[quote=artisttyp]i've been following this forum for a few weeks now and have had a minor discussion with darkseid etc. i'm from new york city so i know what kind of bullshit goes on here.basically there's no hope....the other ny's on this forum understand the situation etc. i've been paying for pussy since i was 13 here in new york(it used to be available!) and in the past few years have started to travel to get laid.i'm looking into moving or spending at least 6 months out of the year in a foreign country etc.i love latin women.
my situation is i'm 36 good looking and girls flirt with me all the time but i stutter!! as soon as my mouth opens it says...if we have kids they might stutter.i have a ***** of a time getting jobs,i'm a loner blah blah all within 3 minutes..in america i'm screwed!
i've met alot of sweet women in latin countries but the latin guys tell me the women are bitches too.it's just that i'm the big fish in a small pond in those countries and the opposite in america.don't you guys feel it's just the same game but we just have the advantage? now i'm getting a little confused about how to deal with it.these women could be just as shallow and sneaky as aw's and i might be swindled into a trap thinking it is for real.hey guys who are getting play here in america would disagree with alot of us here and just call us sore losers.there are aw's who are sweet but only to a select few guys(providers). i've been with sweet latin ladies that i could tell by her actions with other men that latin guys didn't think so.
i just dont trust women on any continent they all need the same thing(support).i'm thinking if i did live in one of these countries i could easily turn into a player but then how real would i be to myself and what kind of energy would i be putting out(maybe negative).
at 36 years old i'm asking myself do i support someone and play the game knowing im getting laid for support or just have endless girlfriends which would be great at first but then eventually i'd wind up with a shallow life of meaningless relationships which in the end wouldn''t serve me or anyone else.i'd just be adding to the dillema between the sexes.
i'd like to get laid alot but i'd also like to make something positive of an opportunity i wouldn't get here.
any thoughts?[/quote]
1) you can fix studdering. i saw something on the history channel that was from say 2003 about a guy that studdered uncontroled when under pressure or nervous. [url]http://www.rickywburk.org/speech/therapy.htm[/url]
check that out, basically you talk back to yourself the way it suppose to sound because this machine fixes timing of the sound to your ears basically fooling your brain into thinking its not studdering anymore.
it works...
2) don't be defeated. you can find what you need here if you willing to put the time into it. the problem is too many people rush into ltr and get burned. you'll never know somebody until you live with them. you have to live with somebody for a set amount of time to see how they act. yes, some ladies will put up a front until they get what they want and change the minute you put the ring on. at that point you get the marriage annulled, don't mess around.
i just desire to find a woman without baggae and that's fairly thin. its just to hard to find that in the us. combined with my choosen profession it just makes it harder because of stereotypes and the fact that alot of women are dependant and needy.
nothing ventured, nothing gained, so you can't sit on the sidelines wondering if some woman is going to burn you. you have to be selective. while your being selective, monger until you find that somebody. if your true to yourself you can quit mongering and never return.
ask yourself what do you need from a woman to make a ltr work.
for me attractiveness is near the top of my list. i don't want my eyes to wander, i don't want my attention taken away by another woman, i don't want to feel like i can do better than what i already have. after that, i need personality, i need independence, i need somebody with actitivies and desires herself outside of the marriage. she can't be wrapped up just in having a family and being married, what happens when the kids are grown? we have to have things in common, that is crucial, i can't stress that enough and i'm not just talking about things in popular culture. do you have the same moral desires and beliefs? you have to have those things.
all i can say is to look deep within yourself and don't let people tell you bs like your swallow. i could care less, this your life and not theirs.
i said i had 148 profiles on one site alone and i haven't edited the other sites yet. alot of those women are right here in the us. i don't think every last one of them are messed up so bad you can't help them evolve as people and learn the difference between needs and desires.
milf by and large already understand that because they are now 2nd tier selections in the process and they know it.
that's why you can't just eliminate them. i just rather have a childless woman, so that's my focus. but there are some milfs on that list, who knows what will happen. i'm mindful and postitive traveling will be the best thing i could have done for my social life and allows me to be in complete control of my dating and who im dating and doesn't leave me dependant on getting sex only from less desirables or just us based women only.
that's what im saying to you guys, don't let the fact your in america stop you from running around the globe to find what you want, there is no perfect place for women, that's foolish thinking. there places that you might have better luck, that's just how it is.
stay postitive fellas...