Printing 1000 copies right now of the Ladder Theory
ok, not only was i lmao reading the ladder theory, like a previous poster, i was filled with a sort of dread of having all my doubts confirmed by the obvious truth of the entire theory.
i chit you not, i am going to go right after i post this and change my match.com profile to say nothing but: "i am a firm believer in the ladder theory" (insert hyperlink) "feel free to contact me after you read this and agree with it".
i've been running around the past six months with quite a chip on my shoulder depressed at how mercenary american women are. i've lived overseas in various places for more than twenty years and us women are without doubt the most blatant intellectual *****s on the planet. i do think that any society and any culture will move to a ladder theory paradigm, just given enough time, crass development and materialism. capitalism simply accentuates the fact that male female relationships do indeed function exactly as described in the ladder theory. the idea that historically a woman has always have had to ""marry up may be a sort of social darwinism that is also self-evident but doesn't begin to address the true nature of women's natural propensity, regardless of social pressure to be intellectual *****s (or *****s of pick your flavor variety).
my negative opinion of trying to fit into the dating scene in the us had become so negative and jaded; i started to wish to god i was gay so i could tell them all to jump in a f'ing lake. i even asked one of my friends recently (guy friend on no ladder that i'm aware of), if it was possible that deep down i really hate women. after two minutes we decided this was poppycock as not only do i prefer the company of women in every sphere of social interaction, i do desperately love fucking them. when i have sex it does not feel like grudge sex vs. the whole gender. i have no [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] fantasies or feel emasculated and some primal urge to reassert our waning power in this the pinnacle of rich fat bastard gets the hot chicks country.
for the past few years i've been moaning about the loss of a true alpha male's ability to obtain power and money and then therefore women. in the us it is man most devious, backstabbing and lying, and some dumb luck and in some cases a ton of hard work who gets stinky rich. very few if any of the really rich guys in the world would you call paragons of virtue. they certainly aren't the sort of guy a woman calls on when they're in a dark alley confronted by some real goons. hurricane katrina convinced me that any first world country is only one decent disaster from reverting back to dog eat dog, where the real alpha males will assert themselves. a real alpha male, connected intimately to his primal past, has an ability to adapt and survive in the face of real death possibilities. he has the ability to remain calm and effective faced with immediate peril. he has the ability to organize and lead groups of people to do his bidding from strength of will and magnetism of personality. he is able to be appropriately violent when necessary and compassionate and fair when possible. picture your average american fat cat and tell me if the shit really hit the fan, how long they would last. much like in spartacus, the rich land owners were turned into gladiatorial amusement rather quickly. when the thin veneer of police is stripped away, real physical prowess is once again king.
even with that said, in the caveman, law of the jungle situation you still have the exact same ladder. the woman are now just placing men on either ladder with the pie chart being heavily tilted to power....not nearly so much as money. as soon as stuff settles into something more than anarchy the urge to be with the most powerful man with the most money would start all up again, until over time, undoubtedly the money would once again reign supreme.
to top it off, the real strong cavemen, few of us there are remaining, were further weakened by the introduction of an effective birth control for women. now they get to choose when and where they breed. men no longer can even dictate when they get to impregnate their conquests.
so, i've taken all my little tidbits of my own theories and after reading the ladder theory, i realize that i was only biting at the coattails of the real evil: women are simply all *****s in some way or the other, and for some reason this is considered a bad thing that you cannot talk about and due to the word ***** conversation ends immediately without any ability to intelligently discuss the topic with anyone possessing a pair of tits.
well, i'll just go change my match profile and realize that sadly i'm not likely to change my mind regarding the wonderfully depressing truth that the ladder theory is the most intelligent thing ever written about male female relationships!
ways to cope after giving up american women - is this a crazy idea?
O.K. let's assume that like many here you have given up American women. One option is to work towards basing your life in another country where the women are much towards your liking. Whilst I am all for this and have plans myself, often this strategy for various reasons can take a long time to come to fruition. So the question is how to cope in the meantime?
Of course another strategy is marry a girl from overseas and bring her back to your home country, however I have read about this going horribly wrong because of them being "americanized" extremely quickly then developing the same attitudes we hate in a short space of time! Also will they cope with life for good in a much different country to where they came from?
Now most of us can monger overseas on our holidays and have a great time. But most of us get maybe 2-4 weeks a year to do this, not enough to cure my sexual urges! I guess we can visit sex workers in our own country maybe but they are often lousy experiences and way way way overpriced.
What I have not read much about on these forums are guys that maybe fly a girl from Thailand or wherever they hooked up with a nice girl o/s back to their home country for say a month or so. I was wondering of this as I have had a couple of experiences where girls have asked me to come back to Australia for a trip. I say they would be bored as I have to work all day and they say that is fine and they are bored anyway so would love to come and just play housekeeper and see me outside work hours. Now they probably have ideas maybe of marriage and you rescuing them out of relative poverty, but could everyone win if you fly them over for a month of great sex everyday, give them a bit of pocket money and maybe see them another time. Then they don't become too "americanized" or attached.
Much better value for money than forking out big $$ on expensive dates with local fat women who don't put out anyway. The main risk though I see is the girl you fly out turns into a "bunny boiler" and develops some major attraction and gets set on marrying you and you have a physcho on your hands that you have to get to leave your premises and country!
Anyway has anyone done this sort of thing and tell me if it is a crazy/stupid idea or how it has gone?
cheers.