I'm going to shock the hell out of you guys.
I'm going to cut AW just a little slack in regards to them being ridiculous biaches when you approach them.
I've become friends with a girl who LOOKS like a barely legal petite little sexpot. In actuality, she is pretty much a slightly geeky innocent little thing who messes with rabbits at 4H club, and is in the marching band.
The amount of unwanted (she actually purposefully wears "birth control glasses" to cut it down) male attention that she has to deal with is absolutely ridiculous. She literally can't pump gas in her car at 6:00 AM without a dirty old man of 55 next pump over, making fairly overt overtures at her. No exaggeration. I left her alone in a coffee shop for two minutes so I could go take a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] and when I came back, there was a fucking TWELVE YEAR OLD trying to score her number. It is non-stop, all the time. And some of these guys are ridiculously persistent and obnoxious.
I have to say that it is ridiculous to the point where ----I----- as an observer am disgusted with it. I actually came out and told her "you need to be more of a *****".
I can understand why our women become vicious bitches when approached after a few years of this sort of thing. We, as American men, as a whole are pathetic sex starved leches. On the other hand, what made us this way? To some degree, our women. The dirty old man of 55 referenced above has probably only been giiven sex by his wife on Valentines day, and maybe his birthday for the last 5 years. It appears to be a vicious perpetual cycle. Unfortunately, the effects of it are borne by both us nice guy.....and in this case, innocent teenage girls.
I dont think American Men are responsible for Amereican Women
Many american customers are nice clean guys. Some are married some are not. I wont go with a customer if he looks dirty or rough not matter how much he pays. American women in China do seem to dislike Chinese girls, but most dont seem to try to look sexy or act sexy with their husbands. The same nice guys who are my customers and I see often would be the perfect husband for many Chinese girls, even if they say they love their wives and show their pictures, they need sexy women of different types. SOme Chinese girls can be bad though. Even if they dont love a guy they can act really sexy and flirty to get him to give gifts or give up his wife.
But even if a CHinese girl doesnt love her husband her culture and her tradition mean she will give her husband face, look after him and give him sex. Chinese girls know men need sex often and it is not something to be mad about. In old China, not really long ago it was normal for man to have several wives. Sometimes one or 2 wives and one or 2 concubines. The first wife can be happy if the 2nd wife or other concubine give sex to her hsuband.
I think it is the church or schools or mothers that make some American woment think they dont need to be sexy, not the american men