husbands happy and cook for them. My point being is that I have alot of respect for her and would love to get a real women like her.
By the way, Sinanju is a small seaside village in N. Korea, you must know Chiun then!
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cbgb,
had the pleasure of escorting a scores stripper around town the other day. doing a favor for a friend. she is from another city. 22 years old, smokes like a chimney, tried to puff some weed in my car from the airport, feet all up on my dashboard, drinking like a fish. wanted to take stay in $500 a nite hotel suites for 4 nites because that's where britany spears stays at. told her to go to the china club, cbgb's, speed, etc etc. was getting the feeling she thought maybe she was doing me a favor by letting me pick her up and drive her around nyc like a chaperone. nice enough girl, just total turn off with the materialistic attitude and bad habits.
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smut,
i'm not entirely sure what your question is. if you're asking if i agree that americans should travel abroad i would have to say "hell yes". i had friends in college who were born and raised here in north carolina and had only been out of the state on one or two occasions. others who were a bit more "worldly" had made it as far as canada, mexico (either a border town for a couple hours or one of the resorts like cancun or cozumel) or if they were extremely well travelled, they had actually made it as far as western europe - once.
years ago, i was at the american consulate in lagos, nigeria to get some extra pages put in my passport. there was a group of highschool girls there for some reason, one was going on about all her travels (this was her second trip out of the us which apparently gave her status over the other tarts, most of whom had never left wherever they were from - great first trip - "welcome to nigeria, what do you have for me?"). when she was catching her breath, another girl asked what i was doing there i tossed my passport to her and said i needed more pages. the status chicks jaw dropped as they looked at all the stamps. if they weren't all ****d and highly chaperoned, i'm pretty sure i could have had my way with the lot.
with all this first hand knowledge of other cultures (actually, lack of knowledge), these people are somehow able to form opinions about the rest of the world and in some cases help make decisions about how our country deals with the rest of the world. it never ceases to amaze me how ignorant my learned neighbors can be.
i firmly believe that americans should get out of north america on a regular basis and actually see the world as it really is, not as it is portrayed by the network news. whether people travel for sex or for general educational purposes doesn't really make a difference. they just need to go and see the world so they can form their own opinions and not have to rely entirely on dan rather or peter jennings.
a brasillian once told me "america is hope, it is how the world might be in the future, europe is educational, it is where we can see the past, the rest of the world is sorrow because it is how it really is in the present". there are some flaws to this statement, but the general idea is that people need to travel, but don't limit yourself to the "tourist destinations".
enough ranting.
cw
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Mike12
The Village may be home, and it's a shitbox, but hey, it has 5,000 years of tradition! Little Father can be a pain in the ass, but he's family!
My first foray out of the country was involuntary. I was 11 years old and my old man was in the military and he was stationed in Panama (as in the Canal). I had the culture shock of my life (One English speaking channel that featured shows that were LITERALLY 20 years old, ONE English speaking radio station, and to make a long story short, no "luxuries" WHATSOEVER when comparing to the States). I didn't know it then, but I would later develop a travel bug that was insatiable, along with a curiosity of other cultures. I eventually traveled to England (5 times), Greece (three times), Belgium, Ireland, Mexico (OK it was in Juarez, so a border town doesn't really count, I guess), Spain, Germany (where I was stationed), and as mentioned before, the Republic of Panama. Maybe it was the "exotic" factor as mentioned in a previous post, but in all the years that I've traveled, I've only run into ONE rude woman outside these shores. Compare that to the lack of manners and mercenary attitude that I observe here in the US EVERY DAY, and you get a picture of my desire to flee these shores, only to return on occasion.
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Cash works,
Excellent rant. I could not agree more. IMHO 99.999% of Americans are wonderful people but just a bit myopic and totally ignorant about what the rest of the world is like. It is understandable, you never "need" to leave the US for anything, and the sheer size makes for almost every possible climate/landscape combination you could want to see. We need not explore the issue of geography education in the US but it certainly was pitiful 25 years ago.
Travel (any travel) is an education. It will make you appreciate things about your own country and open your eyes a bit as to how others see the world.
The ladies are just icing on the cake.
Cheers,
Sporadic
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Cash Works,
Sorry if my question was a bit "serpentine" in its logic, but the point I was trying to make was that (in the modern century), there are ways for men to find out about other cultures and ways of thinking - not to necessarily experience them (you still have to travel for that), but just finding out that alternative cultures (and women) actually exist out there which may not carry such a mercenary attitude toward males.
Other than that, I find that I agree 100% with your post, and I am glad that I had the chance for extensive travel myself.
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Based on the recent commentaries, I think you guys will enjoy the attached cartoon; I got a kick out of it.
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Sinanju Master,
It would be a better world to live in if everyone got some sort of exposure to other people and cultures. Too many Americans only go to Las Vegas, DisneyWorld, or the Grand Canyon, and lately you can't blame them with the terror scares and what not. When I lived in Germany my neighbors traveled to China and Africa in one year on two different vacations!
Here in NYC there are many different races and you can learn alot from them. It comes in handy to speak a little Chinese to the girl at the Chinese restaurant, have knowledge of Colombian cuisine to impress the Colombianas, and know that Dakar is the capitol of Senegal. It really goes a long way to impress the chicks if you know a little about their country. When I leave the state it's hard to believe the one-sided attitude people have in regards to other cultures.
Am watching "Single In the Hamptons" now on WE. These 2 sister / fashion designer / model types are going to an industry party and are talking about how it's really important to meet someone famous to date because that is the "key to it all." They want to go to Monaco and Punta Del Este because it is the #1 spot for the jetset. This other show "To Live and Date in New York" features women with a friend who refuses to settle for anything less than a Yankees ballplayer and will die trying to get one. Another chick plays the innocent role who cant find a man, and believe me this one has a sweet face and a J-LO bootie I would eat off of, and then you find out 4 episodes later that she only accepts men with MBA's.
Stay tuned.
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Sad state of affairs for guys living in NYC. But I always recommend to young fellas--TRAVEL-TRAVEL TRAVEL-.Just because you must work in an area with women of bad attitude. Does not mean you must except that, once one realizes other women of the world. He will be capable of ignoring the Bul S$%t of these American women.
I must say that women of the Mid-west and South are not as bad as the women from the West and North (calif. & NYC. ). But nothing compares to women of other lands.
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Actually you can really make out good here in NYC with the chicks if you have an open mind and a little bit of game. Alot of the American women that are here (longer than 3 years) forget how to be a female after a while. As a guy, why would you want a chick that can't even give you a decent sincere smile? Or that acts like you are the invisible man. I'm not feelin that, so I will move on to a girl that will do that for me. Most of them are from other countries and new to the US. The smile from the Peruvian girl in Mcdonalds is a thing of beauty. The big culo on the Dominicana gets me motivated! Forget about the assistant to the VP of marketing female who goes to London and chicago all the time with a swelled head. My point is that I am trying to wake up dudes that put up with the bs that there are other ways to succeed with the females besides materialism,drugs, money, being fake, and social status.
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I don't even deal with New York women nor American women period. All the media hoopla about US women is BULLSHIT, the typical American woman is not Jennifer Aniston and not Cindy Crawford. I have actually seen many everyday Elle McPhersons where I live. Fortunately I am 8000 miles away from New York in a sunny location in the South Pacific. I was at a beach this Sunday and came across this gorgeous 5'10' Australian blonde with a very skimply bikini, you would expect a woman like this to have a boyfriend like Brad Pitt, the dude she was with looked so lame looking, he almost looked like a cross between Gerard Depardiu and Mr. Bean. I have seen regular guys with some cute women here in Oz, bus drivers, waiters, construction workers, even unemployed dudes have girlfriends here.
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Mike12,
I feel where you're coming from, and I agree 100% with CBGB. All my friends go crazy over Penelope Cruz, Salma Hayek, Shakira, et al., but where I was living (in Mexico) I would see these on the street damn day! And what was great about it was that an average "Joe" actually had a chance with most of these girls (even if a small chance). Hell, I made out like Don Juan down there!
And, no, you _don't_ have to make $80K a year to do it.