From a female perspective (if it counts)
Reading the add that woman placed and reading the responses. I have to laugh.
Obviously this women is not to bright. Thats a certanity.
My particular perspective is. She is just found herself left by her husband who she never sexually satisfied for a 25 year old dolly bird that will give him head. She is stuck at home with two teenagers to care for a mortgage to pay (she took him to the cleaners for the house and car) She can't afford to go out and meet a man because she has that mortgage and she hasn't taken care of her fat ass or hair for 20 years since she got married. So she has decided that she will advertise for one ( i think its easier than the chat room for her) What she expects is this man to take over paying the mortgage, she doesn't want him to have any kids or at least they have to be fully independent. In return for him paying the mortgage (she's not a pro so she wants him to pay the bills not give her cash directly) she will give him occassional sex and cook an occassional bad meal. While she sits there in her 80's dress with 80's perm and complains about her kids and promises herself that she will start a diet tomorrow.
I bet she might even offer him a cheap bottle of wine sometimes, although you might find that it will always be the last of the bottle. Probably the bottle that her other divorced friend bought over two days ago for a drink.
on the subject of female virginity
I'm not really into spouting off about equality and female rights. In fact I get so sick of listening to bra burning feminists I could puke.
but to tell a woman that her virginity is the most important thing she can offer is quite ridiculous. That reeks of religious zealots and reminds me of our very backwards forefathers. Surely in this day and age to be or not be a virgin is totally a personal decision. For both males and females.
For governments to be spouting off the value of virginity I have this mental picture of middle east where women are dehumanised and virginity and men rule supreme. I wonder isn't this what we are all fighting for the rights of the human being through out the middle east. Isn't this why we are trying to topple dictatorships. Maybe Mr Bush might like to bring virginity tests for newly married girls and female circumisicion.
Really and truly it is time governments got on with ruling countries not bedrooms.
Who Wants a Virgin Anyway
I know this may not be proper forum for this comment, but who wants to bang a virgin. She'll hurt my dick trying to get in maybe tear skin. She won't know how to pop that cooch. She won't have any coochie-control. It just sounds horrible. What does sound good are 40 and 50 year old divorced women or30 year old single moms. Haha. Just my aside.