The sugar-daddy lifestyle
A little more to add to my last post:
The "Ashley Madison" web-site is perhaps the best-known forum for sugar-babies ISO sugar-daddies. There are others, but it's a good example. What kind of girl subscribes? Some 'pretty young thing' who isn't adverse to having an older, well-to-do 'boyfriend' or 'patron' who will give her (typically) financial support, in exchange for her affections.
But, she rationalizes, she's not taking on just anybody. She wants "a man she can look up to," with some semblance of romance; and she's looking for longer-term support. It may not be as blatant as cash money; she may want someone to pay the rent for a nice apartment, in exchange for having a key to her door and "taking her out" a couple of times a week. She may frame it as "help" with her schooling tuition, or "gifts" of a nature that isn't necessarily cash money. She is looking to be "kept," and she sees herself as a "mistress" rather than an out-and-out ho.
Of course, a guy has to be pretty well-off (in the local economy) to play this game."Sugar-Daddy Bigbucks" had also be pretty-well settled on "Ashley," which I'll use instead of the classic "Little Annie Fanny," suits him enough for the long-term that he's willing to put her "on retainer" (as it's called when you hire a lawyer like this; I think it's also a 'polite' term for hiring a mistress).
This can be workable if you're living in the same city, where you do have plenty of opportunities to get together with "Ashley" for the evening or for an Afternoon Delight. If you live in a different city, it's more trouble and far less certain. If you live in the USA and she lives in the Third World, we call it "Western Union," with all that implies.
In some countries, you can get into a situation like this for a shorter term; where you meet up at a disco or pub,"hit it off," she comes back to the hotel with you, and both of you act like "you got lucky" in the "lust at first sight" mode. Next morning, you "give her a nice gift" and make plans to meet her that evening; you wine and dine her, same as you would a "regular girlfriend," your sex is more like "making love" than professional-style, and you may buy her pretty dresses and jewelry rather than just handing her a wad of currency. Of course, you still give her "cab fare home."
I actually like this pretty well. It salves my conscience, and hers; I like feeling like "a generous boyfriend" more than like "a trick"; it is more fun for me to "act romantic" ... my first lesson in Portuguese was learning the proper lyrics to "The Girl From Ipanema," so I could sing it to greet my new [i]carioca[/i] girlfriend when she showed up at the piano bar of my hotel (the Granados Park, in Asuncion) when she came in the door to meet me and my buddies. And it doesn't leave any long-term hurt, as long as I remember where she's going to be the night after my flight home: back in the "meet market" where I met her, looking for the next sugar-daddy. Western Union? Fuggetaboutit.
Thinking of putting a long distance ho on Western Union?
Don't! You'll get nothing back on your investment or very little at best. The thought of paying a retainer to reserve your very own little parking space in her pussy pen might sound very appealing, exclusive and trendy even. However, once you get past the euphoria you'll see it makes about as much sense as renting a seaside villa year round on some exotic Caribbean island hideaway while you reside in some frigid corner of North America. Sure you might actually get to visit and use the villa once or twice a year. The rest of the time you're not there strangers are entering and squatting in the villa you're paying maintenance and service fees on. Now compare that to paying for a really nice suite in an upscale hotel where you only pay for the nights you occupy it and for the amenities you use during your stay. It is a much better deal than the former arrangement isn't it?
Sending Western Union remittances to women over long distance will not make them any more loyal or less inclined to fuck others during your absence. Doing so puts you at risk for being financially exploited. If you want to see the same ho again then show her a good time when you're there. It will increase the odds of seeing her again. Save yourself the pain of sending money until your next annual vacation only to have her disappear or come up with some emergency reason for not being able to meet with you. Every time you think of sending a ho money by Western Union imagine yourself alone in your hotel room with your hard dick in one hand and a phone with a busy tone in the other.
American Mom Murders Kids With Two Shots To The Head
This AW executed her kids with extreme prejudice. She didn't just shoot them in the head. She shot them in the face! One can only imagine what she had in store for the husband had he been present at the time.
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Reply to Chocha on Westen Union
Chocha,
To each his own. To me its about ROI, placing the value and enjoyment I get out of her company vs my WU investment. If I find the ROI is not adequate then I say no and move on. If she was asking me for a routine $100 a month for free rent or something like that in exchange for being "faithful" which seems more like the scenario you describe it wouldn't be happening: that would be too much money being invested for too little irregular return in a false premise. Like us men I think very few of these women are faithful no matter what they say unless they have no other options, and I am not looking for faithfulness anyway.
Of course there is the risk of financially being exploited but the same is true with any male-female relationship. You just have to keep your eyes open and think with your big head. But that is not much different as when you meet a hot 9 at a strip club and she asks for 2x the going rate to take her back to your place for what is likely to be a disappointing session, and you have to use a bit of discipline to say no. What I do know is that I get with my WU gal something that I would be unlikely to receive from the strip club pro: fantastic passionate sexual experiences at a level that is hard to find with any P4P regular. Even though she is a 7. 5 in looks, we are 9 to 10 in personal mutual chemistry and fun. How much of her excitement and pussy wetness derives from my generosity who knows but I do enjoy it.
So far for me no harm, no foul and no regrets.
$240, 000 a year is not enough for this hoe
ORLANDO, Fla. (AP) —Orlando guard Gilbert Arenas (notes) was served with child support and custody papers as he left the court during halftime of the Magic's loss to Miami on Thursday night.
The court documents, obtained by The Associated Press, were a California petition filed by Laura Mendoza Govan. She identified herself as his ex-girlfriend in the documents.
The petition seeks custody and child support for three children that Govan says Arenas fathered and has since 'financially cut off. ' She is also seeking support for another unborn child, as well as monthly support for the other children.
And the petition, she is seeking $109, 000 in monthly support payments from Arenas and $1. 3 million annually.
'I don't pay much attention to it because this is who she is as a person, ' he said. 'It's sad that it has to be in the public's eye. She gets money. I mean when a girl asks for $100, 000 a month and you say no, that doesn't mean you're cut off. You're still getting 20. . That's the thing that bothers me. She tells the world that she's not getting money. She gets $20, 000 a month. '
Sad. Man read Arenas quote. USA chicks suck