[quote=bart9000]there is something to this. women generally want to fuck men who are "cool", masculine, self confident, nicely put together etc.....something that i have found out over the years. is that it is extremely difficult to be these things while you are chasing them around on your knees begging them for sex. so don't. maintain yourself in a somewhat friendly but cool and aloof manner (you don't want to become "friends" with her.....next thing you know, she will be regaling you with tales about the exciting guys she is fucking. use the telephone only as a tool to plan meetings. don't "chat" with her like her girlfriends). if you have any chance at all, she will notice, and believe it or not, maybe even start "crushing" on you as a "real man", not like the million pathetic chumps (per my previous posts) who hit on her daily. she will, if interested, start dropping hints.
the proper way to ask her out at the appropriate time is:
"i'm going to cafe bon femme tonight to get some beef burgoneisse (sp). do you want to come?" (note: don't try to impress her or buy her off with the restaurant or the event. filling her tummy with lobster makes you into a used tool if she decides not to put out.....and if going to bennigans to watch the game is more your speed, go with that)
her: mmmmmm i love french food.
you: ok meet me (notice that this is a command, not a request) at the nice bar around the corner at 6:00. we can grab a drink before dinner.
her: i don't get off work until 6:30.
you: i guess that's ok. we can go a little later. meet me at the bar at 7:00 then. here is my cell number. call me if you are running late. (she may reciprocate with her number)
a closing bit of wisdom. the attractive young woman is like a cat. if you chase it, it will run away. if you ignore it however, it will end up on your lap.
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a. i'm being an ass quoting myself
b. waaay off the current topic of conversation.
but i had to bring this up:
this guy i work with is absolutely pathetic. he, in his mid late thirties is still acting like the most pathetic of schoolboys with women.....following them around like a puppydog, jumping up and down for their approval, giving compliments, kissing hands literaly and kissing ass metaphoricaly.................he's called my smoking hot little friend (after obtaining her number under the pretense of going to a movie as "just friends"-she panicked and gave it to him to avoid an awkward situation)......he has since, for the last 10 days or so, called her every night ......and usually a late night attempt at a "booty call" too..
i laughed my ass off yesterday. i, in two seconds accomplished much more towards getting some ass (i wasn't actually trying mind you), when i handed a small handfull of garbage (sweetner packages for my coffee), to an 18 year old piece of ass (not my friend), and commandingly instructed her to "file this" into the adjacent wastebasket. i would be willing to bet good money that the little tiny nothing flash of testicular fortitude caused more of a "warm glowey" feeling in the bottom of her stomach, than any endless hours of pathetic ass kissing.
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