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To Mystic Pimp,
I read every single word on that nomarriage website. Whoever put that thing up must have got burned big-time! I really do feel for him though.
I enjoyed your top ten reasons list. However, with regards to point number two, be careful with that co-habitation thing. In some places if you live with the woman for a long enough period of time, you may be considered to be common-law partners.
This means she may have her hooks into you in a real and legally binding sense, even if you never formally got married!
Point number 6 hmmmm. You'll be waiting a long time for that one.
Point number 8, reluctant is not a strong enough word! (LOL)
Point number 10, amen to that one brothers.
Rock
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I can't take credit for that top 10 list, it was on the website
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I figured out what type of man is absolutely irresistible to women, unfortunately men like this don't exist in real life. Women want a guy who is strong, a provider, a protecter, a hero. Unfortunately we don't live in a comic book world but man if I was a superhero imagine how the ladies would treat me regardless of where on Earth I roam, I'm sure even the babes who flock to Tobey Maguire and Hugh Jackman get let down, when these dudes don't have any special powers in real life, and are just regular mortals.
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CBGBConnisur,
you have a point there, but I took it along another path and figured that they want what they CAN NOT HAVE OR CONTROL. I've seen acquaintances of mine (and even myself) fall victim to their fickleness. If you don't throw obstacles in their way and make them work for it, they think to themselves: "If it's THAT easy to get him, he CAN'T be worth it". I witnessed this fucked up train of thought on their part MANY TIMES, only to see them turn around and go full throttle for guys who they KNOW are gonna punish them in one way or another. But hey, they say that women are the smarter of the species. Makes me wonder. ANYWAY, whenever I see a divorcee with rugrats in tow, I know that at one time she may have been hot, but natural born stupidity on her part landed her where she currently is. Do I feel sorry for these broads? FUCK NO! My philosophy is: "You got a brain, you can put two and two together, but STILL come with FIVE, you got what you deserve!"
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You guys are on the right track, but consider this for a while.
Maybe, just maybe, women are like us. They see a guy and they aren't sure if they can "get him". They pull the usual routine, waving a little promise of some pussy around. If the guy goes for it just like that, they evaluate what happened.
Women are always doing this. They have a self-image that is continually undergoing a process of calibration. When they get a guy easily, the self-image is calibrated upwards. This leads them to try and see if they can do better, because they want a better guy to match their continually escalating ego.
If they can't get a guy, the self-image gets calibrated downwards. This is especially likely to happen if they get turned down a couple of times in a row.
The trick is to find the right balance. Don't give in and be a chump. On the other hand, don't make it too hard for her. Keep her a little off balance so that her calibration process is always going. That way she won't get the idea that she can do better.
The problem is that there's so many chumps out there who are desperate for some action. They keep trying and trying. What happens then is that we end up with a lot of women who have unrealistic over-inflated opinions of themselves.
What does a woman have that I need anyways? Pussy? Nope, thanks to P4P I can get that any time I want. Companionship? HAH, that's even easier! This whole country is filled with women who just "want to be friends".
This is how I see it for myself. I'm not that bad looking. I stay in good shape. I'm smart and I have a six figure income. It's not whether I deserve her, it's whether or not SHE deserves ME.
If you play it any other way, you're playing a losers game.
Sorry about the rant,
Rock
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Sorry for WHAT? Hitting the nail on the head and further explaining what I left out? No apologies needed...
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Hello all,
I am an American living abroad living in Beijing, China. Here is a little perspective - I can tell you women are all the same the world over. The women here will cock tease you to no end. I know an attractive local Chinese woman here who gets hit on all the time. Her English is exceptional; she is charming and a hottie to boot. She leases apartments to foreigners so she comes into contact with guys at cocktail events all the time. So many guys hit on her she has absolutely become the biggest cock tease I know of. Guys fall all over her, and because of this, she absolutely has an absurdly elevated image of herself. Unfortunately I have been one of those stupid suckers who took her out to dinner a couple of times. Anyway, comparing notes with friends, she absolutely is exactly this type of girl Rock Dog is talking about. They exist in numerous quantities in China just like in the States and I am sure everywhere else in the world.
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Mock A Bee,
I read your report. Hey, first off I want to say thanks for reading what I wrote. It's nice to know that the message is getting out there :).
What you said about that chinese girls doesn't surprise me one bit. I've had a fair bit of personal experience with asian people and I can tell you that asian guys can be world-class chumps when it comes to women. It's like a competition or something. Chinese, vietnamese or whatever. They all go around spending money trying to outdo each other and impress the women.
Guess what happens then? The same old story, the girls get used to it and before you know it they start thinking that that's the kind of treatment they're entitled to. Those asian girls may look innocent and submissive, but most of them are cunning little schemers. They all keep track of how well their friends are doing. Who's boyfriend is a doctor/pharmacist/dentist etc. Very materialistic and very competitive if you ask me.
It's not all bad. Smart, loyal, slim, petite and pretty. They'll stick around as long as you can pay for their shopping. That's not such a bad trade for the tightest pussy in the world.
They have our women beat by a country mile :D.
Rock
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In regards to American women and how they are (eventually) bad for American men, what are your opinions on American college girls? Sorority girls?
Personally, I think a majority of sororities on college campuses are just havens for future American women that American men won't be able to stand.
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Mystic Pimp,
Colleges and universities are breeding grounds for lesbianism and radical feminism. The attractive ones spend their time refining their cock-teasing skills to the highest degree as they seek out the chump who is most able and most likely to give them what they want.
Personally, I think many of the attitudes and concepts that have spoiled women here have been instilled before they even get to university. They learn it from their friends, TV, magazines and movies before they're even done their teenage years.
I was watching this show on TV a couple of days ago. It's that model show with Tyra Banks, I think it's called America's Next Top Model or something like that. Anyways, one of these girls was talking on the phone with her boyfriend. She had admitted to cheating on him. Here comes the sickening part, he's OK with it. He's saying shit like "let's just concentrate on us, and I want to be with you."
I couldn't believe it. Well, actually I could because this guy represents the typical pussy-whipped chump that you see so often. He's so desperate to hang on to this girl, he's willing to overlook that she fucked around on him. Why?? Because she's "a Model". Personally, I didn't think she was even that great looking.
Thats what happens when good looking women are in such short supply. They know they have what all the guys want and the advantage is on their side. The typical chump accepts this and enters into competition with all the other chumps trying to get the "girl of his dreams". The women get spoiled and develop the attitude that they deserve everything just for agreeing to let the guy go out with them.
By the time they hit their twenties, they're already well-trained.
My advice is not to play the losers game where the odds are stacked against you. If you're looking for something permanent, look somewhere else where the women are more attractive. Some place where women don't get poisoned with crazy ideas. Asian girls are usually a pretty good bet. I'm sure there's lots of hot chicks from South America that would be happy to step in and take over where our women have failed so badly.
My 2 cents for today,
Rock
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Mystic Pimp,
I'm not much on U.S. coeds, myself. They aren't any different in thinking that they're the shit, plus they play a lot of guys at that age (mostly because the guys they run into aren't yet very aware of the "Game"). I could be wrong, but that was MY experience (of course there is an exception to every rule).
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Just a short thought for today.
I was at the YMCA today. Just having a workout and checking out the chicks around the gym. I'm kind of picky when it comes to a womans' body. They better be in pretty good shape before I get interested, let alone turned on.
I noticed a lot of the girls seem to carry themselves a certain way. Some just walk around doing their thing. But others really strut like they are hot stuff. That's when it occurred to me. There are far too many average looking women in this country that see a supermodel every time they look in the mirror. Has anybody else noticed this, or am I the only one?
Here's the funny part. I have a woman that is unbelievably good looking. Her body is almost perfect, at least a 9.5. Long legs, perfect tits, perfect ass. She's 5'9" and 122 pounds with all-natural C cup and a nice face too. She blows these other girls right of the map in the looks department. As if that wasn't good enough, she's from overseas, so she has a better personality and attitude as well.
Here's the even funnier part. These girls at the gym usually don't give me a second glance, probably because they figure I'm not the "dream guy" they think they deserve and hope to get. Then they see me with my woman and that's when they start checking me out. All of a sudden I've got it going on. It's like having a beautiful girlfriend makes you a member of some secret club or something.
Must be tough for them when they realize the truth. THEY'RE the ones that don't have a chance with ME... not the other way 'round.
It's the moments like these that make life great :) !
Rock
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I think what alot of you guys are saying is that women are not that different in the games they play than we are. What's the surprise? Do you really want someone who is always meek, always submissive, provides unlimited sex on demand and has no opinions of her own, no life except the role of being "your woman" and no real character? Doesn't every relationship need some edge, or some shared aspect of respect for each other as people?
it's been my experience, perhaps different from yours, that women are as confused and screwed up about what they really want as men are. On the one hand, they have no respect for spineless, begging men who fawn all over them and provide whatever they want. On the other hand, they're scared of men who are too strong because they don't want to sacrifice their own individuality.
I'm old enough to believe that the two sexes are doomed never to understand each other fully and that most of us will keep looking even if we do not know exactly what we're looking for.
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Do you really want someone who is always meek, always submissive, provides unlimited sex on demand and has no opinions of her own, no life except the role of being "your woman"
Ummmm, yes.