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[QUOTE=Tyhigs77]I entirely disagree. It is nothing but making excuses for women based on their biology. Infact, if all this is true, it makes a good case for actually sending women back to the kitchen, because if they are only going to take education prospects and job opportunities away from men while still demanding men expend all of their resources on them, then what in the world is the purpose of having women work besides giving them the ability to say they did so?
Anyone who espouses the idea that women are excused for doing this has not read the books "Sexploytation" or "The Rantings of the Single Male." In reality it is not simply because women CAN get away with such things. It is because OUR ANGLO culture has trained them in how to do these things. No matter what anyone says, continental European women arent one half as bad as their American counterparts. It is because they werent taught the Victorian + Puritanical value system.
Germans dont go on "dates" to my knowledge and experience. That comes AFTER the relationship has begun (for example). In America, the date is an interview process where you prove how valuable you think the woman is by how much money you spend on her.
And this whole women are programmed to go for the most superior, i.e. richest bad boy in the pack, is a bunch of nonsense. Why? Because there are many species where the non-alpha males do infact reproduce. Our closest living relatives chimpanzees are one of them. The females routinely engage in sex involving multiple males of varying status.
Plus the advent of civilization pretty much means there is less need for the big bad male. Thats what guns, police, money, heating, oil, housing, etc take care of for us. Saying that women are just dumb instinctual animals programmed to go for the best of the best only gives them an excuse for being greedy bitches.
If women were just primitive, reptilian brains sitting inside a human body, then I'd agree with that assessment. But they're not. That's the reason why we gave them "equal rights" to begin with. Now if women are simply primitives, then we need to rescind all of those rights, because they arent entitled to any as primitive thinkers.[/QUOTE]
Can we nominate this "best of"?
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[QUOTE=George90]Your experience may have been a set-up to entrap you. If you had agreed I am sure you would have been not only fired but also arrested for solicitation. Your standards, but not your judgement, helped you escape this attempt. Expect more. I am convinced that you have enemies in your place of employment who are out to get you. You have been vocal in your disdain for AWs and they want their revenge! Be very careful!!
We should all take this a lesson to be discreet with our conviction that only foreign women are desirable enough for us. Do not advertise or brag that you don't date American women.[/QUOTE]
Actually, I've never voiced my disdain for American women on the job, believe me, I know better than to play with fire after being doused with gasoline. I make it a point to avoid discussing my personal life on any level at work to the point that my boss received complaints that I was being "cold and unfriendly". I told him that I felt questions regarding my marital status or dating circumstances from female workers were out of line. Anyway, he felt that they were just being "friendly" and pretty much ordered me to be more approachable to the females. Now, I seriously doubt a female in a similar situation would have been given those instructions.
Enemies. Every job has them but I think it's more along the lines of the women wanting piece of a single well paid guy's wallet more than anything else. Most of them are single mothers or just plain gold diggers out to get some easy money. There is really no big conspiracy there. The holidays are here and they need to shop and over extend their already heavily stressed credit. Obviously, they know getting some poor sucker into their web at this time of the year can prove quite lucrative.
I've had women that I have absolutely no involvement with beyond a professional basis volunteer that it was their birthday and then in the next breath inquire as to the whereabouts of the present that I am supposed to have for them.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]Actually, I've never voiced my disdain for American women on the job, believe me, I know better than to play with fire after being doused with gasoline. I make it a point to avoid discussing my personal life on any level at work to the point that my boss received complaints that I was being "cold and unfriendly". I told him that I felt questions regarding my marital status or dating circumstances from female workers were out of line. Anyway, he felt that they were just being "friendly" and pretty much ordered me to be more approachable to the females. Now, I seriously doubt a female in a similar situation would have been given those instructions.
Enemies. Every job has them but I think it's more along the lines of the women wanting piece of a single well paid guy's wallet more than anything else. Most of them are single mothers or just plain gold diggers out to get some easy money. There is really no big conspiracy there. The holidays are here and they need to shop and over extend their already heavily stressed credit. Obviously, they know getting some poor sucker into their web at this time of the year can prove quite lucrative.
I've had women that I have absolutely no involvement with beyond a professional basis volunteer that it was their birthday and then in the next breath inquire as to the whereabouts of the present that I am supposed to have for them.[/QUOTE]
Wow! I feel for you. Being ordered to "be friendly" to co-workers who are angling for gifts and money is rough. You should keep a written record of those types of orders/instructions. A good lawyer can twist it into a harassment lawsuit for you.
I think you a playing with fire by staying in that job with those co-workers and that boss. Can't you get a similar one in a more accomodating or at least more professional environment?
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George,
I have a contingency plan in place in the event that it becomes necessary to abandon ship. However, I've already worked out an arrangement with the boss which will allow me to travel on a fairly regular basis. Most jobs only allow 2 weeks vacation each year so jumping to one of those isn't very appealing. In the meanwhile, I just decline any female propositions on the job with a smile and some excuse about already being committed.
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If you really want to enjoy a foreign country
1) LEARN THE LANGUAGE
2) GO THERE
3) LEARN THE LANGUAGE SOME MORE.
Regardless if you wanna just pay for it or if you want to find a good girl or a one-night stand or a fuckbuddy or whatever, LEARN THE GODDAMN LANGUAGE. If you don't you are a fool. It is that simple.
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You are so right!!
Bango Cheito,
You are 100% correct!
I am taking Spanish classes every semester at my local college.
At work I am practicing with my Spanish speaking co-workers.
When I take trips down South, I try to talk with everyone I can from taxi drivers to people on the street.
They all are very supportive even when I mess the language up.
In a few years I will be living in Panama full time. I have already visted several Spanish schools in Panama City to see which one I like best.
Only a fool wouldn't try to learn as much as they could of the language where they plan to live.
Anyway, Spanish is fun to learn and speak. I'm not very happy with the situation with those verb's though!
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The only solution is to get out the US if things aren't working out for you. We are living in an era of globalization so it possible to live in a lot of places on Earth. If you live in a rich Western country like the US, Canada, Australia, etc. you have an advantage in terms of money to go to another place and have your money go a lot further in some other parts of the world.
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Globalization of Romance
[QUOTE=CBGBConnisur]The only solution is to get out the US if things aren't working out for you. We are living in an era of globalization so it possible to live in a lot of places on Earth. If you live in a rich Western country like the US, Canada, Australia, etc. you have an advantage in terms of money to go to another place and have your money go a lot further in some other parts of the world.[/QUOTE]
EXACTLY!!!! If you can't find the right woman for you in one country then go global! Look for her in another country.
International introduction agencies are available and easy to use for men who are so inclined. Some Latin oriented ones are Latin Social Network, My Latin Flame, My Latin Rose, My Foreign Bride, Latin Euro, Brazil Romance, Continental Romance, Cali Charm, All Colombian Girls, Latin Wife. There are many others to check out.
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George90 said: If you can't find the right woman for you in one country then go global! Look for her in another country.
Which is exactly what I did........ and it's being working out just fine.
A lot of guys don't seem to want to "take a chance" on a foreign woman. But I ask you, how does that chance compare to the one you take if you marry "the girl next door"?
Rock
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[QUOTE=George90]EXACTLY!!!! If you can't find the right woman for you in one country then go global! Look for her in another country.
International introduction agencies are available and easy to use for men who are so inclined. Some Latin oriented ones are Latin Social Network, My Latin Flame, My Latin Rose, My Foreign Bride, Latin Euro, Brazil Romance, Continental Romance, Cali Charm, All Colombian Girls, Latin Wife. There are many others to check out.[/QUOTE]
I had a slightly different idea, actually go to another part of the world and live there, its not as impossible as people think. I know a lot of people in other developed countries who spend time overseas. The cost of living in a lot of places is sharply lower than the United States, your money can go farther in a lot of places than it can at home. The world is becoming a more interesting and exciting place, its not all bad news that you hear on the network news.
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Men selling out Men
Excuse my French , lads, but I am SICK of this bullshit. This sellout is trying to make a buck smearing men, something I would expect from women. Where the hell are his nuts? In his wife's purse?
[url]http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/2/why-men-cheat[/url]
My last 4 girlfriends cheated on me. FOUR!!! And they all whined and cried about how they made a mistake and wanted me back. ALL of them. And before you say maybe it was me, no, it wasn't. Women of my generation have no sense of togetherness. It's ALL about THEM. Of all the women I know really well, many cheated on their men.
On another tangent, now comes Christmas, the most bias holiday besides Valentine's Day. "This year, get her that diamond to show her you really love her." "This year, get her that Lexus she has always dreamed about." Get her this, get her that, whilst we get boxers and a fucking tie or razor.
/rant off (for now)
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[QUOTE=Marak5]Any news on his big trip, or was it all a farce?[/QUOTE]
No farce and no joke. Just delayed...
My father passed away just after Thanksgiving and I have to take care of all of his affairs being the executor of his estate.
That's the bad news; I love and miss my father very much.
The good news is -
Me and my sister will split everything down the middle 50/50.
Some of which will get freed up in about 35 days from now and most of it inside of 90 days. We are still sorting things out...
But my tripped moved to late Jan is still planned and still going to happen, I just might have more money to play with than I originally thought.
That is your offical update Marak
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So you've come into money, huh? Hmmmm....did I ever tell you what sexy eyes you have, DJ? And how much I adore emeralds.... ;)
Just kidding. Figured the AW crowd would expect me to say something like that, me being a woman and all.
Hugs, kisses and my sincerest condolences to you and your family on the passing of your father, DJ. x
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[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney]No farce and no joke. Just delayed...
My father passed away just after Thanksgiving and I have to take care of all of his affairs being the executor of his estate.
That's the bad news; I love and miss my father very much.
The good news is -
Me and my sister will split everything down the middle 50/50.
Some of which will get freed up in about 35 days from now and most of it inside of 90 days. We are still sorting things out...
But my tripped moved to late Jan is still planned and still going to happen, I just might have more money to play with than I originally though
That is your offical update Marak[/QUOTE]
Bad news =(
Sorry to hear of your loss, my friend.
This trip will be well deserved by you.
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Farce?
I will again vouch for DJ-I did have a conversation with him where he displayed a high degree of knowledge about the air fare market across the pond.
Sorry about your Dad.
Best Regards,
"Bart"