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[QUOTE=Cherchezfemme; 1141222]If anyone has ANY advice on how I can break out of the 'nice' guy mold, please help!
We all know women want 'bad boys', how the F*K do you become one? [/QUOTE]Not everybody is a "bad boy", nor everybody needs to "become one" in order to get pussy.
Life comes without instructions booklet and so what we do in it is TRY and see what happens. Learning how to accept and deal with defeat is an important step of becoming a man, and not only as far as women are concerned but on all fronts; you try and fail, then try again in a different situation and see what happens, down the line you start seeing what works and what doesn't and so start acting accordingly.
You don't "become" a bad boy in order to get pussy, the one and only best thing you can become in life is becoming yourself, whatever that is.
Just be patient, try and keep a positive outlook on things, know what you want and go for it untill you get it.
Of course, what we experience in our day by day life makes up for what we turn into; but that's not really something over which you have much or any control, so just keep the ball moving and live life trying to get your slice of it according to your tastes.
That said, I would add don't let these beeatches take advantage of you, and when you get played once try not to be played twice over the same game.
In time it all comes together.
These were my two cents.
Good luck
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[QUOTE=Cherchezfemme; 1141222]Goga.
So I did not have sex with this Polish woman after 4 dates and I ended up feeling a bit used for entertainment. At the end of our 4th date when she said we weren't sleeping together I left her outside while I went into a bar to watch a band. She ended up taking a cab home, which would be the only money she spent with me.
I am too 'nice' and I can't get into women's pants. 3 women in the last 2 weeks (including this Polish woman) have kissed me in clubs and told me how nice and sweet I am but they didn't suck my see*k and here I am again, frustrated.
If anyone has ANY advice on how I can break out of the 'nice' guy mold, please help!
We all know women want 'bad boys', how the F*K do you become one?
Goga- what do you mean by thinking too much? Please explain in detail. Maybe you see something I don't.
Nothing personal, but I hate these stories of how better it is in EE. Its just not in my reality. I've looked a little bit into teaching abroad but for now I don't have the qualifications. Plus I don't want to go abroad just for pu$$why, I have an entire LIFE I'm trying to build here. Maybe for the summer, we'll see. [/QUOTE]Cherchezfemme,
You fucked up! This woman was 40 yrs old which means you should have made a play for the pussy on the first date. At that age women know what they want. If she didn't give you any action like tongue hockey and heavy petting on the first date and the pussy on the second date then she was never going to give it to you at all. This is from a guy who has knocked the dust out of the rugs of more AW MILFs than I care to remember! LOL Anyway, women know if they're going to fuck you or not at the start of the first date and many times even before that. Learn to make an early play for the poon and cut your losses if the game is against you. When a stock drops you drop the stock. You don't ride that shit to the bottom.
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[QUOTE=Littletruths; 1140599]My constipation has been solved, thanks a lot for this and for the good laughter too.
Bless.
P. S / No really, sorry but "American Woman" doesn't ring any bell at all. If you really think of it real hard tho perhaps you can come up with the image of a slutty, loud, spoiled whatever woman of sort. I'm saying this and it is my point of view as an European; there is nothing that makes AW a prize nor getting one of them a "blessing". [/QUOTE]My sentiments exactly. However, I will concede that AW are indeed big game. They're in the same size classification with elephants, hippos and cape buffalo, and just as dangerous to any would be hunter.
Smarter hunters choose to go after lithe gazelles or tender doves.
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Oh chocha. You had to go for the obvious joke didn't you? .
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger; 1141242]Cherchezfemme,
You fucked up! This woman was 40 yrs old which means you should have made a play for the pussy on the first date. At that age women know what they want. If she didn't give you any action like tongue hockey and heavy petting on the first date and the pussy on the second date then she was never going to give it to you at all. This is from a guy who has knocked the dust out of the rugs of more AW MILFs than I care to remember! LOL Anyway, women know if they're going to fuck you or not at the start of the first date and many times even before that. Learn to make an early play for the poon and cut your losses if the game is against you. When a stock drops you drop the stock. You don't ride that shit to the bottom. [/QUOTE]Why didn't I know this before? Well thanks for the advice re:milfs. Believe me I will follow it. 2 dates max. In fact I kept thinking to myslef 'She's an older woman, she's decided if she's going to bang me or not"
But a younger girl I can give more time than just the 2nd date- correct? I know the rule is usually 3 dates for something sexy to happen.
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[QUOTE=Cherchezfemme; 1141222]Goga.
I am too 'nice' and I can't get into women's pants. 3 women in the last 2 weeks (including this Polish woman) have kissed me in clubs and told me how nice and sweet I am but they didn't suck my see*k and here I am again, frustrated.
If anyone has ANY advice on how I can break out of the 'nice' guy mold, please help!
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You have to stop acting nice, act in a way that expresses what you really want. Sex from her and that's it. If she's cool, then that's a bonus but you don't really care if she is cool or not.
When I started acting like all I wanted was sex from women the pussy I got increased times 20. Once you learn how to do that you can play the game when you want. If you ever do meet a REALLY cool girl worth your time, then be yourself, but that's about <1% of women you meet.
This method will leave you with your dignity 100% of the time. You never follow a girl around like a puppy, if she doesnt do what you want when you want... you will have a new girl who will by next weekend. Play the game by your rules not hers.
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There is so much bullshit in American culture brainwashing the country that they are #1 for everything. I am constantly arguing with my friends who are still stuck there that America is awful and there are much better countries to live in.
With only 28% of the population having passports, what do we expect? 70% having never left the country is pure ignorance if they have any opinion whatsoever on where the best place to live in the world is. I'm always surprised when ThatGuy comes on here praising America. ThatGuy have you lived in any places that were not 3rd world?
As far as hip hop culture in America, I can't stand it. As it keeps getting bigger I think it is making AW even less desirable (if that's even possible). Again one of the many things from America I hope does not spread far and wide.
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[QUOTE=Cherchezfemme; 1141317]Why didn't I know this before? Well thanks for the advice re:milfs. Believe me I will follow it. 2 dates max. In fact I kept thinking to myslef 'She's an older woman, she's decided if she's going to bang me or not"
But a younger girl I can give more time than just the 2nd date- correct? I know the rule is usually 3 dates for something sexy to happen. [/QUOTE]Don't play by their rules. Play by yours. That means you start sweating her for that pussy on the first date. If she starts acting funky then cut her loose right there. A lot of women fuck on the first date and those who don't will at least give you some hot kissing and touching to keep you interested. The 3 date rule is just an excuse for women who use dating as a means to obtain free meals and entertainment. Save yourself some money next time and invite the woman over for a meal and a movie at your place. If you must meet outside your place limit it to coffee or ice cream and use that ecounter to get inside her head. If she is only after free dinners, lunches and entertainment you'll know really quick.
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[QUOTE=Jon32;1141379]ThatGuy have you lived in any places that were not 3rd world?[/QUOTE]A bit of a personal question. But Yes. 2 yrs and Europe.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger;1141247]However, I will concede that AW are indeed big game. They're in the same size classification with elephants, hippos and cape buffalo, and just as dangerous to any would be hunter.[/QUOTE]
LOL, classic!
[QUOTE=Cherchezfemme; 1141317]Why didn't I know this before? Well thanks for the advice re:milfs. Believe me I will follow it. 2 dates max. In fact I kept thinking to myslef 'She's an older woman, she's decided if she's going to bang me or not"[/QUOTE]Feel free to get rid of this nonsense and flush it down the toilet together with whoever is supporting it. You don't wine and dine random beeatches just to check if some good might come out of it, well, unless you receive some kind of twisted satisfaction by doing that.
Don't be a sucker, it's nice to be nice but just to people who deserves it, people who you are really interested in and that harbor the same interest towards you in return. Other than that you're putting yourself in to be taken for a free ride or free meal ticket. Two or three dates my dick! Who you think you're dating, the virgin mary perhaps? These women have been giving heads to random dudes in club's toilets, what the hell are you trying to get out of them that'd take dates and dates to get? It baffles me.
You meet someone, if there is a good vibe about it and interest on both sides then there is no miracle to be made nor rabbit out a hat to be pulled, your goal is penis in vagina and that's what you go for, as quick as possible, straight out the club if possible or even into it! If that's not the case (sometimes it isn't) , then you exchange digits and try working it out; a few sms, maybe a quick call, you'll know if she is interested. If she is, you call her out on a date, bearing in mind that date means "I take you dining, I might take you for drinks or clubbing even, but then I fuck you up the ass", and that's what it is.
You don't need to waste your perfectly good money on random h0es' entertainment, you can buy yourself some good pussy with that same money instead! And here we been talking about girls in thir twenties! 'cause if we talk milfs then she should have your dick in her mouth even before you ever get to sit together at the ice cream parlor.
[QUOTE=Cherchezfemme;1141317]But a younger girl I can give more time than just the 2nd date- correct? I know the rule is usually 3 dates for something sexy to happen.[/QUOTE]
No, you can't. Unless you like to waste time, that is. They know it straight away if they're going to fuck you or not, no need to waste time and money and effort into cultivating immaginary relationships.
Bless
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So why do you guys complain if you're able to get AW. Like that. No meal. Get the digits. Call her over. Throw a DVD in and you strokin that ass. Whats to complaints about. If thats how its working for you guys.
Or are you telling. Cherchez. Just a load of BS. So he too. Can be bitter about not getting laid. Cause the guys says. She should be willing to suck my dick without any dates. After all you did talk to her for a few minutes when you met. Right. What more should it take.
If you guys were getting laid that fast and like that with AW you wouldn't be here complaining. Cherchez. You can listen to the "Simple Jack" bullshit if you want. That's the way you pick up a bona fide hoe.
But if you trying to get a woman. If it only took her 5 mins to suck your dick. How fast will she be on another.
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Littletruths is totally on.
Not only that, even if a girl DOES put out after a few dates, you've just set the whole relationship up for sex in return for expensive entertainment and favors.
I always start out on real cheap dates with girls to get a sense of if they're really interested in me or not.
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Playing us for dinner
I did some field research lately with online dating, on a whim I tried it. I never sent any emails to any woman, rather waited to see if anyone was interested in meeting me. To my surprise, many did, I have a couple pictures showing my "good side" maybe?
I learned a little bit more about their bullshit. On a couple of dates, the discussion was not going well, if my conversation catches them in bullshit or nonsense, this means we've got a problem. What interested me was I got the distinct feeling that two of the women extended our date into having dinner together *to get back at me for spite*. At the time I didn't think about it, but afterwards I realized it.
Some of them were really hot, I was surpised. They all have issues making them somewhat "radioactive" however. Ukranian with 5 year old twins. Gorgeous Chinese with 3 yr old boy. A former Chinese model who was looking for a sugar daddy.
One was also nice, but I could tell she would not let me fuck her. But she does not to expect me to feed her if I see her. So I agree to see her once every week or so, have a coffee and then she makes me a nice meal.
She told me she had been out with some dude a few times and she thinks he won't see her again."I didn't have sex with him, and we had been on a few dates." She KNEW that if she didn't put out her pussy, he would stop taking her out. He didn't text her back since their last sexless meeting. She was a little bit bummed, now she's going to be bored on Saturday night.
She is still hoping to meet some prince charming who will marry her. She is divorced and has kids but they live with the father. This unusual situation may be a red flag, she may be a bit nuts.
I make her laugh when I mentioned some of the fat old women who contacted me on the dating site, I think they're nuts to even think some guy would like to meet them.
She knows that men don't want to just hang out with women, we want sex or we don't spend much time.
She also agrees that all women think their pussy has value, they never trade pussy for nothing. It is traded for meals in restaurants, trips, gifts, and serious relationships and commitment, sometimes houses, kids and retirement accounts.
I'm not on that website any more, it was an experiment but although I met some pretty hot women, they all were seeking marriage and financial salvation, which is not on my agenda. Others were just so over the hill and fat it wasn't even possible.
The American women whom I had contact with had such amazingly unreal expectations and posted pics of them traveling around the world, riding horses and cavorting inside their beautiful (ex husband's) house.
So, to meet someone it's for coffee only. I'll spend just $5 to see if she looks like her pictures.
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Society as a whole. Has a double standard for women. While most guys (me included) wish women would have sex as quickly as a man would. The overall Majority of men in the world would not accept this woman as a partner. Considering her a **** and not worthy to marry or be associated with on a serious relationship. That's just the facts.
So women who act ([B]like a man when it comes to sex[/B]) get labeled and have a much harder time ever finding a boyfiend / husband. Which is the goal of most people in society. Raising a family.
Therefore one has to blame society and the established culture that sets the environment that you guys complain about. If a woman, wants a husband / boyfriend. It to her benefit. Not to appear to be [B]ALWAYS[/B] Easy.
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Not sure of the authors name, it's an oldie but a GOODIE! All so TRUE!
[QUOTE]The mindset of american women and their valuation of their pussy is so fucked up, IMHO. It's all about what your looking for, and the research you put into it. I've been in the game a super long time, and I'm a cheap ass, so I read alot, and have learned to read between the lines. I'm also willing to compromise on a couple of things to get a better deal and / or a better outcome.
I'm willing to sacrifice on a really smoking hot body for a little less perfect that will work harder to compensate.
I'm willing to sacrifice on a young 'un just getting into the game who doesn't know jackshit about life or sexuality for somone a little older who knows what she's in the game for, and how she can get some pleasure out of the deal while she's in.
I'm willing to spend a little more time trying to get the chick off so that she won't remember me as the dude who fucked like a jackrabbit. Don't get it twisted, I'm not giving her the BFE, but I just don't beat it up, and run. Women remember who did what and how, and remember to not answer your next call. And those that don't remember, put a note next to your name and phone number in their address book that reminds them. I've seen it.
I could probably write a book with all of the shit that goes into calculating the risk / reward of a particular target, but I won't bore you.
Light skinned women have been told all their life that they're fine as wine, and that it doesn't get better than them. A mixed girl has been told that she's exotic and that she has the best from both (whatever her parents are) worlds. American women have been told all their life that thin is in. Put the 2 together into a small light-skinned or mixed girl, and you've got a bad azz combination. Literally! You're looking for a woman who thinks she's the cream of the crop, and has been told so over and over. She hasn't had to work hard for shit in her life. No surprise that most of them don't perform.
Women in the game (meaning: strip clubs, CL, women you date) use either their looks to attract you. If she doesn't have looks, she'll use the pussy. Usually IN THAT ORDER. Best believe that if they have the looks, they'd rather not use their pussy, or use it as little as possible. If they have no looks, they'll have amazing pussy, or amazing tricks to show you.
We could go on for a while, but I'm going to put my Ph. D. In Punany Philosophy away for a while, and step off the soap box.
Now, back to the pussy. All this talk is putting me on the hunt. [/QUOTE]