I don't want to live through a midlife at forty like many American dudes. I want to live the high life by fucking as many [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue] as I can. Do you think the American virus will spread to Canada?
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I don't want to live through a midlife at forty like many American dudes. I want to live the high life by fucking as many [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue] as I can. Do you think the American virus will spread to Canada?
[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2159865]Clearly, you need to part ways with that American woman, as you have very different goals in life. She is feeling her biological clock ticking, so she wants to nest and breed! She may not be a borderline but she is not sane either. Mentally stable women do not move in and start talking about forming a family with a man they have known all of six months. Furthermore, any woman who pouts because you refuse to fuck her without a condom and cream pie her pussy has some serious issues. She is definitely controlling and entitled. What you want clearly does not matter from her point of view. She sees you as a sperm donor and child support victim, possibly an alimony victim too once she breeds and uses the baby as leverage.
What you do know now, is that she uses sex as a weapon in the relationship. If you refuse to conform, she punishes you by withholding sex. Is this someone you want to spend another day with, much less months or years? Do you want to waste your precious time and opportunities to do the things that you enjoy in life because she does not approve? She is calculating and manipulative! She deprives you of sex because you refused to impregnate her. Meanwhile, she engages in stalking behavior to make certain you cannot find relief in another pussy.
Already, you resent your entanglement with this emotional vampire. Even now, you regret not being able to fuck Japanese and Thai girls because this matronly American woman just follows you around giving the hot Asian girls the stink eye! Seriously, you need to stand up for yourself and tell her it was over when she cut the sex off. She needs to give you some space and find her own activities. If you allow her to stick around just to make your life miserable, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
I have never heard any man say that he regretted never marrying. What is there to regret about keeping all the money you earn, spending it on what you want, and doing things that you enjoy in life? No one ever says, "Geez, I regret never marrying and living a life of quiet desperation until the wife cut off the sex and dragged my ass into divorce court to strip me of all my assets and future earnings!
Having a family is another overrated crapshoot for American men. Your kids belong to the woman you have them with. If you get on her bad side, she can take them away, deny visitation, and turn them against you. Meanwhile, you get to see your gross income diminished supporting them while their mother makes them call her husband or boyfriend "Daddy!
Just think about all the old men who have terrible or no relationships with their grown kids after sacrificing their lives slaving for them. Think about all the kids that hate their fathers for some ridiculous reason like never taking them to Disneyland because he had a crap job with long hours and little vacation time. Are you ever going to regret not being that guy?
Cocks do not get better with age; they just get softer and limper. Fuck now in your youth, when it is your time for fucking and not someone else's! Times are changing and the pussy buffets in emerging economies may not be around tomorrow. Middle-aged and elderly newly divorced American men will not have many appealing options in another decade or two. Believe me! If you are one of those fellas, you are going to regret the mistakes you are making now. LOL![/QUOTE]I have been regretting since I accepted her to live with me. That's the last time I will put myself in a relationship with a woman. She always complains about everything and nothing. Now it is too late to change our mind about our trip to Thailand. Everything is settled and too late to ask for a refund. She wants to go on honeymoon to Thailand. What the fuck does she want to do in Thailand the biggest mongering place in the world. She is not happy to live in Japan, she is homesick and fed up with Japanese people. Culture shock. Every night after work, she bothers me about "this is the first time in her life she has felt left out in a distant country, since Japanese men ignore her and don't compliment her on her look and it is not in the Japanese men's nature to be gentle and all foreign men in Japan going after Japanese women have yellow fever and need to see a practitioner, she can't make friends with any Japanese woman due to their cultural difference, most Japanese women wanting to make friends with her is only because they want to practise their fucking English but they never invite her out because they prefer sticking together to carting a gajin around whose level of Japanese is null. Everyday it's the same story after work. I am sure I'm going to be as crazy as her if I continue my relationship with her. She has no friends that's why she wants pull me down as she fails to have friends. When we hang out is another story. I can't choose the restaurant in which I want to eat, and choose my hobby. I lam living a fucking hell, the worst year of my life. I can't kick her out, as we signed a lease. Now I understand why we pay women for sex. We don't pay them to fuck but we pay them to leave. I really want her to find some people to go out because I am fed up with having her up my ass all the time. When she knocks off work, she stands by the door of the company I work for until I finish work. I will go to Brazil without forewarning her. Japan is not an easy country to live in as a Gaijin and even worse as a Female Gajin.
[QUOTE=LarryDavid;2159783]She probably stopped fucking you because she saw you on a hoormongering forum. So she's not crazy, is living with you and wants to have a family with you. Sounds like she really likes you and probably loves you. She stopped fucking you because she is upset. Perhaps your attitude changed with her, or she senses you are separating from her.
You've had your share of banging hookers. Maybe you need to make a commitment and settle down. I bet if you forget about Brazil and hookers for a while and focus on her that with a bit of work you can enjoy the relationship and it's benefits. Sure, maybe it blows up in 7 years. But you might be walking away from a good thing that is going bad because of you and your fear of intimacy. She is really into you. Give it a serious effort. Worst case, you can comfort yourself with hookers in Brazil when you are a little older.[/QUOTE]The problem is I can't forget about Brazil, I don't want to take on responsibility for being with a woman for life. I need to fuck as many women as possible, for as long as I am young. Sometimes I need need privacy but it is impossible with this woman.
[QUOTE=Komo753;2160049]I have been regretting since I accepted her to live with me. That's the last time I will put myself in a relationship with a woman. She always complains about everything and nothing. Now it is too late to change our mind about our trip to Thailand. Everything is settled and too late to ask for a refund. She wants to go on honeymoon to Thailand. What the fuck does she want to do in Thailand the biggest mongering place in the world. She is not happy to live in Japan, she is homesick and fed up with Japanese people. Culture shock. Every night after work, she bothers me about "this is the first time in her life she has felt left out in a distant country, since Japanese men ignore her and don't compliment her on her look and it is not in the Japanese men's nature to be gentle and all foreign men in Japan going after Japanese women have yellow fever and need to see a practitioner, she can't make friends with any Japanese woman due to their cultural difference, most Japanese women wanting to make friends with her is only because they want to practise their fucking English but they never invite her out because they prefer sticking together to carting a gajin around whose level of Japanese is null. Everyday it's the same story after work. I am sure I'm going to be as crazy as her if I continue my relationship with her. She has no friends that's why she wants pull me down as she fails to have friends. When we hang out is another story. I can't choose the restaurant in which I want to eat, and choose my hobby. I lam living a fucking hell, the worst year of my life. I can't kick her out, as we signed a lease. Now I understand why we pay women for sex. We don't pay them to fuck but we pay them to leave. I really want her to find some people to go out because I am fed up with having her up my ass all the time. When she knocks off work, she stands by the door of the company I work for until I finish work. I will go to Brazil without forewarning her. Japan is not an easy country to live in as a Gaijin and even worse as a Female Gajin.[/QUOTE]Why play the victim? You have what you have created here. Man up and have a talk with her. I don't mind a man mongering but a man that will just up and run off to Brazil without warning! Isn't a man.
Btw, the relationship advice or any advice here in ISG is worth about 2 pesos or 4 yen, including mine.
The fact that you signed a lease does not prevent YOU from moving out. No idea why my earlier post was deleted. Show de ho de do.
[QUOTE=LarryDavid;2159783]She probably stopped fucking you because she saw you on a hoormongering forum. So she's not crazy, is living with you and wants to have a family with you. Sounds like she really likes you and probably loves you. She stopped fucking you because she is upset. Perhaps your attitude changed with her, or she senses you are separating from her.
You've had your share of banging hookers. Maybe you need to make a commitment and settle down. I bet if you forget about Brazil and hookers for a while and focus on her that with a bit of work you can enjoy the relationship and it's benefits. Sure, maybe it blows up in 7 years. But you might be walking away from a good thing that is going bad because of you and your fear of intimacy. She is really into you. Give it a serious effort. Worst case, you can comfort yourself with hookers in Brazil when you are a little older.[/QUOTE]From his description of their relationship, it looks like she is socially isolated in Japan, as the Japanese girls regard her as the ugly American woman, and the Japanese men do not think she is "bukkake" grade material. She gets no attention from other Western men because are too busy fucking much hotter Japanese girls. She is living the ultimate American woman nightmare. Men are ignoring her, and she has to pay for her own dinner and drinks unless Komo is around to pay for her.
She has no life and is depressed because back in America she would be too busy twisting dicks by the dozen to notice Komo. Therefore, she wants him to feel her pain and misery. The woman is an emotional vampire draining the joy out of his life with constant whining, complaining, and demanding to have everything her way. She is not into Komo, he is just convenient given her loneliness and depression. If she were into him, she would not slam his cock with stiff sanctions by blockading her pussy. She would at least eat at restaurants that he likes sometimes.
Komo thinks she is not crazy, but she stalks him and hangs out in front the door of his workplace to make sure he does not go anywhere without her. How is that not crazy? If a man did that to her in America, she would take out a restraining order on his ass! The more Komo describes her, the more she sounds like Alexandra Forrest from the movie Fatal Attraction. If Komo does not save himself soon, she is going to boil his bunny.
Furthermore, he does not like her manipulating his action. He wants to fuck more hooker pussy, and she is getting in the way of that because she wants to tie him down in an unhappy marriage and pop out a few kids that he will be on the hook to provide for over the next two decades. After it ends in a disaster 7 years later, he will be financially ruined and unable to afford hookers in Brazil, assuming there will be any left by then. He should be giving serious effort in moving out of the apartment and making sure that she can never find him again. If he leaves now, no one gets hurt. In 7 years when he goes out to buy cigarettes and does not come back, there will be a few kids left without a father and at the mercy of a mentally unstable mother. Trying to make it work will only create and ruin innocent lives. If breaking up is hard to do after only six months, wait for the divorce with kids 7 years later.
Komo should do the honorable thing, pack his bags and run away to Hooker Heaven, in Rio. The American vampire girlfriend will find other prey to drain of happiness. The worst that can happen is that she decides to flee Japan and return to America where she can be the center of attention again.
I find Komo's situation to be revolting. It's what I knew, even as a young man, that I did not want for myself. Ever. I couldn't really enunciate it all so clearly back then. But I knew it, and with experience it all became crystal clear. Let me just say that I come and go when I want to. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. I eat what I want to eat, and I watch on TV what I want to watch. And no woman is going to come into my life and tell me what I'm going to do. The last one to do that was my mother, and that ended decades ago!
I'm not desperate. I'm not "thirsty" for some pussy. And you see, that's the key. Motherfuckers need to stop being and acting so damn thirsty for it around these women. And when you do that, then you realize that you are in control of your life, and not her! Because that woman who thinks she's going to tell you what to do? Well once she realizes that you don't need (or even want) that cookie she's keeping locked up inside her cookie jar, because there are plenty of other cookies in wide-open cookie jars all over the place? Game over! Get to stepping chick! Right out of my life!
Because I don't thirst for your ass. I'm not thirsty for any woman! And men, once you arrive to that very same place, then you realize that you are in control, and that you will live your life exactly as you damn well please! Then they want to get pissed off when they see you don't need them or their pussy (their main asset), and therefore can't be controlled by them. Want to start calling you names. You must be gay! No woman is about to tell me I can't have cable TV! This is my house! I'll get me the super premium package plus get my scrotum sucked by women less than half your age nag! Yes sir I will! Watch me.
[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2160129]From his description of their relationship, it looks like she is socially isolated in Japan, as the Japanese girls regard her as the ugly American woman, and the Japanese men do not think she is "bukkake" grade material. She gets no attention from other Western men because are too busy fucking much hotter Japanese girls. She is living the ultimate American woman nightmare. Men are ignoring her, and she has to pay for her own dinner and drinks unless Komo is around to pay for her.
She has no life and is depressed because back in America she would be too busy twisting dicks by the dozen to notice Komo. Therefore, she wants him to feel her pain and misery. The woman is an emotional vampire draining the joy out of his life with constant whining, complaining, and demanding to have everything her way. She is not into Komo, he is just convenient given her loneliness and depression. If she were into him, she would not slam his cock with stiff sanctions by blockading her pussy. She would at least eat at restaurants that he likes sometimes..[/QUOTE]I have never paid for her restaurant meals, I forgot to mention she paid for our trip to Thailand and we plan on going in a couple of months. I am sure I won't enjoy Thailand because I will always be followed, I can't move out because I need to get my deposit back so I have to stay till the lease is over, the only things I pay is the rent and the electricity and water bill. She is registered in the same address as me though she doesn't pay anything. I get the feeling she got me by the balls. I haven't fucked women other than her for 6 months. I just want to take my mind off things, I need to get away but I can't because of my work so I am stuck in a country whose women I am not attracted to, with a lady that pisses me off without letting me take a breath.
Foreign women don't appeal to Japanese men for a long term relationship, even other Asian women don't catch Japanese men' eyes. Japanese men are only interested in fucking foreign women and getting married to Japanese women. Many foreign women don't like Japanese men because they are only interested in having it off with gaijin women and play with their feelings. To foreign women living in Japan. Japanese men are the most perverted. Many foreign women find Japanese men attractive and presentable until they get cheated, it is for that reason that many foreign women turn to Western men and can't stand them being in a relationship with Japanese women. That's why it is so easy to pick up foreign women in Japan. Japanese men are the biggest mongering people. When I go to Sao Paulo, I saw many Japanese men getting laid with Caucasian providers in upscale clubs. I saw less Japanese mongers in Rio de Janeiro, it is maybe because the mongering scenes is not as big as that of Sao Paulo and there are not as many white providers as in Sao Paulo, Japanese men are sexually attracted to Asian and white women. Foreign women can't report to the police and complain about any Japanese man, as the police is always in favor of Japanese people. The Japanese police doesn't want to deal with any foreign people. Any attack on a Japanese person is punished by law even if you did not start the fight. But Japanese people are not people that seek trouble from other people. They always leave foreign people in peace.
Black women from Africa and Europe and African American women are the most rejected in Japan. Nobody pays attention to them. Asian men are not attracted to dark skinned women and most western men living in Japan are either attracted to Asian women or their western women. Black women are not popular with Japanese men unlike Black American men. I saw many Black American men with Japanese regulars. That's why you don't need to be western to be popular with Japanese women, I also saw Turkish men with Japanese women.
Lets get back to the topic in hand. I can't leave Japan for Brazil because I have to work. I am now stuck with a girl that breaks my balls and doesn't want to offer me her cherry anymore because she is fucking upset. Unfortunately I don't have yellow fever that's why I monger in Russia and Brazil. When we first met, she was surprised I didn't have yellow fever. But I didn't mention I have Rusky and Bunda fever. I am fair-skinned and I am more attracted to fair skinned women. My girlfriend is not ugly, the problem is Japanese women don't like hang out with girls more beautiful than them. It is a culture thing because they want to draw men's attentions to them and not to their friends. In Japan, the uglier you are, the more friends you make with girls. The biggest problem is language barrier that's why she can't make friends. Japanese people don't speak English unlike the Filipinos and Thai people.
I am from Quebec, I am not sure if American women have power over Canadian men. They only have power over American men. Unlike I bring her to Canada so I will be fucked for sure.
If she's not paying rent or utilities, then ask her to move out. Tell her you don't want to live with a girlfriend that won't have sex with you. Make her sleep on the sofa while she finds a new place. Tell her to stop going to your work. Cancel the trip to Thailand and get yourself to a soap land after work. Tell her you are going out without her. Be honest with her and end it now. Stop living a lie. Or continue to live he lie when she gives up the trim after you give her the ultimatum. Nah. Be a man and speak the truth to her.
As for the large number of Japanese men mongering in Sao Paulo, it's because SP has the largest Japanese community outside of Japan.
What a concept. Intelligent, free men of all ages enjoying each other's company and intellect whilst we ogle beautiful young women. That is what the bull dykes and sexually invisible sisters and their nihilistic cliches are jealous and fearful of. Because takes male eyeballs and resources away from their cloying grasp. And also because women mostly lose their looks after 40 and grannies ogling young guys at FKK's is just not what women generally do, and why there is no market for it. In essence, they lose their sexual force and a key part of a woman's identity and power, namely looks. Women do not dress up and put on makeup just for the hell of it. And of course, there are many women who do not have this female character flaw.
Women are jealous that we are men and are able to get lucky when they cannot or are not interested. It is our life force they resent. We can have gret hair and be senior and still have pretty young things smiling at us. Not so with the older, ordinary, chubby female.
I am coming round to the idea that the men's groups are angry for the wrong reasons. Those guys invested too much emotionally and financially in trusting a single point of failure (a western woman) rather than the ancient way of when men formed strong and close social groups and spread their trust and emotional bets with each other. The traditional society saw men in engaged in fun things, whether a coffee, fishing are chasing pretty girls. The Masons, Lion's and Rotary Clubs were more or less a cover story to hang out and do useful things. Women certainly spread their bets and whining amongst other women (and in the West, do not spare their male partner from their whining and complaining).
This lost art of masculine society what we as men forgot and why we feel marooned by feminism; the West lost sight of the best part of being a man: having fun and trusted relationships with other men unpolluted by sexual tension and haveing some time out from being a captive breadwinner for ungrateful women and their often ungrateful brood. Just ask any parent about teenagers if you doubt that.
And so when marriages break up, and statistically they are biased at doing so, men get fucked over, not just by the legal system, but aso emotionally. They forgot to build redundancy. Back up. Into their lives. Whining about women and feminism and blaming it or the entire femail population is not the answer. The answer is to act like a man, be emotionally stong and open, but well in advance, and with trusted male friends. We need to teach young men and ourselves this ancient art.
I have a theory that insecure women are terrified of us figuring this, being resiliant out and not needing them so much, or at all. Hookers are the perfect bit of fluff for men, we get the best of all worlds: NOT being under the pussy monopoly or foolishly having ivested our whole deck of emotional cards with a single point of failure woman.
So, what this has to do with P2 P is this: rather than living under tyranny of P2 P unfriendly countries (in fact anti-male, but dressed up as trafficking, itself caused by artificial scarcity and supra profits = crime), leave them be.
Join the talent and money exodus from our failed social experiment in the USA that is now just a market, and one with highly repressive laws and militarized cops who shoot and arrest indiscriminately, like unpaid $50 parking tickets in many places.
Those in control take offense that as living, functioning red-blooded males, we like pretty women and engage in the oldest tradition that was invented about the same time when people started trading food and shelter. The reasons are deeply rooted in economics and controlling and channeling male energy, talent, wealth creation toward reproductive enslavement.
We have anti-P2 P laws abut ignore kooks with assault rifles and regular mass slaughter. The only thing I want to shoot is my seed into the hot mouth of a pretty girl. It strikes me as inherently deranged that it is legal to buy assault rifles (that are inherently anti-social and deadly) but frown upon and spend resources trying to cock block and lecturing us about male entitlement.
I'd wager 95% of the guys here and elsewhere will show chivalry very naturally and automatically when put the position of needing to protect women and kids. We don't need their condescending bullshit lectures or dictating who we can consensually sleep with.
[QUOTE=Komo753;2160499]I get the feeling she got me by the balls.[/QUOTE]I get the feeling you don't have any. Fuck the deposit. Move out.
Right on, buddy. I have come to the conclusion that ALL women are insecure when you get to know them well enough. We mongers don't need to know them that well. And, yes, I can be chivalrous when I want to to but most American broads / the feminazis either reject this kindness, this display of gentlemanly behavior, outright or take advantage of it to the nth degree. Very little in-between IMO. Women in USA and most of the Western World (and apparently Japan, too, according to no-nuts Komo) have promptly dismissed their role in society in favor of their quest for greed and power. Just look at Stormy Daniels. Six figures was not enough to shut the girl up. Now she wants an additional seven figures after she agreed to keep her mouth shut. Even American hookers have forgotten THEIR role. I can't wait to retire and move to the Philippines where I will inherit a different set of challenges but at least I can be a man without being subjected the endless emotional liberal drivel that represents what has happened in the decline of the USA.
[QUOTE=PahllusMaximus;2160587]
I have a theory that insecure women are terrified of us figuring this, being resiliant out and not needing them so much, or at all. Hookers are the perfect bit of fluff for men, we get the best of all worlds: NOT being under the pussy monopoly or foolishly having ivested our whole deck of emotional cards with a single point of failure woman.
I'd wager 95% of the guys here and elsewhere will show chivalry very naturally and automatically when put the position of needing to protect women and kids. We don't need their condescending bullshit lectures or dictating who we can consensually sleep with.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LarryDavid;2160573]If she's not paying rent or utilities, then ask her to move out. Tell her you don't want to live with a girlfriend that won't have sex with you. Make her sleep on the sofa while she finds a new place. Tell her to stop going to your work. Cancel the trip to Thailand and get yourself to a soap land after work. Tell her you are going out without her. Be honest with her and end it now. Stop living a lie. Or continue to live he lie when she gives up the trim after you give her the ultimatum. Nah. Be a man and speak the truth to her.
As for the large number of Japanese men mongering in Sao Paulo, it's because SP has the largest Japanese community outside of Japan.[/QUOTE]Great advice if he takes it and does something. Especially to have an honest conversation with her. My bet is he will play the sympathy card some more.
Japanese men like variety and travel to many different countries discreetly and fuck like hell. As long as it is not thrown in the wives face then they accept it. Most Japanese men are very family responsible and good providers.
[QUOTE=Komo753;2159613]She doesn't have borderline personality disorder. The only thing I like about her is that she doesn't eat into my money. She doesn't want to fuck me because I don't want to fuck her without condom. Three weeks ago she were talking to me about forming a family and since then she stopped fucking me. I said who the fuck put you up to that shit? You never talked about that. She puts her carrier before mine and wants me to be a follower.
P.S. She lives with me and also has my apartment key. Officially, we have the same address.
She doesn't know I have ever been to Brazil or Russia. I plan to travel to Brazil in August and stay out there for six months. I did not tell her and I feel a bit guilty. On one side I will regret on the other side I think I better go to Brazil and enjoy my miserable life. I am sure I will regret not fucking enough women when I grow older if I stay with her..[/QUOTE]Hi Komo,
I married the first woman I got intimate with. I was near 30 and just tired of shivering out in the cold, so to speak, and so was she. Biggest mistake of my life. She was a good person, but goddamn if she didn't do a 180 on me after we got married. The physical intimacy dropped to zero. I spent more years than I care to admit in a sexless marriage because, well, that's what marriage is supposed to be about. For better or worse, right? I hung in there hoping she'd change. Wrong. She loved the house and the lifestyle more than me. She didn't want a relationship. She wanted to be taken care of and get the social status that came with being married and more income. I was desperate for sex. She wasn't interested in trying to work harder for my sake. Didn't end well.
There's an old joke - "What food will simultaneously make a woman gain 30 lbs and lose half her sex drive?" Answer: wedding cake.
Look, we're all see*nts to some degree. We all want what we want--people are incredibly willful. The man wants dinner on the table at 6 and a working girl in the bed by 9. The woman wants the house, kids, and you to bring home a big fat paycheck to park her ass on the rest of her days. The important thing is that you give some and you get some. If you're a douchebag and slack off or cheat she'll dump you or take your ass to the cleaners via Dewey Cheatem & Howe, LLC. If she slacks off, you dump her. You don't [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] around. Her job is to give you head and if she doesn't like it, she'll be eating frozen pizza on the floor of a one-bedroom apartment with her Wal-Mart uniform hung up on the wall.
I'm not against marriage. I have many friends who have been together and made it work for decades. But I also know me. I'm in my forties, and damn, women my own age sure are looking fat, gross, and un-f*ckable. I fell in love once and I don't think I will again. That doesn't mean that life can't surprise the sh*t out of you. I've had experiences in the last year that have absolutely blown my mind. But I know my limits now.
My advice is to start with knowing yourself. And be cold when necessary. Some of us lean too far into the warm-hearted, generous side, and we get hosed. I'm not saying be a snake. Just know how much you're willing to give, and if it looks like she's going to keep taking more than you want to give, you turn off the bloody spigot. You're looking for happiness. We all are. If stability and monogamy floats your boat, by all means, do it. But if you're wanting and she's not giving. She either gets her sh*t together or you're gone.
Love is wonderful, but every couple falls out of love. Relationships take work, and if one or both of you stop working for it, it's no different than if you decided to show up to work and just put your feet up. Won't be long and your ass will be out on the street. Save your charity for the homeless. A grown woman should know better.
Now, there are wonderful people in the world who truly do love their spouses for better or for worse. I've seen a man in his sixties wipe his woman's ass because she had a debilitating brain disease. I've seen a woman stick with her husband long after a stroke took the best part of him in his late forties. I wish I could say I was one of these people, but I'm not. I'm selfish, and I need to get laid, and if things aren't perfect, then GTFO. This means I don't have to put up with twists of fate like the ones I've mentioned, but it also means I could miss out on some of life's deepest riches. I have to make a choice. And to do that I have to have a deep sense of who I am. Once I knew a woman who I would have jumped out a window for. That was a long time ago, and I haven't met anyone like that since.
One last thing. Be honest and up front. Be somebody you can be proud of 10, 20 years from now. Good luck.
[QUOTE=Rithro;2161026]There's an old joke - "What food will simultaneously make a woman gain 30 lbs and lose half her sex drive?" Answer: wedding cake.[/QUOTE]And the other joke is, 'Why is the bride smiling as she walks down the aisle? Because she knows she has given her last blow job.'