Never marry American women!
Gentlemen, check out this link:
[url]www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEVCyLz88Zc[/url]
It tells you all you need to know!
How to Date Young Women - R. Don Steele
There is an old book (written in the early 90's I think) by R. Don Steele (of Steel Balls Press). You can get it on Amazon for as low as $7.00. If you're willing to do the work (and he was 46 when he wrote it), you can have short and long term flings with chicks in their early 20's.
It was a good book, and the general reviews on Amazon would concur with my opinion. But, a lot of time, energy, and money goes into working his advice. He shows how to do it without being the sugar daddy in her mind, and actually have her get emotionally involved.
How to Date Younger Women: For Men Over 35 -- that's the title.
Not the law...thank god..
Don't have to get married I suppose, in California more than one year together, she's your "common law" wife anyway.
Just to let you California mongers relax, there is no "common law" marriage in California no matter how long you live with a woman. It was abolished decades ago. Meluvulongtime. P.S. I am an attorney.