The thing with American women...
The thing with American women (and AmericanIZED women), maybe world-wide I dunno, is that the more you give (money, time) the more they want. Sure, some of them give back (and can be good lovers, cooks, housekeepers) but it seems to me they are always COMPETING instead of cooperating. And they are never satisfied. And when they get in their 40s and 50s - forget it. They all become menopausal psychotics to some degree.
E.g.1, My buddy three houses down from me has been married for 20+ years. Helluva nice guy: electrician, good looking, tall, nice home, plays guitar for fun, putting two kids through college (one at Stanford) so he has his act together, right? His wife now keeps track of the time he plays guitar instead of doing bullshit with her and for her. I mean she actually tallies the hours. Can you believe this shit? I don't know why he puts up with it.
E.g.,2, my next buddy married a nice Filipina, put her through nursing school in California where she now makes >100K. He recently retired after working hard his whole life. He has to beg her for money now because she sends a third to her moocher relatives in the PI and spends another third on bullshit she sees on TV; and she has a gambling debt of 50K. Not a real good retirement plan if you ask me.
E.g., 3 my next buddy married a cute little busty Russian girl who produced three kids (she's 30 something, he fifty something). She is a homemaker (no paid job) and he is in finance; and did pretty good until last coupla years. He bought her a brand new mercedes benz for her birthday (imagine someone giving you a car like that). Her response: "why didn't you buy the bigger model"? I swear, that's what she said. Can you believe this shit?
It is for these reasons that I am leaving America, American women and Americanized women: these broads have forgotten their role: to be a helpmate to their man (not a burden). I'm certain you have your own true horror stories.
As I have stated many times in different ISG forums, I'm going to retire in or near Dumaguete, PI (near Cebu) in 10 years or less (I'm 54). Hell, the USA is going downhill anyway. Our bipartisan politics and big business rote greed have irretrievably fucked it all up. I am a business professor and I know what I am talking about.
In Dumaguete, my goal is to find a 20-something Pinay to put through nursing school and bolt on some DDs. Maybe marry her so we can buy property and build a self-designed house. She can work if she wants but her main job is to take care of me. Not that I need any nursing -- just good sex :). We may visit America but she will never live here to avoid the inevitable tainting exemplified above.
If any of you mongers want to settle down when you are ready join me in Dumaguete, hit me up. There are quite a few Americans and Europeans living there and we will have a good 'ol time unencumbered by the tragedy that typifies American women.
'Til then, happy horndogging!
It's all about lying and having a thick skin
some sexy-voiced mexicana related to my work has been suggesting we spend time together. she's in another city, so i requested she e-mail a photo, and sure enough, she's a big girl. they put extra work into the voice.
and i'm thinking of the last big girl i was with, a gringa. and though i straight up told that broad i wasn't looking for a relationship, she's totally hating me now that i agreed to forego sex if i didn't want to commit.
the reality is what peers have explained to me all along. there's no fury worse than a woman scorned.
but at the same time, after a certain age, unless they're loaded, which is an alibi, any sexual encounter hinges on being a lease-to-buy situation. if they take the dick, you must commit. or they just hate you. which ain't so bad.
my brother noticed in college how girls would even look at his shoes to judge his income. though we do well now, we both still dress like bums.
and yet i'm feeling this increased pressure to put on airs to snag superficial women.