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Cutting Edge,
It was a long time ago, but as I recall, she did have a number of Brasillian guys chasing after her in spite of her attitude. Strange as it may seem, they appeared to be attracted to her in some masochistic way. They were all fairly young, however, late teens to early twenties. It's possible that they just didn't know any better or, they could have been going after a wife that could get them a visa in the UK. I suppose it could have been a contrast kink of sorts - she was basically the complete opposite of most Brisillian women. Who knows?
PanamaJack,
Lesbians in the US. I haven't a clue. But I could speculate that they see it as the only way to have sex without prostituting themselves. As continuously noted throughout this forum, American women won't give you a second glance unless you've got plenty of cash. With this in mind, it could be speculated that subconsiously, lesbians see all heterosexual women as prostitutes & since American society/morality condemns prostitutes, the lesbian subconsious concludes that the only way they can have sex & not be condemned as prostitutes is to have sex with other women. Lesser of two evils?
Another possibility, which has also been mentioned here is that many American women view sex as an act which is being performed upon them, like they're not an active participant or something, regardless of the position/act being performed. Most lesbians are women who enjoy sex, so maybe they want to be an active participant in the sex act and can't see that happening with a man, who would, by this definition be the one performing the sex act upon her.
I've never actually had this discussion with any lesbians, so it's pure speculation.
CW
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Sinanjumaster,
Welcome back, dude! What have you been up to? I trust that you've been getting laid and having a good time.
Yeah, I'm not taking any more of this jive from American women. Will be in Prague in three weeks. Can hardly wait. They have REAL women there who don't view sex as a mechanism to control men.
Good hearing from you.
Paddy
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I was in the UK/Europe the last two weeks. Yes there are some fat & ugly ladies but in general the women are much friendlier than those in the US. Those guys who never been outside the US were stunned by how attractive and charming British girls are compared with American women.
I could easily strike a conversation with in the train or the bus or even on a British Airways flight. There is no comparison just go on an American Airlines flight to London and see what I mean. This is one of the reasons that is making me want to settle in Europe.
I agree with Paddy.
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Chorfa1, your post reminds me of when I first came across that revelation myself. It was like Keanu Reeves in the Matrix when he became aware that there was another world out there and freed himself. Visiting a foreign country, at first, it was weird to encounter beautiful women who were delightfully well-mannered and actually approachable! It was like being on another planet, and I didn't want to leave! Eventually, I had to come back to reality. That caused me to crave offshore beauties even MORE SO. In conclusion, I'm currently engaged in efforts to make that possibility occur more often if not outright permanent-like.
Paddy, many thanx for the "Welcome Back"! I'd almost forgotten the camraderie of exchanging ideas and posts with my brothers-in-arms!
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British---American ....hi guys, I've actually found American women to be more friendly than British women. I think we can put this down to curiosity, when a foreigner talks to them, them what to know a bit more or give you the benefit of doubt. However, if you are from their home country, you're just another sick man looking to have sex with them!
Paddy, how much did those drinks cost you in the living room? Probably more than the price of an allnighter in the 3rd world. Maybe you struck lucky that night, generally it is a rare sight to see a girl kissing a guy in public over here. If they are, then usually it s a 'peck peck' type of kiss.
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Tip for those in cities who want to meet foreign women. www.meetup.com I am going to meet the Russians in London on wednesday under the pretence of needing Russian lessons!
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Cutting Edge,
I think you hit the nail on the head with the "curiosity, when a foreigner talks to them" comment. Maybe it's some primordial urge to expand the gene pool or something - locals are too familiar & therefore wouldn't make good mates - too much chance of inbreeding - foreigners, by definition, are unfamiliar & therefore safe bets against inbreeding.
CW
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Cutting Edge, you may have a point there. I remember when I was once in Atlantic City and I was chatting with a Polish guy and he said that Polish women are bitches. I was thinking: "Huh"? The Polish chicks I met up until that time were pleasant to be around and beautiful. I guess the "exotic" factor allows a guy from another country to cut through the ever present defenses that women have in place. But hey, it ain't like I'm not gonna use that to my advantage! LOL
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Cuttingedge,
Yeah, you're right. The cost of the drinks could have eaily paid for an encounter at one of the many great Saunas in Manchester. The situation, however, was that I had just come from a punt at Sandy's Superstars and went straight to The Living Room. So, I already had my fun for the evening.
It was just that the girl I met at The Living Room was so nice and charming. Talking to her, looking at her, etc. while we were both getting ripped was such a unique experience that I didn't want to stop. I'm from the Midwest and experiences like this are not to be passed up.
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Paddy, its strange that you pulled this chick after visiting a sauna. For some reason I've had similar experiences where I've been to a terma(sauna), serviced a chick then within an hour some normal girl has started chatting me up etc. I eventually I put this down to the girls scent I had laid still being on me, other girls could smell this and were subconciously attracted by it. They always say its easier to get a chick when you already have one. I suppose it is a confirmation that you are worth having.
On a financial note, I figure British women must be the most expensive lays in the world if the stats are anything to go by.
Average length of sex act in the UK = 5 - 8minutes
Average sexual acts per month = 3 - 4
Divorce rate = 50%
Average time elapsed prior to divorce = 5 years
therefore .. 7 x 4 x 12 x 5 = 28 hrs of sex during married life.
Average house price in UK = £180,000 ---- divide by 2
= £90,000
Approximately £3,000 per hour, that excludes all those sundry expenses though, plus the maintenance etc!!
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Cutting Edge,
A compelling financial analysis for seeking out prostitutes vs. a woman for marriage. Although many married guys have long suspected such a cost-benefit disaster, you've laid it out in actual dollars. Well done!
I would also wager that if one factored American women into your analysis, matters would come out even worse.
Yes, isn't it strange how one often meets another woman right after having sex. It's like once you're on a a roll, you just keep going. A guy can also get on a roll in the other direction, too.
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Marriage is a waste of time. Just find a woman you hate and buy her a house. Then come here to Buenos Aires and screw a different woman, or two, or three, every day until your dick falls off.
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Paddy & Cutting Edge - and any others living in the land of POME's,
I think Cutting Edge is right about the scent, pheremones are supposed to be a very powerful tool when it comes to attracting the opposite sex & the fact that you just had sex, I think, means that your pheremones will be a bit stronger than normal. I suppose it could be that the other womans scent turned her on as well.
One thing I've always found interesting, is that married men seem to get hit on by single women a hell of a lot more than single guys. I don't know if any of you are familiar with The Tower, in Hull (very large & very loud disco/techno bar) - they have a section inside the club that is actually fairly quiet & set up like a pub. About 6 years ago, I was drinking beer there with 3 of my friends, 2 of them were married (one British, one American), the third, who lives in Thailand (he's American), had a ring that was turned around so it looked like a wedding band. There were a few women in this part of the club & as soon as they saw the "wedding bands" they were all over these guys. Being the only guy in our group without a ring, I felt compelled to enquire as to why they were so attracted to guys who were obviously married - the girls all said something along the lines of "guaranteed: NO STRINGS ATTACHED!" They were after a one night stand & figured that a married guy would do the deed and never bother them again. I have to say, that none of these girls were, IMHO, terribly attractive, but you tend to notice when you're the only one who looks single in the group and you're also the only one in the group that the girls aren't terribly interested in (vanity?). While my American accent helped, they said that they didn't want to take a chance with a single guy! My buddy from Thailand never let on that his ring was turned around.
CW
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What is with this apologist mentality towards American woman? Everyone is trying to point to some external factor for the negative experiences that are so common with North American females. Some go as far as to blame us guys and our attitude. One guy even said a lot of us American males are bitter and even envious towards our females. Bitterness? Ha! What a bunch of bull, I am in no way bitter towards American women. What I am bitter for is the false media hype and baseless propaganda that American women are the best in the world. There are some idiots around the globe who think that American women are better than their own local ladies. I even knew a Brazilian who watched Baywatch and honestly thought the typical American lady looks like Yasmine Bleeth and Pamela A. There are numbskulls like this all around the world who have a TV or who has seen an American movie that gullibly believe that the typical American woman looks like Britney Spears or Angelina Jolie. That is total nonsense because women like Britney and Angelina represent a very small elite group of American woman who can be considered sexy, and I would say women in this category are probably one percent or less. In most good European countries women of the "hot" uberclass as we know it in the USA represent at least 33% percent of the population. I can walk through Amsterdam and find that 2/3rd's of the women in that city are sexually attractive and at least half of that proportion would give me an instant hard-on. When I was in Germany, I saw similar stats, at least one third of the women there in their 20's were hot and this contrasted sharply with the USA where in most cities only a tiny percentage of the women were attractive. Only in places in the sunbelt states the percentage of attractive ladies go up as in Miami and LA, even then the women there have a ***** factor. Australia also has plenty of lovely ladies and due to the fact that it is immigrant friendly with large numbers of women from Asia, Europe and South Africa entering the country, the number of hotties will continually increase.
As for Australia a lot of American guys should really visit this country and see how the local Australian men treat the women here, its quite shocking, because despite the fact that Australian women are some of the most attractive and charming in the world, they are often treated harshly by the local Australian men. There is a lot of chauvinism down under and a more a guy from North America who is generally more gentlemanly towards women is going to do a lot better than the local Aussie guys. The other issue is the exoticism factor, where an American male accent will be seen as interesting, sexy, and exotic.
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CBGBConnisur, you've twitched my antennae regarding Australia. I've always (since a kid) wanted to go there, and NOW I know why!
To digress for a second; a coworker who is in marital shackles (and a PRIME candidate for conversion to this website) actually had some HUGE cojones for a minute and told his selfish b**** of a warden (whoops! I meant WIFE) "If you keep talking shit like THAT, I'll trade you in for a 26 year old who WILL kiss my ass"! Man, for a second, I felt he developed a cape, a pair of red boots and an "S" on his chest, I was so proud of him! LOL
So, CBGBConnisur, have you been there many times? If so, did you concentrate your efforts on the major cities like Sydney or did you actually travel out west to the more remote parts?